等到风景都看透
也许你会陪我看细水长流

安静，沉着，表情有点单纯有点小邪
又很温柔
但内心又那么冷漠，对一切清醒的很

As a boy he was taught by his father to hunt and fish along the shores and in the forests surrounding Lake Michigan. The Hemingways had a summer house called Windemere on Walloon Lake in northern Michigan, and the family would spend the summer months there trying to stay cool. Hemingway would either fish the different streams that ran into the lake, or would take the row boat out to do some fishing there. He would also go squirrel hunting in the woods near the summer house, discovering early in life the serenity to be found while alone in the forest or wading a stream. It was something he could always go back to throughout his life, wherever he was. Nature would be the touchstone of Hemingway's life and work, and though he often found himself living in major cities like Chicago, Toronto and Paris early in his career, once he became successful he chose somewhat isolated places to live like Key West, or San Francisco de Paula, Cuba, or Ketchum, Idaho. All were convenient locales for hunting and fishing.

When he wasn't hunting or fishing his mother taught him the finer points of music. Grace was an accomplished singer who once had aspirations of a career on stage, but eventually settled down with her husband and occupied her time by giving voice and music lessons to local children, including her own. Hemingway never had a knack for music and suffered through choir practices and cello lessons, however the musical knowledge he acquired from his mother helped him share in his first wife Hadley's interest in the piano.

想他可以成为一个怎样的父亲
海明威的父亲教他打猎钓鱼
母亲教他艺术和音乐

Only ten miles from the big city, Oak Park was really much farther away philosophically. It was basically a conservative town that tried to isolate itself from Chicago's liberal seediness. Hemingway was raised with the conservative Midwestern values of strong religion, hard work, physical fitness and self determination; if one adhered to these parameters, he was taught, he would be ensured of success in whatever field he chose.

男人一定要有男子汉气概
才可以教出优秀的小孩子出来

想起《大河之恋》
Brad Pitt垂钓的镜头
还有他在河边抽烟的镜头
他的确很man

好喜欢
只是自己在成都开始变得失去自我了，不够坚强和独立

海明威的父亲是什么样子的？
是一个很强悍的男人吗
我是喜欢真男人
不喜欢小孩子

而且这个人可以不帅但不能没气质
可以贫穷但不能没斗志

可以不浪漫
但一定要坚强

"There was one of those big noises you sometimes hear at the front. I died then. I felt my soul or something coming right out of my body, like you'd pull a silk handkerchief out of a pocket by one corner. It flew all around and then came back and went in again and I wasn't dead any more."

我 想起他的时候还是觉得胃疼
疼得不行
我怀疑自己会得胃病的

还有

要记住
我所选择的是一个要与我共度一生的人
时间很长
必然要忍受他所有的优点和缺点
 
人生很漫长
我们只需要陪伴

我这三天写了5000字的论文，两千字的作业
在难受的时候，写不下去的时候
特想打电话给你听你的声音
可是听不到
觉得很难过

不负责任的狂欢，直到残酷在最后一瞬间突然出现并且全面地占据一切，这就是所谓的青春，即使残酷以一种温情的面目出现。
—摘自《儿童故事》