【茹柔吐刚】〖rú róu t gng〗[eat the soft and spit out the hard -- bully the good-natured and fear the ferocious]

茹荤饮酒眼朦胧，

柔懦寡断欺耍横。

吐令发号乱吆喝，

刚愎自用怕强硬。