" I love you" ---this word is known
by all the world. No matter which language you speak , where you
live and how old you are, this word's meaning could be known easily
and clearly by us.
But what
is the next after you speak out this word and fall in love with a
girl/boy? One way is take part and each going his/her own way.
Maybe another is get married.
Today,
many younger quickly fall in love and tie the knot in ivory tower
without think twice. But many are end in bad.
When two
people fall in love, maybe handsome and the first impression is
more considered than other things which are not seem important. The
happy blueprint of new life is surround the willing-marrige
couple,but, take care, if you get married rushly, trouble would be
followed.
Marriage
is not only a basic human right, but also entails a sense of trust,
responsibility and conmmitment.
After
you get married, many boring things are come out. Maybe lack of
money is one of the source of these trouble, followed by the
character of husband and wife, the family situation of both side
and the responsibilities they must be undertook.
Even
though we are grown-ups, but still too
immuture to deal with marital
responsibilities. If we
get married out of impulse, the passion would be
faded away with many daily trivialities, and
then love would be the sacrificial lamb
of marriage.
Someone
maybe want to say that they are adults and can make his or her own
decision. Yeah, that's right, but do you think that marriage is a
part of our daily life?
The marriage is so elusory as those daily
trivialities.
We should better prepare
ourselves for marriage, which means much more than just living
together.
Ok, that's
all. While you enjoy the love with your Mr. or Mrs. Right, do not
igonre one thing that he or she is really the
one who can share the whole life with
you.