极限运动比传统体育项目更富挑战性和娱乐性，追求超越身心极限后的刺激与满足感，一般认为只有少数的年轻人才能玩儿。我倒觉得它并不像这个名字本身那么极限，那么遥不可及，想尝试一下例如攀岩、滑板、雪板等等其实也没那么难，只要有兴趣、有胆量，再加一点点灵气，稍加练习即可上手。当然了，想玩儿到很酷很专业的腾越、翻转或边缘平衡肯定是不容易的。

多年前我在一次偶然的机会尝试了一下攀岩，居然很顺利就攀到了顶，令在场的几位朋友和我自己都颇为惊讶，他们说想不到我看似纤瘦却能有如此臂力。后来想想，臂力是次要的，攀岩对身体的协调性和柔韧性要求更高些，再就是胆量，而这些素质都是从小逐渐培养的，大了以后再学再练相对来说很费劲。我至今都特别欣赏小时候父母对我的带动和鼓励，令我得以在宽松的环境里自由成长，在尝试了多种冒险之后逐渐形成无所畏惧和遇事不慌的态度。

我小时候没有兴趣班，游泳、武剑、体操什么的都是上学前父母教的。记得小时候他们特意带我去爬野山，走不好走的独木桥，要么就是骑车带着我（坐前面大梁上）从陡坡上冲下来。很多都不算是正式的运动，总之接触和尝试的东西多了自然胆子会越来越大，后来一度喜欢的骑马、快艇、滑雪等也都与速度和技巧有关。但类似从飞奔的马背上飞出去擦着铁丝网摔到地上的经历回想起来既庆幸又的确有些后怕。

现在的家长也都很重视孩子运动能力的培养，选择一些兴趣班让他们学。我觉得，无论男孩儿女孩儿，都可以根据年龄适当尝试一点点冒险，以现在的优越条件更可以这样做了。父母是孩子最好的老师，如果能陪他一起玩儿是最理想的，而不只是带着他去上课，去学某个运动项目。运动除了对身体的好处之外更重要的意义在于对意志品质的培养，大人的态度直接影响到孩子们对危险与冒险概念的理解。从小接触和尝试一点点冒险吧，身体力行，胆大心细，鼓励他们以理性的科学的态度对待冒险，勇于尝试。

生活丰富多彩，人生变化无穷。或许你记不清太多自己享乐的场景，但会对很多苦的经历记忆深刻并感到受益非浅。每段艰辛之后都有收获，每次伤痛过后都会增强一份乐观，这些“苦”相比那些“甜”更有价值。

刚从集团开会回来，布置今年的年终决算。因为负责总公司的合并报表，以往我都直接参加国资委的决算布置，一般是去外地开，顺便放松一下。自从我们并入通用技术（也是国资委直属央企），报表的级次降低了，最终上报的期限也提前了差不多两个月，对于我们自己的二级公司来说，他们就必须在春节前完成年终决算。干财务实在是太辛苦了!

比较烦那些所谓的领导讲话，长篇大论几乎每个人都超时。感觉最不好的是集团的总会计师讲话，总那么严厉，你简直不明白为什么他那么喜欢批评人。关于财务数据的真实性也是他每次讲话的主要话题。我心说他应该问问身边主席台上那些领导还有各公司的经理，是他们要求既要有规模又要有效益，公司要稳步发展，个人也需要积累政绩。

I just came back from the meeting held by Genertec concerning to assignment of year-end financial statement. As an accountant responsible for the final statement of our company, I formerly attended the same meeting held by SASAC (State-owned Assets Supervision and Administration Commission of the State Council), which often went outside Beijing and had a relaxed time. But after we merged into Genertec（also directly subordinate to SASAC）, with the grade reduced, the deadline for the final statement moves up almost two months. To our own subsidiaries, they must finish all the work before the Spring Festival. How busy to be an accountant!

I hate to hear the so-called leader’s long boring speeches. Everyone was skilled in talk and went beyond the fixed time. Even the worse, the general accountant has never a mild tone, you couldn’t understand why he always likes criticizing, and the truthfulness of the accounts record was always his main topic. He should ask the leaders beside him on the rostrum I think, it was them that require both a large scale and a good profit, for the purposes of steadily development and their own achievement.

墨墨近几个月生活很规律也很快乐，很少惹我发火儿，我觉得他长大了，时时提醒自己要尊重他。想想半年前我还曾一度感觉难以应付焦虑他很逆反呢，现在终于明白孩子的问题其实就是要解决情绪问题。以前我们太容易被孩子激怒不由分说就立即暴跳如雷，只能导致争斗越来越激烈，加之他语言天赋太强词汇太丰富，恶毒的诅咒如火上浇油，谁听了都想把他扔出去。。。其实只要大人能冷静面对，孩子耍脾气是很容易平静的。

Momo lives a regular and happy life these months and seldom makes me lose my temper. I know  that he has grown up. I warn myself to respect him at all the time. Half a year ago, I felt I can hardly deal with him and worried about his irritability, now I've realized that the problem of kids is probably the problem of settling down his mood. We were too often to be in a thundering rage that definitely leads to a sharper dispute. Yet with his good language talent, his evil curse just like adding fuel to the fire, everyone who heard wanted to throw him off I believe.       As a matter of fact, if adults can keep calm, the kids will calm down easily. 

     美国企业中90%的财务人士担任管理会计职位，他们70%的时间用于决策性工作；中国企业中90%的财务人员担任财务会计职位，他们70%的时间用于记帐核算。

     确实，我们的财务工作有些太低级了，过分关注记帐和报表，每天都被繁杂的各种核算与统计所累，腾不出更多时间深入分析，为企业提供前瞻性的决策支持。近年来，如何在风险与机遇面前更好地将财务管理与战略决策、绩效管理及内部控制等高效组合、为企业创造最大价值，成为每一个财务高管不可回避的问题。

     中国CFO论坛暨第二届财务管理国际峰会日前在北京皇冠假日(中关村)酒店举行，主要就当前金融危机下的国际国内形势进行分析，探讨企业风险和内控体系以及企业内部金融策略等问题，是一次偏重于管理会计的论坛，学术性和实用性均很强。

In US enterprises, about 90% of accountants hold the post of financial management, and they spend 70% of time in making a strategic decision. But in China, 90% of accountants serve as accounting, and their 70% of time is used on  general accounting practice.

Honestly, our accounting assignment is somewhat at a lower stage. We pay too much attention to accounts and statements. Everyday we fall into endless numerical accounts and statistical statements，so that we have no time to analyze deeply and to provide a helpful suggestion when making a decision. In these days, facing with both risk and opportunity, how to efficiently combine the financial management with the strategic disposition, the effect management, and the inner-control, has become an avoidable problem for each CFO.

A few days ago, CFO financial management international summit was held in Crowne Plaza Beijing Zhongguancun. The speeches referred to analyzing and investigating about the international and domestic situation under the financial crisis, the enterprise risk and inner-control system, and also the inside monetary leverage. It's a forum emphasizing on financial management, with high academic and practicability.

我想去敲

你酣睡的窗

在夜色深浓时

为你轻唱

月光的网里编织着

一个悠长悠长的期望

抹去眼角残留的月色

我四处漂泊的心

此时已安然靠港

你披着晨曦的淡雾

悄悄来到我的身旁

携着一个缄默

一束最深的凝望

当黄昏变得昏黄

你又悄悄地离开

带走夕阳的

最后一缕金光

你走了

不再听我轻唱

而你已然融进了

（一）

苦心盼得别离怨， 怎堪梦中呼唤。

忆流光， 相誓不悔， 知有今日变迁？

感怀无奈守空楼， 何熬煎！

莫如超然渡世， 抛却声声长叹， 悠悠倚阑干。

（二）

曾是万般眷恋， 更赋痴情一片。

终须悟， 纵有无限相思， 也枉付清池， 前世本无缘。

空洒泪， 只忆旧时欢。

作为雅莹VIP客户之一，11月19日晚我应邀参加了《瑞丽伊人风尚》携手EP雅莹“寻找榜样OL颁奖礼”活动，地点在CBD中心区的千禧大酒店。

EP雅莹是我比较喜欢的服装品牌，特别是近年与意大利设计结合后，无论从设计或面料还是服装所传递的信息，都准确定位于OL客户群，为职场白领提供了从办公室职业装到适合各种PARTY的晚装等系列化设计，倡导活力优雅、智慧从容的生活理念。  瑞丽并不是我常看的杂志，就时尚而言，瑞丽不如“ELLE世界时装之苑”和“时尚芭莎”，但它专于职业白领，这一点与EP雅莹十分契合。本次活动以评选形式很好地推广了雅莹品牌，更加突出了其坚持高端路线的决心。

此活动从今年夏季开始，北京是四个城市中最后一站，共评出20位榜样OL。通过对她们的生活和工作的勾画，多角度诠释了职业女性对“幸福”的认识。评委中有杨澜、于丹、唐骏、李春娅等，既是商界名人，同时又都在时尚方面很有见地。此外，还有瑞丽杂志及雅莹的老总出席，以及部分影视歌坛明星前来助兴。到场嘉宾大概有300人，除了颁奖，还有雅莹服装展示等。活动安排比较紧凑，三次抽奖多次与我的号码擦肩而过，运气差了一点点。 

As a VIP of Elegant Prosper, I was invited in a celebration party sponsored by Rayli Beauty Fashion magazine and Elegant Prosper, with the subject of ‘Looking for model OL ’. The ceremony was held on November 19th in GRAND MILLENNIUM Hotel.

ELEGANT.PROSPER is one of my favorite brands. After collaborated with Italia designer, EP drew up a clear marketing strategy focusing to the office lady, which can be seen in the style, the fabric, as well as the concept it conveys. From office suit to formal dress，EP presents an aesthetic attitude towards life-- optimism, elegance, intellectuality, and confidence.  Rayli Beauty Fashion is not my habitual reading. Merely in matter of fashion, Rayli is not as good as ELLE or BAZAAR, but it stresses on OL style, which exactly coincides with EP’s idea. The event “Looking for model OL” plays a positive role in popularizing EP brand, and strengthens the policy of high-grade orientation.

The event journal began in summer, and Beijing is the last city of the four. In the end, 20 model OL came out. Through the outline of their life and work, we saw many kinds of “happiness” from their point of view. The judges include YangLan, TangJun, YuDan, and LiChunya, all are influential in commercial world as well as in fashion circles. Besides, the CEO of Rayli and EP, some actor and actress were attendant. Among the award ceremony there were fashion shows and lottery, while I was not lucky enough to get the winning number.  

—— EP雅莹 2009秋冬

—— 于丹老师

一次不着边际的会议和一次无聊的讲座让我看完了顾漫的《何以笙箫默》。豆瓣上热评的这部作品感觉并不是那么好，人物性格的刻画与情节设计安排之间有些不合情合理的地方，特别是何以琛这个形象，重逢之后几次三番借故主动去找赵默笙却又每每拒绝，稍嫌做作，有点儿费解，可能是作者希望强调他当初受的伤害有多么的深，从而更能让读者为他那深藏心底的执著而感动吧。我觉得不是太顺畅。

故事本身很浪漫，语言和笔调也都清秀，当然了，结局也美好，坚持等待的人最终等到了幸福。就象书中最后那句话：“有多少人放弃了等待，选择了将就。只有固执的人会一直等待下去。将就的人不一定就不幸福，而等待的人也不一定就孤苦。” 这是个关于将就和等待的故事，让所有心中含着淡淡的富有诗意的等待的人们为之感动。

It was on a rambling meeting and a boring speech that I finished GUMAN’s new work “HE YI SHENG XIAO MO”.  Though hotly commented in “DOUBAN” (a perfect site specialized in exchanging opinions on books and films), I don’t think it’s worth so high a valuation. The characters and the plot could be more reasonable and logical, especially for Mr. HE. After the reunion, he arranged several appointments with Ms. ZHAO yet always he denied her sternly cool. Don’t you think his behavior mysterious? It’s a bit artificial I think. Probably the writer hopes to emphasize Mr. HE’s heart broken, so that the reader will be moved by his persisting in love more deeply.

The story is romantic, so does the words, and of course, it ends well. The one who can persist and believe in love achieved the happiness finally. Just like the book told us, ‘Many people give up waiting their lovers and choose a no-bad-life, only the man of inflexible will insist. But in some cases, no-bad-life is not always unhappy, while insistence may not be always misery.’  All in all, it’s a novel about just-so-so and waiting true love, and it moves all the people who cherish for romantic slightly.

近来时不时有失眠的迹象。昨晚又是很久没睡着，一通乱想，最后竟想到应该加强一下自己的英文——  不为自己，而是打算等墨墨四五岁中文说得很扎实之后和他用英语对话，给他一个英文的听说环境。周围的孩子已有不少上各种英语课的，但无论报多少个英语班都不如在家经常说。

我的英语多年弃置不用，拾起来也需要一定时间。于是突发奇想，以后写博的同时也写个英文版的，嗯，主意不错。今天是几号？11月11日，日子不错，就这么办了，坚持。我是一个挺能坚持的人，想好的事一直会做下去，即使有时自己都觉得只是在坚持一种形式而没有更多意义，比如坚持收集巧克力包装，坚持整理服装资料，坚持阅读摘抄。。。。。。

想到这儿心里很高兴，踏实睡了。

Frequently I was suffered from insomnia these days. Being awake for a long time last night,  thinking of many irrelevant things, I at last considered that I should improve my oral English,  not for myself, but for talking with my son when he is 4 or 5 years old after he can speak Chinese well enough. Many children at his age have had various English lessons, anyway, lessons cannot be better than English circumstances.

Being laid aside so long, it will take me some time to recall the sensation of English. Suddenly “blog” crossed in my mind. Good idea! Always write an English edition whenever I polish a new article on blog. What’s the day today? November 11^th, sounds good, that’s the beginning! And surely I can insist. You know I’m a person who is willing to and used to insist on something, as on collecting the chocolate packing paper, classifying the fashion design, and making excerpt when reading, though sometimes I realized that it might be meaningless. But, whatever.

Then I felt happy, and fell asleep.

周六去国家大剧院歌剧院看了“锦绣大地”，中央民族大学的舞蹈专场。观众爆满。票价相对比较便宜，可能因为是学生的演出，且灯光舞美都很简单（几乎谈不上舞美），但越是这样越可以好好欣赏舞蹈本身。“锦绣大地”整台节目按篇章编排，分雪域高原（藏族）、天地祥云（朝鲜族）、天山欢歌（新疆维塔哈）、南方风韵（彝傣苗羌）、绿色草原（蒙古族）五个部分，大多是群舞，表达各个民族的生活状态，每篇都有三四个舞蹈，其中不少是各种比赛的获奖节目。两个小时二十多个舞蹈，对我来说非常过瘾，又动心想要开始练练功了。

最喜欢的：

藏族男子群舞《热巴》，非常非常有感染力，台下多次掌声雷动，让我想起当年看“藏谜”的情景；

朝鲜族男子三人舞《开合》，道具是扇子，结合了现代舞的一些元素，很有种武侠小说中的仙气，服装设计也赞；

朝鲜族女子群舞《长白祥云》，很传统，很美；

彝族女子五人舞《五彩云霞》，主要是转功，漂亮的裙子加上手持的彩绸使整体效果非常好；

蒙古族男子群舞《奔腾》，百看不厌的传统舞蹈，万马奔腾，气势豪迈，领舞也很帅。