7 Habits of Highly Ineffective People
By Henrik Edberg
With a twist to the common list of habits that are useful to
establish, here are 7 habits that you do best to avoid.
Just like finding habits that can be useful for you it’s
important to find habits that are holding you back. Most of these 7
habits can easily become such a normal, everyday part of life that
you hardly notice it (or how it’s affecting you). I’ve dabbled with
all of them quite a bit. Not surprisingly I didn’t get much of the
important stuff done. I´d also like to add that these are just 7
broad habits you can establish to become highly ineffective in most
parts of your life. I pretty sure there are several more.
1. Not showing up.
Maybe you’ve heard this quote by Woody Allen:
“Eighty percent of success is showing up”
One of the biggest an
Ron Carter(2008-09-24 17:14)
The epitome of class and elegance, though
not stuffy, Ron Carter has been a world class bassist and cellist
since the '60s. He's among the greatest accompanists of all time,
but has also done many albums exhibiting his prodigious technique.
He's a brilliant rhythmic and melodic player, who uses everything
in the bass and cello arsenal; walking lines, thick, full,
prominent notes and tones, drones and strumming effects, and melody
snippets. His bowed solos are almost as impressive as those done
with his fingers. Carter has been featured in clothing, instrument,
and pipe advertisements; he's close to being the bass equivalent of
a Duke Ellington in his mix of musical and extra-musical interests.
Carter's nearly as accomplished in classical music as jazz, and has
performed with symphony orchestras all over the world. He's almost
exclusively an acoustic player; he did play electric for a short
time in the late '60s and early '70s, but hasn't used it in many,
many
xia guan(2008-09-10 22:26)
Outline:
Lei zhi, a senior university student, was bothered by his
parent’s urge to seek job. His ex-girlfriend, Ma Yue with whom he
broke up 2 months ago, suddenly informed him that she was pregnant.
Though the art training class held by Lei zhi and The Fat, his
classmate, can not earn enough money as expected, Lei zhi still
made decision to give Ma Yue money to take abortion operation,
ignoring The Fat’s opposition. Unwilling to face Ma Yue, Lei zhi
sent The Fat to hand Ma Yue money and he delivered a coat to his
friend Zhu Zhi, who was hosting a wedding ceremony then.
Illustration:
Lei Zhi: He is my college classmate, We shared the same
dormitory in college. We have also been sharing the same room since
we rented apartment outside campus. So he is the perfect subject of
my graduation work, as the summary of both my and his 4-year
college lives. Lei Zhi experienced great changes in the past
08年在我们身边发生了很多事，对我来说最重要的事是我大学毕业了。基本上在我们这个年龄段的孩子们从懂事起家长，老师都在灌输一种思想，一定要好好学习，将来成为大学生。只有成为大学生社会才会认可你，尊重你。只有成为大学生才能找到好的工作，娶到漂亮的媳妇。10几年很快过去了，我和我的同龄人们千辛万苦经过层层考试和层层托人送礼终于大学毕业了。当身着学士服手拿拿学士证的时候我和我的同学们没有任何的成就感和荣誉感。这个大学我们上的太轻松了，在还没有玩够游戏，泡够姑娘，花光爹妈的钱之前我们就匆匆毕业了。如果概括我们的四年大学，1个字就够了，“混”。不仅我们在混，学校的领导，院系的老师全部在混。行政老师像太监一样压在专业老师头上，迫使专业老师只能藏起鸡巴冒充太监。专业沦为行政的工具，只有在上级检查的时候才拿出来洗洗吃片伟哥装勃起。大学就像一出丑陋的集体舞，一届一届，一出一出。该专业的装不专业，不专业的瞎专业。各中原因说不清楚。
当我们带着对大学的依依不舍走向社会，我们发现我们竟然成为这个社会的无业或者低收入人群，甚至我们的平均工资还不及外地务工人员。那些当年忽悠我们好好学习
生命是个奇迹，你妈是个傻逼(2008-07-18 23:11)
我准备好了。
你如果能飞
我会把你打下来作成晚餐，
