熟人之间的潜规则，太精辟了！

1、居视其所亲。

看一个人平常都与谁在一起：如与贤人亲，则可交，若与小人为伍，就要当心。

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2、富视其所与。

看一个人如何支配自己的财富：如只满足自己的私欲，贪图享乐，则不可交，如接济穷人，或培植有为之士，则可交。

3、达视其所举。

一个人处于显赫之时，就要看他如何选拔部属：若任人为贤，则是良士真人，反之，则不可交。

4、窘视其所不为。

当一个人处于困境时，就要看其操守如何;若不做苟且之事，不出卖良心，则可交，反之，则不可交。

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5、贫视其所不取。

人在贫困潦倒之际也不取不义之财，则可交，反之，则不可亲。