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从小时候常生病到成为陆军野战部队军人。从英文课留级4次到毕业美国屈指可数的名校哲学系。 从被手机店炒鱿鱼到管理通用电气过亿资产。从自私的我到懂得关爱每一个人-我使命的开始。
1992 年，在我16 岁的时候和母亲去了美国。刚到的时候一句英文也说不出来。功课又很差，那时觉得自己很没用。后来高中毕业的时候成绩一塌糊涂，读书也读不下去就当兵去了。 当兵后才发现那是一个练习英文口语很好的地方因为那儿没有人和我说中文。在军队待了不到半年我就说起了流利的英文。
从16岁在高中的 时候我就开始打工最开始是餐馆服务生, 后来还做过临时演员，店员，送过货员，法务助理，质量检测员，卖过中药，卖过电脑配件，卖过手机，卖过法律服务，还卖过房子。在这段时间的工作中我一直在 上学。 虽说英文口语不错了，但是英文写作还是很糟糕。我留级了4次才通过了大学程度的英文写作课，后来终
- Secret of A Lasting Relationship
Category: Romance and Relationships
Love is a complicated matter to explain. Previously I have attempted to explain ingredients of a healthy relationship, however, I felt I could not possibly cover all aspect of it so I gave up on doing so and deleted it. Then I thought about it. It is OK. I don''t have to get it all right, after all who can, who can completely explain love? Nobody can. So, I will just write what I already knew. and maybe you can fill in the blanks.
I will cover many important aspect of relationship here, but even you have done it all your relationship probably still won''t work, however there is a secret, and it is at the end of this essay.
Commuincate in her/his terms
Do what he/she asks you to do.
Like for Like''s Sake (I am not sure what Love is yet, so I call it like)
It is OK for a guy to like a girl partly because s
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- If you dont know whether the guy likes you or not look at the
following different levels of relationships:
Level 1. He love you unconditionally without sex and without your love in return. -
Level 2. He love you even without sex (that means he really loves you for you)
Level 3. He loves you because of you and with great sex
Level 4. He likes you a little and with sex
Level 5. He does not like you much and with sex
Level 6. He does not like you, no sex, but you give him an allowance
Level 7. He does not like you, no sex, no allowance, and no relationship.
Which level does your relationship belong to?
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- You may not know it, but you are a Star.
The North Star
Once upon a time all the stars in the sky shine the same brightness because they all wanted to look like each other. The North Star is a much brighter star amongst these stars. Although she is much brighter, she however shines like everybody else no brighter nor dimmer because she wanted her fellow stars to accept her. The way she had been shinning was not her true natural. One day she accidentally revealed her true brightness. A day in the sky is one year on earth and she could see that all the journeymen on earth are using her as a guiding light to find direction of north, so that they can find their ways. North star felt really happy and pleased that she is able to help so many people on earth finding their ways. Although she still wanted to look the same as other fellow stars, however she stopped from dimming herself to look the same as every other star because
* 成功的根本在于每天不间断的付出一点努力得到一点小的进步。
* 我们只有在每个人生阶段看清自己才会不断有新的作为。
* 我们要不断的有新问题，而不是年复一年的重复有久的问题。
* 每个人的热情来自于不断的成长和给与。
* 我们不要和别人相比，最大的成功是比以前的自己更加成功。
* 不是每件值得做的事情都要做到最好而是要做到最坏，因为当你做任何一件新事情的时候你一定是做不到最好的。很多人因为要做到最好而没有做任何事情。
* 我们生活品质的好坏与我们不愿妥协的事情多少是成正比的。
* 人生中我们所有想要的东西都在我们所畏惧的另一边并且在我们的舒适范围以外。
* 站在队伍最前面的人都是从队伍的最后面排起的并且留在了用一个队伍里面。
* 人身的真谛不在于找到真谛而在于把我们决定做的事情做到最好，因为我们可能永远找不到我们生命的真正目标。
* 要把任何事情做好我们要做的第一件事情是下定决心。
Your body is a loan.
today somebody wanted me to comment on his poem. this is what i wrote to him.
“hey buddy. thank for stopping by my page.
you know. we don’t own our body. We just have temporary custody of
it. You, me, him and her, no exception. Our spirit is the only
thing that is lasting. Just like your mother’s spirit is forever
too. You have use of your body now, just for your life time. it is
a loan from God. Don’t waste it. Use it fully, never idle, never
give up, always walk toward a dream. Say to yourself, “Live Today
Full Out!” Ask yourself, “what if I did not give my all and become
who I could have been?!” your mother gave you this opportunity to
come to this earth, to be among us. To thank her and to show her
that you care why don’t you make good use of your body amd mind and
the temporary time you have on earth? Yes. you will s
Last Sunday, I went to two convalescent homes with a Buddhist group. we brought in some performances to entertain the elders. at each facility we had about 30 to 40 grandmas and grandpas, some of them are very old, some of them could not even open their eyes and some of them has no expression_r on their face what so ever and yet some look excited. at each of the facility, I hold hands and looked at some of the elders in their eyes with care. I shifted to the front of an elderly lady. I don’t know her exact age, I assumed at least 80 years old. she appeared fragile and her skin is very pale. I extended my hand to hold hers. initially she looked down at my hand holding her hand then she looked up into my eyes with minor surprise then gradually a spark lightened up in her eyes and through her eyes I think I saw a sense of joy flowing through her body. She pulled my hand to her lips and kissed my ha
Have you ever noticed on a single street there are many houses with front yards where some are very beautiful while others are rampaged by weeds? Why is it some front yards are so beautifully filled with flowers of all sorts of vibrant colors, while others is just a total mess? the difference is that the owner of the beautiful yard provides it with consistent and tender care, while the other ugly yards are neglected.
This is exactly how our mind works. some spent time daily to pray and repeat their dreams and goals in an attempt to fill their minds with positive and inspiring thoughts while others go though their day mindlessly. Our Mind is a strange thing. If we just let it be, all the thoughts going into it will be negative. If you dont believe it just reflect your past experience to see how your mind has been working.
Our behavior and actions are a direct reflection of our emotio
我问： 过年干嘛了。 有没有相亲啊
vivi China says:：我姨妈们集体逼婚
我问：真的啊 ？
vivi China says: en
我问： 咋地。回上海后就是他人妻了？
vivi China says:
我问：哇。 恭喜 。 终于不用再流浪了你
vivi China says:
我问： 意思是有个家了。 你不喜欢别人啊 。喜欢就好了嘛。
vivi China says: 说不出
我问：喜欢还不好意思说
vivi China says: ，我的心早被偷走了
我问： 偷走了还不好？ 正好结婚啊
vivi China says: 谁对我来说都一样
我问： 怎么可能 ？ 又不是买菜
vivi China says: 只要他们喜欢我就好 。
我问：什么妙论 。 怎么可能和一个没有感情的人在一起
vivi China says: 我已经精疲力尽了 。
我问：睡一觉就好了
vivi China says: 不想只为感情浪费精力 。
我问：感情是人生最大的一部分
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我说： 新年希望！你会心想事成！
Maggie says:
谢谢！我想我不会心想事成！
我说：你会心想事成！
Maggie says:是吗？怎么我对自己这么灰心呢！？
我说：因为你一直告诉自己很灰心。你一直告诉自己不会心想事成。就这么简单。 你给自己编织的故事都是灰色的。 都是沮丧的
Maggie says: 哦，那从现在起，我要改变自己悲观的心理
我说：是的。你知道巴黎铁塔是怎么建成的吗？
Maggie says: 是的，很沮丧。 不知道？？？
我说：有一个人他想他可以建成巴黎铁塔。 然后他就写了下来。后来碰到很多困难，不过他还是相信它可以建成巴黎铁塔
Maggie says: 哦，明白了，信念，叫努力
我说：同时还有另外一个人也想到要建立巴黎铁塔。 但是他没有建成。
Maggie says: 然后呢？那是为什么呢
我说：因为他每天很沮丧。每天他告诉自己，“我没有钱，我不是建筑师，我不够聪明，我一辈子没有干成过一件事情，每天他碰到打击
