How to deal with the relationship with your family

Generally speaking, the family brings you up, and does the best thing for you, so what you have to do is work hard, and pay back for your families. You should try you best to maintain the harmony of the family. Give your parents physical and spiritual support, bring them happiness, especially when they becoming old. However, there are also a lot of thing needs us to consider or deal in reality.

In the first place, control and freedom; parents usually arrange you most of your life before you are adult. In the traditional conception, especially in the our country side, the parents are more feudalism and conventional, in their opinion, they work hard in the field, and make money for their children. Meanwhile, their educational mind, they tell their children to work hard on the work and study, and to be an honest man.

I was a obedient child when I was a student, Because I understand their hardship and their hope, just a little battle as my personality. When I grown up, receiving more ideas, having my own world outlook, the dispute between my parents and me enlarged. So I must have a just principle to deal with the relationship with my parents.

1. I must work hard to enhance my capacity, gain a good job, have a good life. So they can have the sense of achievement, they are proud of having such child. This is the best thing I can give for my parents.

2. Strengthen communication with my parents; something can be spoken, something can not be spoken.

3. When I do something more dangerous, or full of challenge which is not stable, I must persuade them to accept my ideas, at the same time, give them a promise, making them reassurance.

4. When my parents ask me to serve for my brother or other people. I will try my best to help them, but if I were unwilling to do that, I must find a proper reason to persuade my parents and my brother and sister in law, and then I can be understood and supported. Never use your personal emotion to loss your temper. Try to find the best way to settle the problem.

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