三个月过去了，三个月的时间说长不长，说短不短。可是时时刻刻，总是言不由衷地被过去的阴影所包围着，笼罩着，试着摆脱，但那是自欺欺人，都说时间是生活苦楚的良药，希望再给些时间。

实际上问了许多为什么，世上本没有这么多为什么，因为有了人，有了情感，也就顿生了疑问？实际上是想不明白，想不透彻，说服不了自己，这就是症结所在。

人大都是为自己而活着的，如果那一天开始为别人而活，那就为自己的承诺而付出努力，为自己无私的付出而自豪，那才是对自己的负责，对他人的负责。这种承诺是有些严重了，对某些人来说，对生活过于苛刻了，但是你、我、他之所以不同，不就是因为思想的不同么，或者说是思想的独立。

大学一位老师，也是我的球友曾对我说过，做学问要学会忍受孤独和寂寞，现在看来，其实生活也是，要还原生活本来的面目，了解自己的生活，对抗自己的坏习惯和懒惰，需要的是一种意志品质。遗憾和伤痛需要找到恰当的释放方式，因为原则这种东西，虽然不值钱，但是自己看不看的起自己，还就是有基于此。

删了一些话，不想太过，虽然愤怒和某些复杂的情感充斥着

如果说去了便算去过的话，是不能解释阳朔之美的。

2008年9月28日晚，踏上了远赴阳朔的印象之旅：也许是自助游的缘由，悠闲而又充实，紧凑又不失闲适，闹静结合得当，县中城与周边景点相得益彰，亦商亦文，亦中亦外，颇有些现代人文的味道，早已超出水墨山水刘三姐歌声的阳朔，啤酒鱼螺蛳粉田螺煲的阳朔，更是自行车和酒吧街的阳朔，罗布各国驴友的阳朔，既可远观又宜近蓦。

吃在阳朔：狠辣狠辣狠辣，从一到站的第一道菜桂林米粉（干湿捞），到红彤彤的螺蛳粉，再到富有异域风情的土耳其烤肉，无处不透出广西的辣的本色。从中却透出阳朔人的淳朴和敦厚，辣在广西，却也辣的自在。

住在阳朔：“如家快捷酒店，真的给您如同家一般的感觉！”，这里要声明，我绝不是要帮它卖广告，而是这家酒店的确不错，位置虽不在西街当中，却也傍山而依，步行十分钟变可直达西街，方便的很。房间别致，特别是粉红色的被子特别吸引眼球，客房服务也比较周到，服务员很有礼貌，如家如家，令人留恋忘返。

玩在阳朔：喜欢骑上

the love that has spanned more than 80 years

i knew papa when we were children. i was 8 and he was 11. and i was madly in love with him and i was sure that i would marry him when i was old enough.

begging him? i was sexy, i turned on all the tricks that i knew and won one or two dollars then......

first date? i remembered that he took me to a baseball game, i was perfectly willing to go there or anywhere else. we danced the night away, i went to speak like this. we did all the things that were not supposed to do and made long story short, which people are not fond of doing. we were just sort of agree that it's time to get marry

what year? date? 1933, Nov 11. taking care of papa when he was sick. your father was diagnosed to diabetes. he lost his leg, then the diabetes took him anyway. we never know what disease would catch up with this.it's amazing the things that people can live through when they have to. so you get through it, you alm

i want to say, this is definetely a tough question for almost anyone want to make even a slightly tiny difference about personal life. cause' the circustance surrounding us may disturb our minds and our decision each day. however, i still believe that the idiom that there is a will, there is always a hope, so not only i am trying to safeguard what i already obtain, but to insist on my faith: to give this world my shoot.

luck seems never beyond the basis of basic compatence, and the result of burying my head in the desk to ponder the past would probably not give me a hand when i or my beloved were in trouble. thus the sprit of strightforwardness upon consistant target would prevent me from living in fantasy, either to my belove.