【三媒六证】〖sn méi liù zhèng〗[through three negotiators and the sending of the six kinds of bridal gifts -- marriage according to all the traditional rules; send matchmakers in style to make sb. a principal wife]

三头两面乱拉线，

媒妁之言搞封建。

六眷诸亲吃喜酒，

援古证今婚包办。