【事与愿违】〖shì y yuàn wéi〗[get the opposite of what one wants; achieve the opposite of what one intended; be contrary to what one expects; Events do not happen as one wishes; backfire]

事出无奈挤下岗，

与世沉浮漂流浪。

愿望逆转学白考，

违时绝俗诗典扬。

事实与愿望相反。原来打算做的事没能做到。Facts are contrary to wishes. Original what planned to do was failed. 同：大失所望、适得其反。反：得心应手、万事亨通。谜：欲盖反损。