我说过的话   
                                                                                只允许看我一人
                                                                                还有
                                                                                只允许爱我一人
                                                                                更还有……

                                                                                听见了吗
                                                                                说：你爱我
                                                                                大声一点
                                                                                再大声一点
                                                                                我听不见！

                                                                                看见了吗
                                                                                我有多爱你
                                                                                我的脸多憔悴
                                                                                我的眼圈
                                                                                我的皱纹
                                                                                我瘦如柴骨
                                                                                都是因为你

                                                                                 吵架
                                                                                 你看她了
                                                                                 就是看了
                                                                                 她年轻
                                                                                 她漂亮
                                                                                 找她去
                                                                                 别碰我
                                                                                 讨厌！

                                                                                  吃饭
                                                                                  点的什么菜
                                                                                  乡巴佬
                                                                                  难吃死了
                                                                                  这种鱼
                                                                                  喂猫差不多
                                                                                  泛黄的老掉牙的青菜
                                                                                  该扔拉圾筒

                                                                                  礼物
                                                                                  这是什么
                                                                                  是你给我的
                                                                                  什么破玩意
                                                                                  你不想给
                                                                                  就别送
                                                                                  垃圾！

                                                                                   迟到
                                                                                   怎么了
                                                                                   迟到怎么了
                                                                                   呸呸
                                                                                   我就迟到
                                                                                   有种
                                                                                   别约我！

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好刁蛮的女孩！其实是被男人逼出来的。女孩天性都是善良、可爱的。关键是她遇到的男人，一个比一个冷血，才把她变成了如此不可理喻的、像大街上吵架的泼妇。因为在当今的中国社会，物欲横流，想找一个真正意义上的绅士，谈何容易。再说中国的传统文化讲究的是三从四德、夫唱妇随。所以，中国男人的骨子里透出的、还是大男子主义的高高在上。他们不懂浪漫、没有情调，有人认为是生活所迫，但我说：一束玫瑰花能花去他多少钱？不是金钱的问题，而是生活方式和观念所造成的。

或许受西方文化的影响，现在移居在海外的大多数中国男士，摒弃了在国内时的毛病，懂得了尊重和爱护女士，也学着西方男士的样子、玩起了“贿赂”女士的游戏。我有一个网友，每到周未，给我发一束或一蓝玫瑰花的图片。我非常感动，虽然只是一束纸上的玫瑰花，但代表的是他一份对女士的关切之心，他希望我像绽放的玫瑰花，永远快乐，年轻、漂亮。

再刁钻古怪的女孩，总有被温暖融化的那一天。她分得清是非曲折，她明白生活的艰辛，她更知道相爱容易相处难的道理，她比任何人都清楚“珍惜”的含义。所以，她的柔情只对在乎她的人，她不稀罕那些虚情假意的、嘴上抹着蜜的人。可能有人会说她是物质女，难道财力付出的多少、还不足以测试爱情的“含金量”吗？难道还要去相信一个乞丐的爱情吗？

遇到如此刁蛮的女孩，没关系，如果爱她，拿出你作为男人的胆量，及真心愿意交往的诚意，铁能磨成针，用你的宽广的胸怀去感化她。毕竟想望美好的爱情是女人们一生的追求的目标。一对风蚀残年的老人家，手牵着手在海边慢步、在亭园依偎……等的场景，让任何再刻薄的女孩，都将为之动容。她的梦里也都是在黄昏、在西阳夕下，她和她的生命中的另一伴慢慢一起变老。