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Booksworthreading:MaleandFemale/Marriageandfamily

(2018-08-10 04:31:39)
分类: 男女/大脑/生理差异/问题解析
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What's in this article:
1. My studies. 2. Books worth reading. 3. There's something behind it

1. My studies, my goal. 
Short description of who I am, my studies, psychology, counseling, and theology's paradigms, to know the difference of the right and left brain is to know the difference of male and female. 

I earned degrees on Marriage and Family counseling/Educational Ministry in Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary, Ft. Worth,  TX in 1999. 

You may or may not know that in the past 100 years of psychology and 50 years of counseling/marriage therapy are based on psychological studies. The paradigms of each school limited their studies of resources. Theology it's paradigm is focusing on knowing of God, the expansion of the unvisible kingdom, ..., Nothing about the handy works of the Creator. 

Physiology is based on physical body, and only, for what can be seen and touch. Evolution is the only way to explain how our body develop from... whatever you think of.

Psychology is based on mental studies, and most, from people with problems. Rarely their studies related to physical studies. This is a good ex. Men are from Mars, Women Are from Venus (1992), this book sold universally over 70 millions, but the difference between male and female has nothing to do with their brain. The reason I said so is, there's not a bit mentioned in this book about the different of their brain.  

However, in Why Mars and Venus Collide (2007), he did apply some examples of the differences are caused by brain differences, but compared to the volume of the content, it's really a small part.

Counseling is based upon psychology, and through it develop skills to understand people and find strategy to help people.

My goal is to relate theology, physiology, and psychology to help people. Including Creation-design vs Evolution-random to see which one is more reasonable and more scientific.

Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus

2. Books worth reading.
Think of marriage problems, divorce rate, family dissolved and its social cost, probably you never heard it "Single Parenthood Costs Taxpayers $112 Billion." each year. For Canada, it is 7 billion. 

To know the brain is to know the function why we act this or that way. To know the difference of right and left brain, reveals the difference of male and female too! And this is 1981 Nobel Price Medical winner-Roger Sperry's study.

Here are two major differences of male and female, which you probably never heard of: Brain and sex

Brian difference, both sides functioning when women talk, male only left side.
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Testosterone difference, males are 20-100 times of female. Testosterone is the fuel of libido, Wives, now you know why he is asking for it, and you are not that so much so interested.
Booksworthreading:MaleandFemale/Marriageandfamily

A couple of books related to why we attract to each other in dating (sexeromone), difference of male and female, brain development and homosexual brain, and how to deal relationship problem.

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Why We Love, The Female Brain, The Male Brain, Brain Sex (腦內乾坤), The Essential Difference, , people skills

Why We Love, -A very important book for dating partners, don't misunderstood sex love. Why we attract to each other, and why the First Love disappeared in just after 2-3 years. It's all by the Creator's designed to attract both for creatures (sexeromone). 
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That's why (true) Love is a decision, esp. while 70% of marriage conflict can never be resolved.Booksworthreading:MaleandFemale/Marriageandfamily

Why, because 70% of conflicts can never be resolved. 
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Afraid to pledge loyalty to get married?

The Female Brain


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2. There's something behind it.

We cannot make a white hair black, we cannot control the growth of our body, we jsut can't make change of our body by ourself. Why? It's all control by our gene, DNA.

Just as cellpohone and computer are controlled by after-programmed-1 & 0, our physical body, including grass, the color, the shape, the heigth; the beauty of rose, everything about it, even the smell of it's fragrance. All creatures are controlled by it's programmed gene.

The information in DNA is stored as a code made up of four chemical bases: adenine (A), guanine (G), cytosine (C), and thymine (T). Human DNA consists of about 3 billion bases, and more than 99 percent of those bases are the same in all people. The order, or sequence, of these bases determines the information available for building and maintaining an organism, similar to the way in which letters of the alphabet appear in a certain order to form words and sentences.

DNA bases pair up with each other, A with T and C with G, to form units called base pairs. Each base is also attached to a sugar molecule and a phosphate molecule. Together, a base, sugar, and phosphate are called a nucleotide. Nucleotides are arranged in two long strands that form a spiral called a double helix. The structure of the double helix is somewhat like a ladder, with the base pairs forming the ladder’s rungs and the sugar and phosphate molecules forming the vertical sidepieces of the ladder.

An important property of DNA is that it can replicate, or make copies of itself. Each strand of DNA in the double helix can serve as a pattern for duplicating the sequence of bases. This is critical when cells divide because each new cell needs to have an exact copy of the DNA present in the old cell.

DNA is a double helix formed by base pairs attached to a sugar-phosphate backbone.

DNA is a double helix formed by base pairs attached to a sugar-phosphate backbone.
Credit: U.S. National Library of Medicine

Now the question is, if cellphone must be programmed by many engineers with 1 & 0, then, who programmed your gene and all creatures with ATCG?

Bible tells us there is a Creator, after he created them, he gave them an order to have their descendents after it's kind. This explained that creature wisdom hidden in gene (such as spiders weaving web, they never saw their parents, no go to school to learn 1,2,3,4, parrallel, division, and yet, they weave their web in 3 D world, the result is better than your drawing a web on a paper on a desk). And past to next generation. 

This is important to know: we can't pass what we learned to next generation. so the answer is clear, who wrote creature wisdom in their first generation? There must be someone!

There's only 2 monotheism as we know, one is Christianity (including Jewishism, Catholic, and Prostant), the other one is Isam.

Jesus is the Word became flesh, through His works we know he is God. I do believed that if there's any possibility to find a God (even 1/0000000000000000), it's worth to find Him, right?  

Stephn Chu, Toronto, 1-416-887-4125, TheRelationBoat@gmail.com, 

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