The Importance of E.Q.

People used to say that a man with a high I.Q. was sure to succeed. However, now E.Q. is believed to play a more important role. E.Q. stands for emotional quotient. It measures our ability to recognize and control our own emotions and to deal effectively with other people. A high E.Q. can help us in many ways and here are some of its advantages.

On the one hand, a high E.Q. helps us control our emotions and understand ourselves. For example, we don't easily lose our temper, nor do we act rashly. We think twice, make sound decisions and won't say or do something we regret. Besides, we know what we want and what is good for us. We can set realistic goals, and avoid distractions, and thus are more likely to succeed.

On the other hand, a high E.Q. also helps us understand others and build good relationships. We can guess what others are thinking and know how they are feeling. We think of others and don't offend them. In addition, we can communicate and get along well with others. We know how to share, how to listen and how to compromise. A high E.Q. makes us more understanding and more welcome.

In conclusion, a high E.Q. is an indispensable key to success. It not only can make us more independent but can help us earn the trust of others. All of us should try to raise our E.Q., listen to the feelings of others, and make ourselves better people to be with.

E.Q.的重要性

    人们过去常常说，I.Q.高的人一定会成功，然而现在，E.Q.被认为扮演著更重要的关键。E.Q代表情绪商数，指的是能够知道，并且控制自己的情绪，以及有效与他人相处的能力好坏。高E.Q.在许多方面能帮

助我们，以下是它的一些优点。

    一方面，高E.Q.帮助我们控制自己的情绪，了解自己。例如，我们不会轻易发脾气，也不会草率行事。我们会三思、做出正确的决定，而不至於说出或做出会後悔的事情。此外，我们知道自己要什麽、什麽对自己好。我们可以设定实际的目标、避免分心，因此更有可能成功。

    另一方面，高E.Q.也能帮助我们了解别人、建立良好的人际关系。我们可以猜出别人的想法、知道别人的感受。我们会为他人著想，而不会得罪别人。此外，我们可以和别人好好沟通、相处。我们知道如何分享、如何倾听、如何妥协。高E.Q.使我们更体贴、更受欢迎。

总之，高E.Q.是成功不可或缺的关键。它不只让我们独立自主，也帮助我们赢得别人的信任。我们大家都应该努力提高自己的E.Q.，倾听他人的感受，让我们自己成为更好相处的人。