我不知道这个对话有多大的意义,但在宽慰别人的时候多少对自己有些警醒的意味.在人的这个STAGE自省很重要。

MASA 说:
how is everything going on with u?

Adriano 说:
 so so my fried, but I am not feeling too bad, health is fine, money too... busy life
 but just dropped my Chinese bf last week... I could not take anyomre
 what about you?
MASA 说:
 what happened?
Adriano 说:
 he was always complaining about my love for him, kept saying that I don't love him enough
MASA 说:
 same thing. i was dating one guy. Then he thought we didnt clicked that well.then we finished.
Adriano 说:
 I did all I could to make him feel wanted and happy
MASA 说:
 he is in china?
Adriano 说:
 no, he stayed at my place for few months and then had to go away to work
MASA 说:
 see
Adriano 说:
 I helped him a lot to get a work permit
MASA 说:
 i thought it would be too difficult otherwise.
 jesus
 that again
Adriano 说:
 he is now a regular worker here
 no, he did not use me for that\
MASA 说:
 ok
 thats good
Adriano 说:
 I know he was honest
MASA 说:
 ok
 well .relationship thing is way too difficult
Adriano 说:
 but he was too moody, one day he was happy the next he was miserable
 and throwing everythiug back to me
 I don;t love him enough to take all this shit
 I gave him last time some money for his father's operation in China
MASA 说:
 ....
 well .we all have to think clear before we act
MASA 说:
 there is too many things going on in peoples mind right now
Adriano 说:
 yes, his mind was very mixed up
MASA 说:
 TAKE CARE OF URSELF WELL
 OTHERS CAN LET IT BE
Adriano 说:
 right now I will take lots of time off this kind of affairs
MASA 说:
 yep
 its not worthy
Adriano 说:
 I don't want anymore to waste time
 sex was good with him but in the end I cannot build a relationship on that alone
 I am studying Chinese and he was not helping me at all
 jutst discouraging me
MASA 说:
 AT CERTAIN STAGE IN LIFE .SEX IS minimal THING
Adriano 说:
 yes, at my age for sure...
MASA 说:
 IN THAT CASE.let be chilled

Adriano 说:
  I wanted to share my world but he did not fit in
 anyway now I stopped even sending sms to him, I will still see him but the way he behaved towards me was very negative
 enough of that
 are you still single?
MASA 说:
 YES I AM
 I think relatiionship is very hard
 demand a lot of attention and funny thing is. it should be the easyiest thing in the world
 i am willing to give and receving love. But obviously i am not doing good
Adriano 说:
 there is still one guy I love very much... and we chat sometimes but he is not really much in love with me or at least he is not willing to say that
MASA 说:
 why?
 whats with him?
Adriano 说:
 no idea, he is happy to be a friedn to me but his love is not that stroing, yet we have been chatting for many yeras and I even met him in Singapore
 he made sure I could not even touch him
MASA 说:
 i dont think it would work
 long-distance for many people is not a easy thing
Adriano 说:
 maybe he loves me but he is afraid to let things go too far
MASA 说:
 u can ask
Adriano 说:
 yet he is constant in his interets for my life
 oh no, I did ask and he went beserk
 strange guy, yet I feel so good with him
 we argue a lot and like a married couple we keep hanging around
MASA 说:
 but that wont keep things moving
 especially u r not in the same place

Adriano 说:
 we started being in touch in 2007
 and we are still in touch
MASA 说:
 in touch is one thing but connect and live together is another
 we have fears
Adriano 说:
 sure, I believe in fate although I am working hard for my happiness and for those I love

  you should enjoy life for what it gives you and appreciate your fortune however small it may be
 I am contented of my lot
 I have friends who love me and that is sure