幸福与感觉

Happiness & Feelings

快乐的含义是什么？一种情感？生活方式？过程？目的？还是一种愿望？答案是显而易见的 - 保持一个积极健康的心态。但我认为，理解和被理解是一种完美的快乐，换言之，理解和亲善是一种至高无上的幸福。-- 我只是这么认为的，但我常常觉得很难做到这一点（主要是因为我过于敏感），遇到的一些让我无法理解的事情我总是钻牛角尖（事实上我在情感上是一个很脆弱的人，我承认这一点），但我一直在努力提高自己在这种或那种方式。

是的，理解和亲善是人际关系的前提。人与人之间的这种积极的关系往往会缩小两人之间的距离，并消除潜在的误解和隔阂，避免冲突 - 这实际上是道德的最高境界，是一种美德，一种进步。事实上，幸福与爱是有很大的关联性。

-- 所以我认为，幸福是无处不在的阳光，除非你感觉不到它。

2014年3月4日。

Happiness and Feelings

What's the happiness itself? an emotion? way of life? process? aim? or aspiration? the answer is evident - keep a positive and healthy attitude. but i think UNDERSTANDING AND BEING UNDERSTOOD is a kind of perfect happiness. that is to say, UNDERSTANDING AND GOODWILL is a supreme happiness. -- I just think so, but I often find it hard to do this (mainly because I was too sensitive), and when I come across some can not understand things I always get into a dead end (In fact, my personality is very fragile, and I admit it),but I am always trying to improve myself in one way or another. 

Yes, understanding and goodwill is the premise of interpersonal relationship. Positive relations between people tend to narrow the distance between two people, and to eliminate potential misunderstandings and estrangement, avoid conflicts-- this is actually the highest level of ethics, a virtue and a kind of progress. And happiness actually is the main correlate of love. 

-- So I think that Happiness is everywhere as sunlight unless you can't feel it out.

March 4, 2014. 

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