Steps To Happiness
通往幸福的阶梯
Everybody Knows:
You can't be all things to all people.
You can't do all things at once.
You can't do all things equally well.
You can't do all things better than everyone else.
Your humanity is showing just like everyone else's.
每个人都知道：
你无法为每个人办到每件事。
你无法立刻完成所有的事。
你无法把所有的事都做的尽善尽美。
你无法把每件事都做的比别人好，
你只是和其他人一样。
So:
You have to find out who you are, and be that.
You have to decide what comes first, and do that.
You have to discover your strengths, and use them.
You have to learn not to compete with others,
Because no one else is in the contest of 'being you'.
所以：
你要找到你是谁，做好自己。
你要决定什么是要先去做的。
你要发现自己的优点，并好好的利用。
你要学会不与其他人竞争。
因为没有人是你的对手。
Then:
Get a thorough understanding of
oneself
悟透“自己”
In all one's lifetime it is oneself that one spends the most
time being with or dealing with. But it is precisely oneself that
one has the least understanding of.
人生在世，和“自己”相处最多，打交道最多，但是往往悟不透“自己”。
When you are going upwards in life you tend to overestimate
yourself. It seems that everything you seek for is within your
reach; luck and opportunities will come your way and you are
overjoyed that they constitute part of your worth. When you are
going downhill you tend to underestimate yourself, mistaking
difficulties and adversities for your own incompetence. It's likely
that you think it wise for yourself to know our place and stay
aloof from worldly wearing a mask of cowardice, behind which the
flow of sap in your life will be retarded.
人生走上坡路时，往往把自己估计过高，似乎一切所求的东西都能垂手可得，甚至把运气和机遇也看做自己
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Smiles send us light in
the darkness. Smiles bring us warm sunlight on a cold winter day.
Smiles can break the hard ice. Smiles are like the rainbow. The
rainy days end and the sky is beautiful again.
Smiles show love and
friendship. Teachers’ smiles encourage us. Mothers’ smiles warm us.
Friends’ smiles make us closer.
We welcome smiles from
others. And we should give others our smiles too. No one is richer
than a man who often smiles at others. If a man doesn’t smile at
you, just smile at h
如果你已经过了20岁但还不到25岁的话，你必须找到除了爱情之外，能够使你用双脚坚强站在大地上的东西。你要找到谋生的方式。现在考虑不晚了。
我从来不以为学历有什么重要，天才都不是科班，但，不是科班，连龙套都跑不了。你必须把那些浮如飘絮的思绪，渐渐转化为清晰的思路和简单的文字。华丽和漂浮都不易长久。你要知道，给予文字阅读快感不够的，内容，思想，境界，灵魂，精神和智慧，这些才重要。不要多看那些和你一个路数的女作家的文字。不要琐碎，无病呻吟。不要想到什么就写。不要流连于小感伤和小感动。
我要你相信温暖，美好，信任，尊严，坚强这些老掉牙的字眼。我不要你颓废，空虚，迷茫，糟践自己，伤害别人。我不要你把自己处理得一团糟。节制自己的感情并且珍惜它，明白这种感情不是任何人都能要。体验生活，是另外一回事，并不意味着堕落和放纵。千万不要认同那些伪装的酷和另类。他们是无事可做的人找出来放任自己无事可做的借口，真正的酷是在内心。你要有强大的内心。要有任凭时间流逝，不会磨折和屈服的信念。不是因为在学校的象牙塔中，才说出我爱
【第三季】
3-01
Every storm brings with it hope that somehow by morning, everything
will be made clean again. And even the most troubling stains will
have disappeared. Like the doubts over his innocence… or the
consequence of his mistake… like the scars of his betrayal… or the
memory of his kiss. So we wait for the storm to pass hoping for the
best… even though we know in our hearts some stains are so
indelible, nothing can wash them away.
每次暴风雨都带来希望, 只要到早晨, 一切都可以洗刷干净. 即使是最伤脑筋的污渍也会消失. 比如对于他是否无辜的怀疑…
或者他犯下错误的后果… 又如他背叛留下的伤疤… 或是记忆中他的吻. 所以我们等待暴风雨过去, 期待美好的来临…
即使我们知道在我们的心中, 有些污渍太过于顽固, 任何东西也无法抹去.
3-02
Have you met the perfect couple? The two soul mates whose love
never dies? The two lovers whose relations
【第二季】
2-01 (略)
2-02
Control. It's extraordinary the tactics people employ to obtain it.
Some rely on deception. While others engage in outright trickery.
Then there are those who resort to extortion. Why do we fight so
hard for control? Because we know to lose it is to put our fate in
the hands of others. And what could be more dangerous?
控制. 人们用来夺取它的手段很不寻常. 一些人靠蒙蔽. 另一些人完全依赖欺骗. 还有些靠的是强迫威逼.
我们为什么要这么努力地获得控制权? 因为我们知道如果失去了它就等于让别人掌握我们的命运. 还有比这更危险的吗?
2-03
Everyone enjoys a game of make-believe now and then. Of course, the
ways in which we play can vary greatly. Sometimes we tell ourselves
work won't interfere with our family life. Sometimes, we imagine
certain relationships to be more meaningful tha
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【第一季】
1-01 (略)
1-02
Yes, as I look back to the world I left behind, it's all so clear
to me. The beauty that waits to be unveiled. The mysteries that
long to be uncovered. But people so rarely stopped to take a look.
They just keep moving. It's a shame really, there's so much to
see.
是的, 当我回头看看身后这个世界时, 一切都如此的清晰. 等待被发现的美丽. 和等待被揭开的神秘. 但人们很少会停下来看上一眼.
他们只是不停地往前走. 这真的很遗憾, 有那么多值得一看的东西.
1-03
Yes, I remember the world. Every detail. A
我们为何总是向往彼岸?
我们为何总以为朋友,熟人和邻居以为素不相识的人都比我们幸福?
我们为何总说:'我们付出了很多,却什么也没得到.'
彼岸总是显得更美,因为它遥远!!!
然而,我们却从未注意到彼岸的人也在看你,以为我们比他们更幸福,因为他们只看到我们令人愉快的一面,而不知道我们的忧虑.幸福生活是一门艺术,它需要我们对自己感到满足.
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