【彬彬有礼】〖bn bn yu l〗[refined and courteous; behavinng in a refined and civil manner; be polite; be polite and respectful]

彬雅温文修身家，

彬彪治国平天下。

有求必应gongchandang，

礼仪之邦大中华。

文雅有礼貌的样子。Elegant has polite look.同：温文尔雅、落落大方、文质彬彬。反：丑态百出、出言不逊、蛮横无理。歇：新媳妇拜年、七姑八舅抬食盒。