与一位妇人的约会 A Date With a Woman
(2012-09-02 20:33:58)
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DATE WITH A WOMAN
After 21 years of Marriage, my Wife wanted me to take another Woman
out to Dinner
and a Movie.
She said I Love You but I know this other Woman loves you and would
Love
to spend some
Time with You.
The other Woman that my Wife wanted me to visit was my
MOTHER,
who has been a Widow for 19 years,
but the demands of my Work and my three Children had made it
possible
to visit her
only occasionally.
That night I called to Invite her to go out for Dinner and a
Movie.
'What's wrong, are you
well,' she asked?
My Mother is the type of Woman who suspects that
a Late Night Call or a Surprise Invitation is a sign of Bad
News.
'I thought that it would be pleasant to
be with you,'
I
responded.
'Just the two of
us.'
She thought about it for a moment, and
then said,
'I would like that very much.'
That Friday
after work, as I drove over to pick her up I was a bit
Nervous.
When I arrived at her House, I noticed that she too seemed to be
Nervous
about our
Date.
She waited in the Door with her Coat on.
She had Curled her Hair and was wearing the Dress that she had worn
to
Celebrate her
last Wedding Anniversary.
She smiled from a face that was as Radiant as an Angel's.
'I told my Friends that I was going to
go out with My Son, and they were impressed,
'
She said, as she got into the Car.
'They can't wait to hear about our
meeting'.
We went to a Restaurant that,
although not Elegant, was very Nice and Cozy.
My Mother took my Arm as if She were the First Lady.
After we sat down, I had to read the Menu. Large Print.
Half way through the entries, I lifted my eyes and saw Mom
sitting
there staring at me.
A Nostalgic
Smile was on her Lips.
'It was I who used to have to Read the
Menu when you were Small,'
She said.
'Then it's Time that you Relax and let
me Return the Favor,'
I responded.
During the Dinner, we had an Agreeable Conversation,
nothing
We talked so much that we missed the Movie.
As we arrived at her House later,
She said, 'I'll go out with you again,
but only if you let me invite you.'
I agreed.
'How was your Dinner
Date?' asked My Wife when I got Home.
'Very Nice. Much more so than I could
have Imagined,' I answered.
A few days later, my Mother died of a Massive Heart Attack.
It happened so suddenly that I didn't have Time to do anything for
her.
Some time later, I received an Envelope with a Copy of a Restaurant
Receipt
from the same place Mother and I had dined.
An Attached Note Said:
'I paid this Bill in
Advance.
I wasn't sure that I could be there;
But nevertheless, I paid for Two Plates –
One for You and the Other for Your Wife.
You will never know what that Night meant for
Me.
I Love You,
My
Son.'
At that moment, I understood the
Importance of saying in Time:
'I LOVE YOU!'
and to give our
Loved Ones the Time that they Deserve.
Nothing in Life is more important than God and your Family.
Give them the Time they Deserve, because these Things
cannot be
Put Off till
'Some Other Time.'
Pass This Along To Everyone
With An Aging
Parent,
To A
Child,
To An Adult,
To Anyone With A Parent,
And Most Importantly,
To Someone

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