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上次U君带领大家阅读的是《人性的弱点》chapter 1:http://weibo.com/ttarticle/p/show?id=2309404015000128758806&mod=zwenzhang
今天我们一起来读一下chapter 2,如果看完我的领读之后,感觉这本书的难度和有趣度都很合你的胃口,可以尝试着去读下去哦。
这本书大多都是日常经常使用的英文词汇,小的俚语也非常丰富,非常适合大家作为看英文读物的初级材料。
Part 2 :A SIMPLE WAY TO MAKE A GOOD FIRST IMPRESSION
At a dinner party in New York, one of the guests, a woman who
had inherited money, was eager to make a pleasing impression on
everyone. She had squandered(浪费) a
modest fortune on sables(黑貂), diamonds
and pearls. But she hadn’t done anything whatever about her face.
It radiated sourness and selfishness. She didn’t realize what
everyone knows: namely, that the expression one wears on one’s face
is far more important than the clothes one wears on one’s
back.
人的气质、神态都写在脸上,而不是靠物质来衬托。
Charles Schwab told me his smile had been worth a million
dollars. And he was probably understating the truth. For Schwab’s
personality, his charm, his ability to make people like him, were
almost wholly responsible for his extraordinary success; and one of
the most delightful factors in his personality was his captivating* smile.
captivate
Actions speak louder than words *
Actions speak louder than
words:事实胜于雄辩
make a hit:获得成功
glum
veterinarian
He told one of our classes: “There were six or seven clients
waiting when a young woman came in with a nine-month-old baby and a
kitten. As luck would have it*, she
sat down next to a gentleman who was more
than a little* distraught* about the long wait for service.
The next thing he knew, the baby just looked up at him with that
great big smile that is so characteristic of babies. What did that
gentleman do? Just what you and I would do, of course; he-smiled
back at the baby. Soon he struck up* a
conversation with the woman about her baby and his grandchildren,
and soon the entire reception room joined in, and the boredom and
tension were converted into a pleasant and enjoyable experience.”
An insincere grin? No. That doesn’t fool anybody. We know it is
mechanical and we resent it. I am talking about a real smile, a
heartwarming smile, a smile that comes from within, the kind of
smile that will bring a good price in the marketplace.
As luck would have it
:碰巧,真幸运
more than a little:非常; distraught:心烦意乱的;
strike up:开始,建立起。
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Professor James V. McConnell, a psychologist at the University
of Michigan, expressed his feelings about a smile. “People who
smile,” he said, “tend to manage teach and sell more effectively,
and to raise happier children. There’s far more information in a
smile than a frown. That’s why encouragement is a much more
effective teaching device than punishment.” The employment manager
of a large New York department store told me she would rather hire
a sales clerk who hadn’t finished grade
school*, if he or she has a pleasant smile, than to hire a
doctor of philosophy with a somber*
face. The effect of a smile is powerful - even when it is
unseen.
grade
school:小学;somber:忧郁的;
Telephone companies throughout the United States have a program
called “phone power” which is offered to employees who use the
telephone for selling their services or products. In this program
they suggest that you smile when talking on the phone. Your “smile”
comes through in your voice. Robert Cryer, manager of a computer
department for a Cincinnati, Ohio, company, told how he had
successfully found the right applicant for a hard-to-fill position:
“I was desperately trying to recruit a Ph.D. in computer science
for my department. I finally located a young man with ideal
qualifications who was about to be graduated from Purdue
University. After several phone conversations I learned that he had
several offers from other companies, many of them larger and better
known than mine. I was delighted when he accepted my
offer.
After he started on the job, I asked him why he had chosen us over the others. He paused for a moment and then he said: ‘I think it was because managers in the other companies spoke on the phone in a cold, business-like manner, which made me feel like just another business transaction, Your voice sounded as if you were glad to hear from me . . . that you really wanted me to be part of your organization. ’ You can be assured, I am still answering my phone with a smile.”
The chairman of the board of
directors* of one of the largest rubber companies ‘in the
United States told me that, according to his observations, people
rarely succeed at anything unless they have fun doing it. This
industrial leader doesn’t put much faith in the old adage that hard work alone is the magic key that
will unlock the door to our desires, “I have known people,” he
said, “who succeeded because they had a rip-roaring good time conducting their
business.
board of directors 董事会;
adage ['ædɪdʒ]
格言,箴言;同义词还有
rip-roaring
Later, I saw those people change as the fun became work. The
business had grown dull, They lost all joy in it, and they failed.”
You must have a good time meeting people if you expect them to have
a good time meeting you. I have asked thousands of business people
to smile at someone every hour of the day for a week and then come
to class and talk about the results. How did it work? Let’s see. .
.
Here is a letter from William B. Steinhardt, a New York
stockbroker*. His case isn’t isolated.
In fact, it is typical of hundreds of cases. “I
stockbroker 股票经纪人;
grouch
mug 脸,mug shot 嫌疑犯面部照片;这个词还有“杯子”
As I sat down to breakfast, I greeted my wife with a ‘Good
morning, my dear,’ and smiled as I said it. “You warned me that she
might be surprised. Well, you underestimated her reaction. She was
bewildered( 困惑的 ). She was shocked. I
told her that in the future she could expect this as a regular
occurrence, and I kept it up every morning. “This changed attitude
of mine brought more happiness into our home in the two months
since I started than there was during the last year. “As I leave
for my office, I greet the elevator operator in the apartment house
with a ‘Good morning’ and a smile, I greet the doorman with a
smile. I smile at the cashier in the subway booth when I ask for
change. As I stand on the floor of the Stock Exchange, I smile at
people who until recently never saw me smile. “I soon found that
everybody was smiling back at me, I treat those who come to me with
complaints or grievances in a cheerful manner, I smile as I listen
to them and I find that adjustments are accomplished much easier. I
find that smiles are bringing me dollars, many dollars every
day.
好啦,这本书的chapter 2的一大半已经读完了,大家感觉怎么样呢?是不是很顺畅,而且收获多多?以后“YOU书社”还会定期带领大家读更多的英文原著,让大家在阅读中提升自己的英语水平,同时充实自己的人生!
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