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有太多的错误假借了爱的名义，结果使得关于爱的谎言在这世界上大肆横行，最终令我们部分失去了判断爱和恨的能力，令我们不懂得自己的爱与恨，也不懂得分辨别人的爱与恨。许多被爱的谎言严重伤害的人，干脆最后就再也不谈爱，因为他们的一生中，被“爱”伤害了太多太多。

为了真爱，我们必须懂得“假爱”，假若你因某个亲密关系而伤痕累累，那一定不是爱让你伤痕累累，而是“假爱”令你伤痕累累。“假爱”背后可能是麻木，也可能是恨，我们必须懂得这一点，才不会对真爱失去信心

 

谎言（一）：没有父母不爱自己的孩子

谎言（二）：我爱你，所以你要听我的

谎言（三）：我爱你，所以我们不分离

谎言（四）：婆媳关系(这是婆婆、媳妇和儿子的三角关系)

现在的家庭中，媳妇和儿子差不多是同等重要，她一样要承担经济压力，一样要去外面奔波，而且一样拥有很多的资源，她必然认为，这是她的家，而不是婆婆的家

如果婆婆认为，这是自己的家，并忍不住要在这个家中做主，就势必会起冲突。
因为，传统中国家庭是失衡的，亲子关

Gumption Traps and Gumptionology

by Ron Franke at Feb 25 2009 under

A woman wanted to reach her husband on his mobile phone but discovered that she was out of credit, she instructed her son to use his own phone to pass across an urgent message to his daddy who was onsite. After Junior has called, he got back to Mommy to inform her that there was a lady that
picked up Daddy's phone the three times he tried reaching Dad on the mobile.

She waited impatiently for her husband to return from work and upon seeing him in the driveway; she rushed out and gave him a tight slap. Then she slapped him again for good measure. People from the
neighborhood rushed around to find out what the cause of the commotion was. The woman asked
Junior to tell everybody what the lady said to him when he called.

Junior said: ''The subscriber you have dialed is not available at moment. Please try again later''

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为什么说学会游泳很简单，因为游泳就那么几招：

理论，实践+耐心

学不会游泳就很复杂：

1 怀疑，我当了几十年旱鸭子，我能学会吗？  =>你说呢？
2 急躁，”为什么我还学不会，为什么为什么'=>问自己下一步该怎么做更好
3 你说的很有道理，但是不适合我!==>潜台词是，不好意思，我是对的，你说错了
4 放弃，'算了，算了'=>还有什么好说的呢？
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