2012年12月27日，老师翻着我的论文草稿，说，你终于走到这一步。2013年1月8日早晨，老师回邮件说，我有课不能帮你看PPT了，娃你自求多福吧。2013年1月8日下午5点，很久以来第一次见老师笑得那么轻松，恭喜你，你可以改论文了，应该会按时毕业的，终于要把PhD后面那个candidate去掉了。
2013年1月15日下午2点，老师看完修改第一稿，说了下一步的大改意见，笑，要是做完那结果可真好，恭喜你，能按时毕业了。我说也得改完啊，只有两个礼拜。两个礼拜？You
can do it.前面两年半，每次一到deadline他就各种怀疑的口吻，Can you？
我用两年半的时间，把老师的疑问句改成了肯定句。
三年以来不管是过生日去神社还是掉睫毛，我都许同一个愿望——按时毕业。长这么大第一次如此执着，以至于不管是老师还是神明都终于被烦到不得不让我如愿。2013年3月26日，我毕业了。
（就是这张照片啦，丫头跟我说:二娘，这张照片是毕业时学校摄影师抓拍到的，放到了facebook上，据说秒杀不少人的眼球。樱花、知性美女，也晃了我的眼）
我一直幻想着毕业的情景。春天，哪怕樱花在3月底还没开。今年樱花神奇的提前十天开了，想想三年前入学式樱花满开，多少让我自恋的认为这是上天的眷顾，以某种形式为我庆祝。
但是不管怎么幻想，心情无论如何不能预知。蛇年的春节，坐在研究室改论文的第N稿，写了致谢，哭得一塌糊涂。
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“一段旅程即将走到终点的时候，总要回头看看自己走过的路。读博大概是我头30年人生中作出的最无知但又是最无悔的决定。回首过去三年的旅程，充满希望，失望，困难，奋斗，微笑，泪水，成为我人生中最美好的时光。”曾经以为我肯定会想起自己如何不容易，或者把自己写得多么奋斗励志，到头来想的其实只有大家对我的各种好，跟电影似的清晰，全是煽情的镜头。所以在25号的送别会上，我这么说的：“Pursuing
the doctorate was a tough andchallenging journey, but with all of
you, it was also full of joyand laughter
(读博确实苦逼，但因为有了你们，这一路上也充满了欢笑。).”话就这么简单，论文里的致谢也不过只有一页，但这背后的人，事，以及情感，要写也绝不会比论文薄。
以下致谢写在我论文的最后一页，也是最重要的一页。
One of the joys of completion
is to look over the journey pastand remember all the friends and
family who have helped andsupported me along this long but
fulfilling road. Completing thedoctorate is probably the most
challenging activity of the first 30years of my life. The best and
worst moments of this journey havebeen shared with many people. It
has been a great privilege tospend the past three years at Tokyo
Tech, and its members willalways remain dear to
me.
My first debt of gratitude
must go to my supervisor, Dr. T.K.He patiently provided the vision,
advice, and encouragement for meto proceed through the doctoral
program. He has been a strong andsupportive adviser to me, but he
has always given me great freedomto pursue independent work. I want
to thank Dr. T.K. that hiscuriosity to the unknown study field,
passion for the research andconscientious attitude for education
serving as a role model to meas a junior member of
academia.
Special thanks to my
examiners, Dr. T.I., Dr. T.N., Dr. T.A.,and Dr. S.T., who provided
encouraging and constructive feedbacks.It is no easy task to review
a thesis, and I am grateful for theirinsightful and detailed
comments.
My study was involved in the G project with the support of JSTand
JICA through the SATREPS, which I greatly acknowledge here. Ialso
take this opportunity to sincerely acknowledge otherresearchers of
the G project, whose suggestions and encouragementhave made an
invaluable contribution to my study.
Members of T.K. Lab as well as T.I. and T.N. Lab deserve
mysincerest thanks, their assistance and friendship meant more to
methan I could ever express. Special thanks go to Fabi for
fieldmeasurements and evaporation analysis; H.T. for the
modelimprovement and calibration; Dr. LC and WZJ for their
inspirationthrough my study; LIN and XIN for their warm
encouragement in timesof difficulty; Dr. Y.M., Dr. XU, ZENG, and
GAO for their technicalsupport. My friends in Japan, China and
other parts of the worldwere my sources of laughter, joy, and
support.
Last but not least, I wish to thank my parents, my grandpa,and my
late grandma for their sincere encouragement and
inspirationthroughout my research work and their unconditional love
lifting meuphill this phase of life. My husband, who constantly
urges me tostudy hard, his love and support allowed me to finish
this journey.I owe everything to them. I hope that this work makes
youproud.Tong On the ChineseNew Year of 2013,
Japan.
P.S.:9月，LC毕业时候最后大家一起唱友谊地久天长的英文版Auld Lang
Syne，我观礼都差点感动哭了。3月，唱的是日文版蛍の光，因为光顾着看读音，也不能深刻领会精神，倒没有顾上哭。旁边一个日本女生音乐一起就哭了，蛍の光从明治年间编进了小学歌集，也许十几年前她小学毕业典礼上唱的也是这首歌。
蛍の光、窓の雪、書読む月日、重ねつゝ、何時しか年も、すぎの戸を、開けてぞ今朝は、別れ行く。
祝福Tong丫头！
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