最近有两段博友语录让我印象深刻
它们用不同的语言说出我深以为然的道理.
爱自己就要悦纳环境
心灵的幸福与金钱无关,生理的幸福与伟哥无关。一味追求金钱的积累,认为就会过上幸福的生活,就如同只是多吃伟哥来增加自己的生理能力一样。其实,男性性能力的缺乏很多是因为死亡婚姻的结果,而不是自身生理问题,不必去服药,而要关注自己的婚姻质量。我们不能把幸福物化为车、房、游艇和各种药品。一个人的成长贯穿于人生始终。我们需要做到爱自己,努力地接受并适应周围的环境。
关注内心的感受
Nobody
is perfect just like you and all the men you have dated with. The
important things are to realized what the shortcomings are the ones
that you can live with and what the ones you cannot.
If you
for the time being you cannot tell the difference between these
two, ask yourself: am I happy when i am with this guy?
If the
answer is yes, who care what the shortcomings are?
You
should be also confident with yourself and trust your own judgment
and how you feel when you are with a guy.After all, it is you, and you only who will live with the guy
you choose. Other's opinions, including your parents', will serve
as reference for you only.
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