16.    人类一旦被物质所控制，就会失去独立精神和主动精神，生命就会扭曲变形。很多东西都在以某种堂皇的理由消灭着积极的生命。

17.    一定要保持自己独立的判断，在追随之前，先冷静思考一下追随的意义。

18.    创造成就感的本质就是创造你自己的生活。创造成就感从创造今天开始，从一天而非一生的目标做起。你所能掌握的一切就是今天，而今天很有可能就是你这一生的转折点：

       今天，也许你终于等到了你所钟情的人；

       今天，也许你遇到了影响你一生的重要导师；

       今天，也许你会因偶然的机缘而顿悟人生的真谛；

       今天，请你努力的创造今天。

19.    充满挫折感的过程最终会让人丧失斗志。但是，调整一下自己的心态，确立现实的目标，你就会重新获得成就感。

20.    自出生伊始，每一个人一辈子所经历的幸福和痛苦的总量都应该是差不多相同的，之所以有的

 What do you want most in a friend -- someone who is intelligent, or someone who has a sense of humor, or someone who is reliable? Which one of these characteristics is most important to you?

  As for me, I attach more importance to the characteristic of honesty. In the other way, I mean I will take consideration of moral quality at first. Everyone has many friends, but there are usually few friends who you can interchange things in your heart. Only those ones who are honest and don't tell lies, can get the most valuable friendship.

  Honesty is a basic making to succeed in the modern society. No matter what you are doing and what field your major is in, you need to be honest to get in touch with others and then get their trust. If not, no one will want to communicate with you whenever they find you are a person of that kind.

  As a friend, you certainly

 It's high time for me to write another article. And this time, I want to discuss the topic of sense of humor.

  The sense of humor is the most important gift given to the mankind by the god. With it, we can live on the earth happily with our smiles. It can dissolve many problems among people, and make colorless days become interesting. Humor can enhance physical as well as mental wellbeing. It helps us to bear our burdens, lessen our tensions, overcome our frustrations, relax our muscles, and dissolve countless trifles and irritations. With the cracking of a joke, all our worries, sadness and tiredness disperse like mist and smoke, and we are full of wim and vigor once again. 

  No matter you are male or female, you certainly would like to get in touch with a person with more sense of humor. No one prefers to a dull person and a grey life. And people are always easy to have conflicts in work and games, then people with good

It ought to be a good day today. I ought to have a good time now. But I am lonely at the lab at present.

  In china, it's a big day for people to meet together in the mid-autumn festival. So it should be a lovely day in many people's lives. They can see their friends and relatives in this big day, and enjoy their good leisure time.

  But for me, I don't know why I am so lonely in my heart. I am alone in my lab facing a computer. My plan in the festival was destroyed, and I didn't know what to do at that time. My body didn't feel good and I was very tired in both my mind and my body. I didn't want to eat but I could feel hungrier and hungrier. Then I nearly couldn't find a single person who wanted to have the supper with me. I went to bed but couldn't

The most painful thing for me is to think over the things happened in the past. And now I feel pretty ashamed for the days I have wasted, especially when I see my last article written at June 13th. The date of my Toefl test has become nearer and nearer. It's high time for me to try my best. I am starting it.

  The match of my favorite Chelsea FC last night has kept me depressed for a whole day. It lost to Villa 0:2 badly. And the match looks so terrible that many fans of Chelsea FC will worry about the future of our club. But I don't think so. The absence of Lampard is an important reason of this terrible lose. Don't forget that he is the best shooter of the league now. Because there are many players in injure in our team before and in the beginning of the season, it's reasonable for the bad circumstance. They need to recover from the hurt and get back their best state. And then, I believe we'll see the indefectible b

 

11.    哪怕你一直站着，只要一次跌倒爬不起来，你就得一辈子躺着；哪怕你跌倒过一万次，只要你在一万零一次的时候站起来再也不倒下去，你就永远是顶天立地的英雄。

12.    年轻是我们最大的资本，我们赢得起，也输得起，唯一要做到的就是永不言败。

13.    主动积极的生活和学习是人类幸福的出发点和归属地。

14.    任何人想要使生命丰富多彩，都必须能够控制自己的生命。在成长的过程中，我们一不小心就会被别的东西控制，逐渐变得空有躯体，没有灵魂。

15.    人对某种东西不知不觉产生的依赖心理，就是生命和灵魂受到控制的标志。

 

    最近在读老俞（新东方校长俞敏洪）的《生命如一泓清水》，深感“一本好书，可以让你在他的每一段章节中感悟生命的意义，感受人生的真谛，我喜欢！（小董语）”遂决定把读书心得、感受的道理拿出来与来访的朋友们分享，希望老俞的精辟见解感动我的同时也可以帮助大家。我决定出一系列连载，防止‘晕字’情况的发生。本文是该系列之一，以后奇数文章将发于本博客，而偶数文章将发于本人的Qzone，敬请关注！嘿嘿:-)

开始：1. 日子如果没有目标的过下去，只不过是几段散乱的岁月。但如果把努力凝聚到每一日，去实现自己的某一个梦想，散乱的日子就积成了生命的永恒。

      2. 我们只有反省自己，从自己身上寻找诸多麻烦和痛苦的原因，从而斩草除根，才能使自己过上心灵宁静、和谐美满的生活。

      3. 在走向人生的目的地之前，先为自己设计一张人生地图十分重要。我们要在地图上把起点标出来，把目的地标出来，把到达目的地的路径标出来，还必须要有应付意外情况的心理准备，懂得如何在原定路径走不通的时候确定新的路径。

   &nbs

The University Entrance Examination has passed. Here I wish students a good luck to have good grades for going to their appropriate universities.

  Although you may hear that many guys behave badly in their colleges, I still think university life can be an important experience in your life. There are certain advantages as follows.

  The first good thing, you have a better study atmosphere. And you have a better communication with other people with the same age. You will not feel alone and feel you are pushed to grow up.

  However, many people quarrel about the problem of campus love. Someone thinks it good; someone thinks it bad. To my view, I consider both thoughts have its reasons and its shortcomings. With a boy friend or a girl friend, you will enjoy a more interesting campus life. And some students' study is really promoted because of love. But there are also, and indeed more, disadvantages of