很久没上来看以前的自己，博客已搬家一段时间了，因为网速的问题，这个博客很难打开，所以才搬走了，回首一看，又看了之前自己曾留下的东西，多少有点怀念，但以后可能很少再上这里来写了，偶尔上来，能否有惊喜呢，呵呵

新博客地址：http://maomao.9hy.com/我的再续神话，希望属于自己的神话能一直续下去！

虽然刚过了THANKSGIVING，不过还是很想对两个好朋友说声，谢谢。不为别的，JUST FOR OUR FRIENDSHIP, THANK YOU, MY FRDS!

徐静蕾说，“80后”已从底层开始往上混了。事实上，17岁到26岁的他们已经开始或准备开始在职场舞台上扮演各自的角色，平凡或是伟大、顺利或是坎坷、快乐或是痛苦，各种人生滋味，他们开始在切实的体验中慢慢感悟、消化，一如他们的前辈。走过、路过，不要错过，生活诚然需要回望过去和展望未来，但认清现在的自己恐怕是最为重要的。我们试图通过记录正发生在他们生活中的点滴变化，因为偶尔打量自己可能有助于继续前行。”

是否曾为学校打饭排长龙感到气愤，是否也曾为坐公交车时遇到大塞车而感到无奈，是否也曾为一大堆的麻烦小事而着急不安。在我们的生活中有太多太多这样的事情发生，而大多数情况下我们都会想如果这些麻烦不发生，或许有方法把时间调快而过去，那该多好！剩下的就都是好事情了，谁不愿意了？刚看过电影“神奇的遥控器”，片里的男主角是个工作狂，对于他来说，其他家常小事都变成了阻碍，除了工作，他一切都觉得不可控制。于是他得到一个“天使”的“神奇遥控器”，一切时间随他控制，他快活地把不想经历的事情按“快进”就解决了，影片一开始真是爆笑，但是刚他慢慢发生时间不知不觉地“快进”十年的时候，他才发现自己错过的东西实在太多，他想回到以前，但是“遥控器”已经按照他以前的模式设定了“自动导航”，又过了六年，他已经成了一个老头，一对儿女成大了，老婆跟别人跑了，老父都已经过世了，而这一切一切他都错过了，最后在他病危时，不顾生命危险跟儿子说“要以家庭为主”，而不是“

         (留意他的眼睛，一只浅绿色，一只淡褐色吖，好帅啊）

 

从星期一到星期三，一直往返于番禺和广州之间，跑来跑去的，不为什么，第一天只是跟几个表兄妹相聚，然后到第二天才回来，今天又跑了一趟，是跟老哥去买手机，他之前的被偷了，又走了一天，累得半死，心里还算踏实，因为见到哥、表哥表妹他们总是给我有回家的感觉，一起吃饭一起逛街，简简单单，舒舒服服的。

之前因为忙去忙入，所以两天都没上过网，谁知昨晚一开Q，信息就没停过，一大堆好友同学跟我说我的Q中毒了，有些还跟我调侃，有些骂我被害惨了，有些忙着帮我找查毒的，几乎同一时间我应付十几个同学聊天，最后手指都觉得发麻了。嘻嘻，想起来都觉得搞笑，平时大家都很少聊天了，竟然因为一个Q中毒，大家好像找到了话题，一发不可收拾，令我开心的是，让我知道原来自己有这么多好友，痛苦的是，我一对十的阵容真的超吓人，手指仿佛装上马达一般，有个同学更搞笑，还要和我音频，说打字太麻烦，我想这次好了，不但要手动，而且还要口动，真是难得的运动量啊。哈哈~~~

面试很容易让人紧张不安。Thoughts such as 'What if I don't get any job offers?', 'What if I don't get the job I want?' or 'Will I accept a position that isn't right for me?' can cause considerable upset.

越是担心，就越是紧张，面试的结果可能就越差。Here are a few notes and pointers on how to prepare for interviews and determine if this job is the right one for you.

1. The key to reducing your anxiety is in being well-prepared for the interview. The first step towards a successful job interview is self-assessment (自我评估). You need to decide for yourself what kind of position you want. Since self-knowledge is the foundation of all decisions, a close scrutiny of your priorities, interests, short and long-term goals is necessary before any interview.

Remember: if you're unsure of whether or not you want the position you're interviewing for, it will probably show. If you don't have a reasonably clear focus, this is the time to do some hard thinking about what

在回答完考官的全部问题后，你也应该适时地问考官一些问题。In fact, they expect it, so having a few questions ready is a good idea. We've assembled some of the questions job applicants ask most often.

About the Job:
·Can you describe an ideal employee?
·Can you tell me about the competencies necessary to perform this job?
·How is performance measured and reviewed?
·Can you describe a typical day in this job?
·Can you portray the best and worst aspects of this job?
·How long do people usually stay in this job?
·Why did the last person leave this job?

About the Department:
·How many employees are in this department?
·How important does upper management consider the functions of this department?
·Are there any weaknesses in the department you're working on improving?
·Will I be able to meet the immediate supervisor for this role?

About the Company:
·Does the company have a general or specifi

一旦你见到了有权利决定是否雇用你的人，让他对你有个好印象非常重要。So, the first thing to do is to concentrate on making a good first impression. During the first 15 seconds of an interview, an employer will perceive you in two ways, one visual and the other tactile. You guessed it: Your appearance and your handshake go a long way toward making a good impression.

To make the right first impression and sell yourself in an interview, you must prepare, start at the beginning, and never skip steps. Let's begin, using the job interview as an example.

第一件事就是要了解你要求职的这家公司。Begin researching a company when you begin requesting interviews.

Use a company's Web site, information from network contacts, or a library to get to know your interviewer. Understand what that company does, and try to get to know its culture, or personality. Any information, however trivial, may be used to your advantage during the interview.

着装一定要得体。Your 'inter

今天是俺老爸生日，不能回家有点可惜，因为已经四年没有回到家里跟老爸过生日了。但也是没办法的事，所以只好打电话回家。听到老爸爽朗的笑声，知道虽然子女们都不在身边，但因为我们都记得打电话给他，所以他很开心，因为子女们都没有忘记他，原来父母慢慢老了，最害怕的就是子女都单飞时把他们给忘了。

从来没有送过象样的礼物给爸，今年也一样，只告诉