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    又有一阵子没写了，原因非常多，但主要原因就是：“不想写！”

    这里的“不想写”并非真的发自内心的不想写，而是指没有行动。其实生活中时时刻刻都有感触，都想要记录下来，但那毕竟只是一个想法，落实到行动上有一定困难。

    很多事情都是一样，平日里想要做这个，想要做那个，反正坐那儿脑子胡思乱想也不费什么劲儿，可想归想，动手去做、去行动的却很少。这是纭纭众生的通病。究其原因，1、可能是因为世俗的约束，如一件事情，你想这么做，看到大家都不怎么做，所以你也不这么做；2、或许因为自己对某事不感兴趣，所以才没有行动。在有些时候，即使我们对一些事不感兴趣却也不得不去做，即人们常说的客观事物并不以我们的意志为转移的。就比如说，中国的喝酒文化吧，在酒桌上，作为某些特殊的角色如果不喝酒那可真不成体统了；3、还可能因为想要去做某事，但不知道如何去做，任凭如何努力，做出来的效果也不会太好。或许做出的努力还不够，又或许方法不对。这一点在为人处世上反映得比较明显。我对自己的为人处世方法、水平感到羞愧。通过担当研究生班长这一特殊角色，我身上方方面面

　　 前一段时间想尝试着用英语写博客，限于英语水平有限，很多东西表达不出来，或者说表达得不是很贴切，所以想想还是对自己放宽条件吧，想用什么语言写就用什么语言写吧！守着原则过日子总不是办法，这个世界唯一不变的就是变化，很多时候一些原则规定都需要变通，否则生活就会陷入＂困境＂，这就是现实的生活．

　　近几个月，感觉参加同学活动的时间多于自己的学习（指知识的学习），自然而然在脑子中出现一种不平衡的感觉，甚至有点内疚的感觉．但是经过一段时间的沉淀之后发现，参加集体活动不也是一种学习吗？对，是一种更符合实际　更有意义的学习，我学到了很多很多．这是过去本科时代所欠缺的，也是至今仍令我感到遗憾的．

　　虽说参加活动也是学习，可这是隐性的学习，相对于知识的学习，它更显深奥，我认为可以用做人　做事来形容，而知识的学习可以被看作是做学问．

　　最近参加活动多了点，在参加活动与知识的学习之间我得寻求一个平衡点．

      I always pretend to be strong, but actually, in most time,I am not. These days, I joined in a lot of activities, learned much from other people,although I lost something.

      I am so happy to be in the same class with my classmates now. It's the best gift for my life, I'll cherish this, enjoy it.

 Life can be good, life can be bad.

 Life is mostly cheerful, but sometimes sad.

 Life can be dreams, life can be thought.

 Life can mean a person sitting in court.

 Life can be dirty,life can be painful.

 But life is what you make it, so try to make it beatuiful.

 

  Sometimes we feel our life is out of control, don't think in this way, because everyone has his good days and his bad days.One can't press his luck all the time. We should face the difficulties and obstables in our life calmly. 

  Many people don't always feel very good.They say:' how can I feel good about myself  when I don't match up? Everywhere I look I am reminded that someone else is smarter, or prettier, or more popular. I can't help but think. If I only had his hair, his clothes, his personality, his girlfriend , then I'd be

      Nowadays, tens of thoushands of people are addicted to different kinds of addictions,such as smoking ,drinking, gambling and so on.Evidently, althouth they know doing these is harmful to themselves, to their family ,and to their friends, they still continue to do that, because they can't control their behaviors. 

      How can these people get rid of the addictions by themselves ? Here are some advices, which may help them .First of all, do something to let them associate massive pain to not changing the present situation, repeat to remain them the pain for not changing. Secondly, let them associate massive pleasure to the experience of changing now, in other word , always think of the benifits they can get from changing now. Finally, they should create objective conditions to force them to stop doing those harmful things, and fouse on other positive things.

     Your friends suport you when you are weak,but your enemy makes you strong. 

     We all have dreams.We all want to believe deep down in our souls that we have a special gift, that we can make a difference , that we can touch others in a special way, and that we make the world a better place. At one time in our lives, we all had a vision for the quality of life that we desire and deserve. Yet,for many of us, those dreams have become so shrouded in the frustrations and routines of daily life that we no longer even make an effort to accomplish them.

    Although we cannot always control the events in our lives,we can always control our response to them, and the actions we take as a result.

       Maybe you can live without eating something,you can still live without drinking something,but you can't live without social communication.It is said that the quality of your life depends on the quality of your communication with others. So, in the future, I would make communication the most glorious part of life,offer to communicate with others as more as possible.

     These days ,I feel I have a lot of goals, but still no actions.I find not only me, but many people have the same problem as me. people say :'Knowing is not engough, we must apply it ,The most important is not know what to do ,but to do what you know .' That's quiet true.

     Once I know what I should do, then I have to make a plan as detailed as possible,on how to achieve my goals,which means I should devide my goals into small steps.On one hand ,I can see the hope to make my dream come true. On the other hand, each time ,I just need to fouse on a small part, this will be easier to be achieved than the whole dream . From each step, I will gain more and more experience and confidence. Believe it or not, as long as I insist on my dream and persist to do it, one day ,I'll make it. You can do it ,too.

    &

      What would you do if you were a millionaire ?

Being asked this ,different people have different ideas.Some people want buy a house,some people want to travel around the world,some want to do investment ,still some want to make a contribution.As for me , I will chose to do some investment.

      The reason why I want to do it is because I am not content with the money I have got. If I spend money to buy something, money will decline,I have to word hard to earn money again.By doing this ,I could hardly escape the situation of working for money. But if I do stable investment, I can make more money.Step by step, when I have enough money, I won't need to work again, just enjoy my life.At that time ,the money works for me.