1.生活是不公平的，你先不要想去改造它,只能先适应它.(因为你管不了它)。

　　2.这个世界不会在乎你的自尊，它期望你能先有所成就，然后再去强调自己的良好感受。

　　3.刚走出校门时，你不可能马上拥有百万年薪，更不可能成为某家公司的副总裁和拥有高级轿车，直到你通过努力将这些都挣到手的那一天为止。

　　4.如果你觉得学校里的老师过于严厉，那么等到你有了老板的时侯再回头想一想。(你必须清醒地认识到:公司比学校更严格要求自己)

　　5.在快餐店里卖汉堡包并不会有损你的尊严，你的祖父辈对卖汉堡包有着完全不同的看法，他们将这称之为“机遇”。

　　6.如果你一事无成，这不是你父母亲的过错，不要将你应当承担的责任转嫁到别人的头上，而要学会从失败中吸取教训。

　　7.在你出生之前，你父母的生活并不像现在这般的乏味。他们之所以变成现在这个样子，是因为这些年来一直在忙着为你支付开销、给你洗衣服，听你吹嘘你自己有多么的了不起。因此，在对父母喋喋不休之前，还是先去打扫一下你自己的房间吧。

　　8.学校或许已不再分优等生和劣等生了，但生活却并非如此。学校会不断地给你机会让你进步，然而在现实生活中完全不是那么回事,不管你走到哪里,都要分等排名.

　　9.人生不是学期制，人生也没有寒暑假。走出学校后，没有哪个老板会有兴趣帮助你发现自我，你必须依靠自己来实现。

　　10.电视中的许多场景绝不是真实的生活。现实生活中，每个人都必须埋头去做自己的工作，而不是像电视中的那样天天泡在咖啡馆里。

1．Life is not fair, get used to it.  

2．The world won’t care about your self-esteem. The world will expect you to accomplish something before you feel good about yourself.  

3．You will not make 40 thousand dollars a year right out of high school. You won’t be a vice president with a car phone, until you earn both.  

4．If you think your teacher is tough, wait till you get a boss. He doesn’t have tenure.  

5．Flipping burgers is not beneath your dignity. Your grandparents had a different word for burger flipping; they called it opportunity.  

6．If you mess up, it’s not your parents’ fault, so don’t whine about our mistakes, learn from them.  

7．Before you were born, your parents weren’t as boring as they are now. They got that way from paying your bills, cleaning your clothes and listening to you talk about how cool you are. So before you save the rain forest from the parasites of your parents’ generation, try "delousing" the closet in your own room.  

8．Your school may have done away with winners and losers, but life has not. In some schools they have abolished failing grades; they’ll give you as many times as you want to get the right answer. This doesn’t bear the slightest resemblance to anything in real life.  

9．Life is not divided into semesters. You don’t get summers off and very few employers are interested in helping you find yourself. Do that on your own time.  

10．Television is NOT real life. In real life people actually have to leave the coffee shop and go to jobs.