【软硬兼施】〖run yìng jin sh〗[act tough and talk soft; adopt every possible means, tough and soft; bring both force and reason to bear; combine hard tactics with soft]

软磨死缠盟眷恋，

硬语盘空意缠绵。

兼而有之好友众，

施绯拖绿诸帅炫。