Dear
John,
I have been
seriously looking back upon our relationship and getting very clear
on what I need and desire out of a relationship.
The
conclusion I have come to is that we are too different in both our
personality and our desired lifestyles to be able to successfully
live together with joy, bliss, good communication, and
interaction.
This is not
about you or about me "winning or losing", or about one of us being
wrong -- it is about two ways of being... which do not fulfill each
other, or go together. Though I had been open to having you visit
with the thought that possibly we could 'try' again, after thinking
about it a lot, I realize that it is not a good idea. I am very
clear that we are not the 'right' people for each other at this
time in our lives.
Please
forgive yourself, and me, for any 'mistakes' we made along the
way... and remember that we both have grown immensely through being
together... but the time has come to move on.
So basically
what I am saying is that I would like to 'cancel' my invitation for
you to visit. I feel at this time, that I need to move on with my
life, and having you come and visit would not serve any positive
purpose. You need to accept that this relationship is over and open
yourself up to receiving the blessings of the universe...
I think we
both need to let go of the past, be grateful for what we had for a
time, learn from our experiences, and move on from there.
Dearest
John, we have been through a lot together... I have a learned a lot
about myself, as you have learnt a lot about yourself. At this
point, we are both ready to graduate to the next level in a
relationship...What we have learned, whether while we were
together, or whether after, through looking back on how we
'operated' together, will serve us in our future
relationships.
It has been
my experience, that all relationships that end are simply opening
the door to another level of joy, and a better relationship built
on what we have learnt in the past. So I know and trust that there
is someone out there who will support you in your growth while
loving you exactly the way you are... which is something that we
were not doing for each other. I constantly judged and criticized
you, in the same manner that you judged and criticized me... Out
there is the perfect person for you that will love you and not find
a single thing to criticize about you in the same way that you will
not find a single thing to criticize about them... You will accept
her as she is, even while seeing that she is not
"perfect".
Do not see
this as losing something, but rather as having gained knowledge and
wisdom... Everything that you learned from us being together, as
well as from us being separated, you will be able to put in
practice in your next relationship to avoid the traps that we got
into.
EVERYTHING
ALWAYS WORKS OUT FOR THE BEST, and this is no exception. Trust in
yourself, trust in the Universe, trust in the power of Love that
rules our lives. Please don’t get into feeling sorry for yourself
and wanting to 'end it all'. Rather, thank God for the learning
experience, and ask for the openness to recognize the blessings in
your life. They are there... open yourself up to being you,
accepting yourself completely without judgment, and loving yourself
unconditionally.
I wish you
joy, I wish you happiness, I wish you heaven on earth. Please trust
in yourself and the Universe enough to take some deep breaths, and
start looking to find and create joy in your life. It is there...
simply step out and claim it.
Blessings to
you... Be the light!
Dear John,
oh, how I hate to write! Dear John, I must let you know tonight
that my love for you has died away like grass upon the lawn. And
tonight I wed another, dear John.
I was
overseas in battle when the postman came to me. He handed me a
letter and I was just as happy as I could be, *cause the fighting
was all over and the battles had all been won. But then I opened up
that letter and it started: Dear John.
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