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Care is the most splendid medicine to those who have ever suffered some great sorrow or painful experience.

If you want to untie the knots(心结） in someone’s heart ，communicating with souls together.Please spare no effort to care about him.

 I spent two years working with children with physical or mental disabilities. I devoted myself to touching their hearts softly and learned that shouting and blasting would lead to a dreadful consequence that they would get hurt more awfully and even developed a real desire to hide themselves in the darkness forever.Coming up against their behavior could only make it harder to walk into their hearts and more tough to grab their feelings.

I found something literally worked.

There was a very naughty boy in my working place, and a teacher who was generally very confident with the children was asked to take charge of him. One day,the boy struggled into his fight against the session in the room next to mine,running around, hitting and kicking, almost destroying property. His appearance created an atmosphere of tension.The teacher, after all, burst into sobs of frustration and deep despair.

 I was asked to control the circumstance.As we were talking, the boy strode in.I assured my co-worker that I'd care about him,.

I closed the door with a gentle and soft sound. Noises broke harmony, the boy was full of energy, carrying on throwing things high and low and turning the room upside down.It seemed that he would never be exhausted unless his action had to be stopped.I saw him doing this to annoy me. He needed imitate connection and Only in this way could he knew how to pray for it. Accordingly I sat back down and kept quiet.