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很有趣的一个现象:十岁的时候看二十岁,从心底里厌弃,怎么那么老!二十几岁的时候看中年人,也不免打从内心发出尖酸刻薄的鄙夷,活到那时候也就麻木了吧!
在“亲爱的嘉倩”倾诉邮箱里,经常收到这样的来信:
A写信给我,我该怎么办,在大学里,我读书的确很好,家境也可以,我很乖一直是个循规蹈矩的女孩,可是接下去呢?一份工作做个几十年,嫁人结婚生孩子,就这样了吗?
B写信给我,我该怎么办,刚刚大学毕业,没什么人生目标,也不知道自己能干什么,从不喜欢的专业毕业,接下去做一份不喜欢的工作一辈子,长得也一般,爸妈逼着去相亲,交往两年,然后结婚,有个孩子,过上和爸妈一样的生活,就这样了吗?
C写信给我,我该怎么办,和男友一起很多年了,也在办公室里做了同一份工作几年,我很想放弃一切去周游世界,现在的生活让我透不过气,因为接下去的轨迹我闭着眼都知道,结婚生孩子退休,照顾孙子孙女,就这样了
昨晚 和六年没见的高中的同学们见了面 好开心 笑到肚子暴痛
席间玩了真心话与大冒险
在他们的步步紧逼重重追问下 每个人都有令人大跌眼镜的爆料 我也终于说出了隐藏很久的小秘密
是啊 所有的所有 多年已经过去 很释然:) 剩下的只有怀念
山西行结束,姐姐做了新娘~
元旦结束,世界迎来了新一年
回到家,看到了自己的雅思成绩,7.5,新惊喜
在职复习1个月,拿到这样的分数,真的是给了自己新意外新启迪
新的一年,我要许下新的愿望
多看书,多思考,多倾听,多观察
努力去改变一切可以改变的,静静等待已在途中的美好
就这样,晚安,世界:)
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今天是22岁的最后一天。几个月前,我从沃顿商学院毕业,用文凭上“最高荣

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From today on, I just have 2 days left for the exam. Totally
stressed, but I don't know what else can I do. Well, perhaps, just
try your best. You know that you have to sacrifice something for
another thing, so this time the thing to be sacrificed is the time
for the preparation of the exam.
Work, study, seems that I haven't mastered the trick to balance
the 2. And I don't know how to utilize time. Work occupies most of
my time ,but it's absolutely not the excuse for me to not treasure
my spare time. I would covered many books if I haven’t used Weibo
so frequently. Too much time has been spent on this social tool,
which is time-consuming and messy. It's just a tool that gets you
hooked to it and actually makes you say some nonsense. You really
should treasure your time and do some valuable things.
This noon, Sisy invited my sister and
I to a fancy place called Yi Zuo Yi Wang. The canteen is located in
San Li Tun; the sunshine today was really great and the food was
yummy.
This was my first time to try Yunan
dish and it really exceeds my expectation. Yes, probably I’ve
missed a lot of tasty food just because of misunderstanding or
impression. Prejudice exists everywhere. I've decided to expand the
pool and try more options in future.
Being said as it may, I still would
prefer not to try something, such as some animal meat
From today on I shall write an English blog every day, in
order to cram for the upcoming exam.
The work in Ogilvy really makes me totally exhausted; neither
time nor energy left. I'm indeed not sure how good I'll do for the
exam. Anyway, just seize the day and utilize every opportunity.
Right now, sitting @ the Starbucks in the neighborhood, with the
music around me, I feel so calm and peaceful.
Loving Starbuck, it can always get me out of the busy and hush
life; it's always telling me, like a nice granny, that sometimes,
being slow is being truly alive.
Sometimes, I guess, perhaps we'll do better if we are all
dandelion seeds, taking off by wind, floating free; with no
connections, no obsession, no misery, nothing at all. We just go
wherever the wind take us...
But it's just a dream. A fairy tale..
Perhaps, just live the moment and enjoy being existent
:)
昨天,周五,上午,为了Delight某著名日资客户,在寒冷到刺骨的冬日空气里,走遍了整条金宝街,终于买到10瓶北冰洋汽水。
后来,组里的另外两名同事,送到金宝大厦。
晚上,看到微博上的转帖,才知道客户们感动地稀里哗啦,一败涂地。
我却感觉很复杂。
你可知道,有时候你的感动,源头是别人的策划?
你可知道,有时候你的快乐,来自于别人的辛酸?
你可知道,其实别人付出了很多,你却那么轻易地就拿走了,一丝不剩,也许你还以为别人不知道吧。
你有多少你自认为人不知的事情,其实别人都是知道的。
其实你自己才是最大的傻瓜。
不过不管怎样,如果着实让别人感动了,那么还是值得高兴地吧
下次,我要记得给自己买一瓶 :)


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嗨!亲爱的办公室新鲜人小姑娘:
就在刚才,在洗手间里,我听出了在隔间里伤心哭泣的人是你。回到我的办公室,面对电脑上瞬间涌入的十多封邮件,我突然发现即使最好的现磨蓝山咖啡也无法让自己平静下来,于是我开始给你写这封信。
我知道在你的眼中,我忙碌的要发疯,无情的像个bitch,又无趣的要死,所以我写这封信你一定吃惊之极,但是我写了,因为我并不真的那么忙,也不是bitch,更不无趣。
我想今天对你来说,一定是很艰难的一天。早上,你红着眼睛来上班,我知道你一定又和男朋友吵架了。上午你接了一个电话,脸色立刻黯淡了,是房东要涨房租。度过了这样的半天,也就难怪在下午的会议上,你做幻灯演示的时候语无伦次,以尴尬的沉默告终。接着,在我要上周就交给你做的报表,而你说你还没做好的时候,我板着脸告诉你,如果你不搞明白什么事情是不能拖的,后果将十分严重。
然后我就去忙自己的了。你也许没注意到,我也有