最近看了很多类似“晒晒某某标”之类的东西，相当之有感触。    算了一笔帐，结果发现想要成家结婚，对于普通人来说，还有相当长远的路要走哦。
    房子首当其冲，你我也算读了名义上的重点大学干着外企小白领的工作，总不能太寒酸了，即使重庆的地面儿，主城建面100平，别选太好的路段，别估摸着看江看水，别非掂量着非要万科龙湖，估计均价6000的样子，60万。房契等杂费下来可能2，3万左右吧。装修，10万，应该在重庆来说还是相当凑合了。毕竟整体经济水平摆在这儿的。现阶段对于国人来说，买房也是终身大事，呵呵。
    家居电器，电视+冰箱+空调+洗衣机+热水器+家用电脑等等（等等=电磁炉啊，顶灯啊，电饭煲，抽油烟机啊，床啊，柜子啊，沙发啊）若干件下来估计至少也差不多8，9万了。这个价格也应该就是买耐用结实经济型的，名牌就甭惦记。时刻告诫自己，咱关注的是性价比。
    然后好歹有个代步的车吧。好了沾惹不起，15万上下的。
    这样下来，接近100万了。
    看自己收入（

    如果世界用理性来思考，那是个喜剧；如果用感性来思考，那是个悲剧。

    朋友告诉我，如果去思考这个世界，本身就是一个无厘头剧。

    或许真的，简单一切都很美好。但真实，一切都很虚幻。

    有时候想，争？夺何？舍？弃何？有趣的想想要是用能量守恒定律来看，也没什么得失。佛曰舍得，其实也并没叫你一味吃亏。只是人大多都看自己付出了什么。同时自己得到的是否值得而已。

    I'm a normal right-hander.But for now,fewer left-hander will be more welcome.

    The most important is,I'm not the right one for the regulation.It's hard to express.So I choose to use left hand to do more exercises .I know it may mot be the natural way for me.I could feel more comfortable with my right hand.That's the problem.

    But frankly,I want to.

    For something deep in heart.For something,maybe I will spend even my whole life to go through.For someone maybe I will go with together for a long long long time.For someone,I wanna make her happy,create a relationship much more than “He is just some guy I went to somewhere with once”

　　So I choose to leave.Leave for evolution.Because I should be back with good handwriting of my left hand.

    So I delete all the articles and messages which I've taken care of for a long time,I've read the

    What will you do when you are missing someone?Make phone calls,play computer games,go to the pub?The worst choice is put yourself alone in a small space and think it over and over again.But maybe most people have taken this one.

    Sometimes you will meet a long tough time.Especially when you wanna see somebody but it hardly happen.You will think it but never know what the relationship between you will like to be.Just take it as the process you need to go through if you think it's worthy and you will pay anything definitely for its coming.

    The problem comes——whether you've find a right way to get the key to the door.So if there is some basically principle?And what the basically principle is?

    A voice tells that if you wanna develop a relationship between you and a opposite sex,first you should make sure whether it matches.Don't care if it

    直到生日前天的晚上，我终于心安了。放得下放不下的总归放下。结局很好。虽然觉得突然自己释然比较奇怪。但可能这就是过程。

    我也很快要回去了。一年做的不多，但经历不少。一切都让我在无声中成长了，感谢万事万物。

    怀着一颗感恩的心去迎接以后的生活，工作和人。

    来了武汉都快3个月了。自己觉得有价值的事情一点也没干。迫于生计的事情确实干了一大堆。

    直到北京之行回来后，明白该做点什么了。做点自己想做的，且能持久的。

    到中关村见老姐，车顺道一样停到了五道口。一个对现在的我来说相当心驰神往的地方。不免下来观望一阵。北京这一趟说是顺道，着实还见了不少人，聊了很多事。不是学生了，而且是大人了，谈了一些以往吃喝玩乐碰不到边的东西。呵呵。

    那几晚上不管再累，睡前都还是会想想清楚一些事情。

    回到武汉，一切脚踏实地了。从该做的做起吧。