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这个博客是献给我的姨妈，我爱的人和所有爱我的人；你们的爱和帮助，使我成为一个更好的人。我很感谢你们为我所做的一切，我将永远感激你们的善良与慷慨!!
~ 伊利亚·阿利耶夫·彼得罗维奇
This blog is
dedicated to my maternal aunt, someone I love and all who love me;
Your love and help made me a better person. I'm very grateful for
everything you're have done for me, and I will always be grateful
for your kindness and generosity!!! ~ Ilya A.
Petrovich.
用博客，照片和音乐记录我的生活。
支持情感交流，分享智慧和友谊。
大家好，我是伊利亚·阿利耶夫·彼得罗维奇（俄语：Илья
Алиев Петрович） - 是俄罗斯“银剑”控股集团区域项目管理的前合伙人。我出生于1976年1月31日在基辅，是乌克兰和俄罗斯犹太人血统，并从小在一个种族混合的家庭长大，但我在我的生活中从未见过我的亲生父母。我敢肯定这是我一生的遗憾，是我生命中的一个终身错误和损失！！...
我毕业于俄罗斯别尔哥罗德国立大学（2001年），吉尔吉斯国立大学（2007年）和美国卡内基梅隆大学泰珀商学院（2011年）。我获得了我的工商管理硕士学位（MBA）从卡内基梅隆大学泰珀商学院，并持有国际专业认证的项目管理专业人员（PMP）证书，由美国项目管理协会（PMI®）颁发。（有关我更多的个人信息，请点击链接到我的中文版个人网站，以探索我的世界！）
我是一个虔诚的福音派基督徒和积极的个人生活教练。我也是一个充满激情的，多才多艺的业余设计师（在形象设计和平面设计方面），双语作家，翻译，摄影爱好者和狂热的音乐迷。我目前精通包括乌克兰语（母语），俄语（第二语言），汉语，英语和土耳其语在内的八种语言，并会说几种突厥语方言，比如吉尔吉斯语，哈萨克语，乌兹别克语和阿塞拜疆语等等。此外，我目前正在温习法语和德语，特别是我的拼写。我还想学习匈牙利语和日语。这纯粹是一种“无师自通”的爱好，完全是源自一种激情而非职业起源。当然，从不同的角度看，知识和学习是一种乐趣，它让我增加了永久的幸福感和平衡感。因此，作为一个语言爱好者和创造性的终身学习者，我不得不说，语言和多元文化一直是我最大的激情。
我记得我开始学习汉语是在我12岁那一年！我的姨妈开始教我文学和汉语（姨妈是一位杰出的汉学家，曾在前苏联时期被授予列宁勋章）。我不认为汉语是世界上最难的语言。...
而在此之前，我曾花了四年时间居住在中国，有很多中国朋友和追随者（无论是在现实生活中还是在社交网络），他们认为我是一个真正的“中国通”或“中国问题专家”，你可以想像我很流畅。多年来，我喜欢冥想。热爱居住在乡村和迷人的黑海海岸。喜欢唱歌，书法，字体，绘画；多语种写作，骑马和徒步旅行，等等。并一直对美味的土豆烧牛肉很上瘾
:-)
我不知道我是否有资格作为一个癌症幸存者，但我觉得应该是。三年前（2012年10月7日），我被诊断为晚期脑癌(GBM)，医生宣布我只剩下五到六个月的生命，并认为我会活过一年这是极不可能的！！！...
从此，我的世界在一夜之间完全改变了。我的生活被眼泪，愤怒和无奈接手。我觉得我被海浪打翻，快要淹死了。我被恐惧和绝望所麻痹，不知道该做什么。这对我来说是一个巨大的打击。我知道恐惧和焦虑往往源于胆怯和无知。当时我最糟糕的状态就是恐惧和焦虑，我觉得这会是我仅剩下的最后一点生命了。...
从那以后，我开始尝试改变自己，开始学会自我控制。我发现饮食对焦虑的影响很大。我尽量避免任何糖类，咖啡因，酒精（其实我一直讨厌酒精），变质的脂肪；并远离了一切加工食品。并根据医生的建议，我开始每天喝大量的驴奶（驴奶据说对人体健康有益，特别是对癌症）。另一方面，我把自己深深地融入到这个话题中去学习如何把肌肉和力量训练与有氧运动结合起来，以获得我想要的结果。是的，当你开始改变你的思维，你就可以开始改变你的行为。在这之前我不知道有多少次希望能有一个带走我所有的恐惧和焦虑的“魔杖”。但在接下来的几年时间里，奇迹真的发生了！这是令人难以置信的！我曾多次与死神擦肩而过，似乎变得更勇敢，更冷静，更成熟——我想我已经证明了自己的勇气和毅力。这些年来，我发现自己正在经历的一些事情是我从来没有想到过的，但我从来没有给死神一个下手的机会，因为我从来没有被淹没在恐惧和绝望的泥潭当中。这是我生命中迄今为止最有价值的部分！...
3年过去了，我不仅没有死，而且我的精神状态比以往任何时候都更加坚强。是的，生活并不总是一床玫瑰，你得起床，去克服它，变得更坚强。在此期间，我有幸见证了自己的成长和变化，也目睹了我人生旅途中的挫折与苦难。我可以享受在我的人生旅途中用我的能量来支持自我成长的养分，我开始愈合！！！我以此为傲！！！
回首往事，我有过很多精彩的人生体验。尽管我在我的职业生涯取得了一些成就，但同时我也经历了我生命中的第一次暴风雪。我并不像我想的那么健康。长期的压力积累对我的健康，身体，心理和情绪产生了深远的负面影响。我知道这是可怕的，但要保持开放的心态。这些经历已开始改变我对逆境的态度，并创建了很多新的梦想。感谢上帝的恩典！！但是战斗才刚刚开始...
亲爱的，其实疾病并不可怕，可怕的是懒惰、恐惧、沮丧和对生活失去信心，这会让你更加颓废！即使我们完全被黑暗包围，我们也必须保持一个燃烧的光。如果我们能够保持这种精神力量的统一，我们就能铺平了道路，创建一个光明的未来。就像一个常年的泉水永不枯竭。重要的不是我们如何死去，而是我们如何去抓住我们少的可怜的余生。这是我在过去的三年中得到的最大的经验之一。如果现在有人问我，在过去的三年里你生命中最大的变化是什么？我的答案是：我比以前有了更多的耐心，也学会了更加深远的爱。但在过去，我可能无法找到一个答案。...
所以，作为一个“癌症幸存者”，我只想强调一点，如果你或你爱的人的生命也面临着疾病的挑战，我希望我的故事可以作为一种资源和灵感，帮助你们战胜对疾病和死亡的恐惧。
顺便说一下，我从小迷恋中国文化。多年来，我一直对研究中国传统文化感兴趣。在追逐这些兴趣的过程中有几个因素也直接影响了我。首先，我接触过的中国文化始终贯穿于我的生活。我一直在学习繁体字。我认为繁体字是中国文化的精髓。...
我很期待能有机会再次重返中国！！！
所有最良好的祝愿，
伊利亚。
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附：GBM（胶质母细胞瘤）是一种罕见的疾病，它的分类名称是“多形性胶质母细胞瘤”，也被称为IV级星形细胞瘤，是人类最常见的、也是最具侵袭性的恶性原发性脑肿瘤。据说，被诊断为GBM的患者一年内死亡率可达50%，而在三年内可高达90%。治疗包括化疗，放疗和手术治疗。由于我的癌症是在一个晚期，并且肿瘤包裹着脑动脉。因此，纳米粒子为基础的基因冷冻治疗和核医学疗法是我唯一的选择。这是一个无痛苦，无副作用，而且很奇特的治疗体验，它有一个巨大的潜力对于疾病的治疗。
本文最后更新于2015年6月30日。
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Supporting emotion communication, Sharing the wisdom
and friendship.
Hi guys, My name’s
Ilya A. Petrovich (Russian: Илья Алиев Петрович) - is the regional
project management former partner of the Russian "Silver-sword"
Holdings. I was born on January 31, 1976 in Kiev, was of Ukrainian
and Russian Jew descent and grew up in a mixed-race family that but
I have never seen my biological parents in my life. I am sure that
this is a lifelong regret of my life, and is a lifelong wrong and
loss in my life!! ... I graduated from the
Belgorod State University of Russian Federation (2001), Kyrgyz
National University (2007) and Carnegie Mellon University - Tepper
School (2011). I received a master of Business Administration (MBA)
from the Carnegie Mellon University's School of business, and holds
international professional certifications in the Project Management
Professional (PMP) certificate, offered by the American Project
Management Institute (PMI®). (For
more personal information about me,
please click on the link below to my personal
site that to explore my
world!)
I was a devout
evangelical Christian and a active personal life coach. I am also
an passionate, versatile amateur stylist (in the image design and
graphic design), Bilingual writer, Translator, Photography lover
and avid music junkie. I am currently proficient in eight
languages, including Ukrainian (mother tongue), Russian (Second
language), Chinese, English and Turkish, and will speak several
Turkic dialects, i.e. Kirgiz, Kazakh, Uzbek and Azerbaijani and so
on. Beyond that, I am currently brushing up my French and German,
particularly my spelling. I'm still want to learn Hungarian and
Japanese. IT's a purely "self taught" hobby, and
entirely originate from a passion rather than a occupation. Of
course, Knowledge and learning from different points of view is a
delight that adds a permanent sense of well-being and balance. So,
as an language enthusiast and a creative-lifelong learner, I have
to say, languages and multicultural have always been my greatest
passion.
I remember I
started learning chinese, I was 12 years old! My
maternal aunt started tutoring me in Literature and mandarin
Chinese (Maternal aunt is an outstanding Sinologist,
once in the former Soviet Union was awarded the ORDER OF LENIN).
I’d not think that mandarin Chinese is the most difficult language
in the world. … Earlier I spent for four years living in China and
there are a lot of China fans and followers (Whether in real life
or in the social network), they thinks that I'm is a true the
"China hand" or a "China expert" and as you can imagine I'm pretty
fluent. For many years I like to meditate. Loves living on the
rural area nd stunning black sea coast. Enjoyed singging,
calligraphy, fonts, painting, multi-lingual writing, horse-riding
and hiking, etc. And has been addicted to a delicious dish of
potato goulash :-)
I don’t know if I qualify as a cancer survivor,
but I feel as though should. Three years ago (October 7, 2012), I
was diagnosed with terminal brain cancer (GBM) and the doctors
announced that I had only Five to Six months to life, and believe
it’s extremely unlikely I’ll live beyond a year!!! ... Since then
my world completely changed overnight. tears, anger, and
frustration took over. I felt I had been hit by a tidal wave and
was drowning quickly. I was paralyzed with fear and despair, not
knowing what to do. This is a humongous blow for me. I know fear
and anxiety often are rooted in timidity and ignorance. At my worst
symptoms, I would feel that this was going to be my last bit of
life as the fear and anxiety took over. ... From then on, I began
to try to change myself and began to learn self control. I have
found diet to have large effect on anxiety. I avoid sugars,
anything caffine, alcohol (actually I've always been disgusted with
alcohol), bad fats, and try to stay away from processed foods. And
according to the doctor's advice, I began to drink a lot of donkey
milk every day (donkey milk is said to be good for human health,
especially for cancer). On the other hand I dug myself deep into
the topic to learn how I can combine muscle and strength training
with cardio in order to get results I want. Yeah, when you start to
change your thinking, you can begin to change your behavior. Before
this I don't know how many times I have wished for someone with a
"MAGIC WAND" to take away all my fear and anxiety. But in the next
few years, miracles Indeed happen! It’s INCREDIBLE! I've repeatedly
brush with death, seems to have become more courageous, more calm,
more mature -- I feel I have proved myself courage and
perseverance. All these years, I found myself going through
something that I never dreamed possible, but I never gave azrael a
chance to start, because I have never been drowned in the mire of
fear and despair. This is by far the most valuable part of my life!
... 3 years passed, not only did I not die, and
that my mental state was stronger than ever. Yes, life ain't always
a bed of roses, You got to get up, get over it, and to be stronger.
In the meantime I have privileged to have
witnessed self-growth and change, but also witnessed the setbacks
and suffering in my life. I can enjoy my life journey and use my
energy to support self growing literacy, and I am began to heal!!!
I am proud of this!!!
Looking back, I've had a lot of brilliant life
experience. although I am in my occupation career has made some
achievements, But at the same time I also experienced my first
blizzard in life. I wasn't as healthy as I thought. Accumulated
chronic stress has a profoundly negative effect on my health,
physical, mental, and emotional. I know it’s scary, but keep an
open mind. these experiences have begun to change my attitude about
adversity, and has been a lot of new dreams. I thank the grace of
God!!! But the battle has just begun ...
My dear, In fact disease is not terrible,
terrible is laziness, fear, frustration and loss of confidence in
life, and it makes you more decadent!! Even if we are completely
surrounded by darkness, we must keep the light within aflame. If we
are able to retain this mental strength and unity, we are paving
the way to a bright future. Just as water from a perennial spring
never dries up. The important thing is not how we die, but how we
live. this is one of my biggest experience gained over the past
three years. Now if someone ask me, what is the biggest change in
the past three years in your life? My answer is: I have more
patience, I have learned to love deeper. but in the past I may not
be able to find an answer. … So, as a of the “cancer survivors”, I
just want to emphasize one point if you or someone you love life is
also facing the challenges of the disease, I hope my story can be
used as a resource and inspiration, and help you overcome the fear
of disease and death.
Btw, I‘ve been love Chinese culture since
childhood. For many years, I have been interested in studying
traditional Chinese cultures. My interest in pursuing this field
stems from several factors which have affected me. First, I have
been exposed to Chinese cultures throughout my life. I has been
learning traditional Chinese characters. I think traditional
Chinese characters is the essence of Chinese culture. ... I am
looking forward to the opportunity to back to China
again!!!
All the best,
Ilya.
Please feel free to email me at ilya-aliyev@ya.ru well and let me
know what you think.
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P.S. GBM is a rare disease, Classification name
"Glioblastoma multiforme", also known as Grade IV Astrocytoma, is
the most common and most aggressive malignant primary brain tumor
in humans. Reputedly about 50% of the patients diagnosed with GBM
die within one year, while 90% within three years. Treatment can
involve chemotherapy, radiation and surgery. My cancer is
inoperable because the tumor is wrapped around an cerebral artery.
So, Nanoparticle-based gene cryotherapy and nuclear medicine
technology for the treatment of is my only choice. This is a no
pain, no side effects, and pretty amazing experience
and it has a huge potential for the treatment of
disease
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