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人人可以成為婚姻與家庭教育人員

(2012-04-30 19:30:01)
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婚姻教育

婚姻與家庭教育

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教育

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這是從美國以婚姻與家庭教育著名的 smartmarriages.com, 有關「你也可以成為婚姻與家庭教育人員」網頁上下載,和用Google翻譯出的。抱歉,時間關係,無法自己翻譯,也無法校對,以後會校對,以幫助國人。翻譯有時很好,有時啼笑皆非,有時不知所云,但大多數還是可以,上下左右聯聯想想猜猜+意會,還是可以了解70%。

嚴記顯示,常人教導可能勝過專業人員

婚姻教育使用經過研究,紮實有效的材料,教導認識兩性,溝通,管理衝突,並有健康的,令人滿意的關係。

它不是治療所以不需要執照


因為是教育,是傳遞知識。

因為是教育,只要有加強婚姻關係的熱誠就可,所以每一個人都可以做,


如果有興趣,負擔,家裡,教會,社區中心,學校,在任何地方都可以教。
可以

所有的課程提供了基礎信息,技能和理解使夫婦加強他們的關係。

按著不同的課程設計,從不用訓練到數次訓練

訓練從不需要,到一至三天。看到全國各地的各種方案提供的培訓地點方案的指南。看看在成為婚姻的教育家“一節。你還可以教沒有在人的培訓課程設置或眾- 這是,畢竟,婚姻教育,不治療或輔導。

雖然有些節目需要2或3天的人培訓,其他已錄製的DVD培訓,並把包 - “TOOB”。這些“開箱即教(TOOB)”方案有幾十種。DVD上的訓練是“在一個盒子”,隨著領導的指導和工作簿。買材料,觀看DVD,並開始教學。

「相识与爱的礼赞」婚家教育预防课程(本课程特色)不同於一般课程(多数学员拿到的课程是大纲式,讲员保有最权威内容),是由婚家正科班出身专业教育人员(本人获美国德州西南浸信会婚姻与家庭谘商/教育硕士)将数年研究精华,所要教的课程内容,无保留的全写入幻灯片中(PPT,每一小时提供60片),因此,只要看数遍就可明白,这是实际一小时兩性差異课程


You can become a marriage and couples educator. Teach the courses and offer
programs in your community – in congregations, community centers, schools, military bases,
Extension offices, clinical practice – in any setting.

What is Marriage Education?
Marriage Education is an approach that teaches the skills and
information needed to communicate, manage conflict, and have healthy, satisfying relationships.
You can teach this material to couples (or singles) in classes, retreats, workshops and at-a-distance learning
(online, phone-coaching, DVD-based) programs. There are a wide variety of formats – some lecture
or DVD-based, others highly interactive and exercise-based, others are a blend. While the size and lenght of classes and teaching styles vary, all courses offer the basics – the information, skills and understanding that enable couples to strengthen their relationship.  

Marriage Education is based on research that has determined what makes marriages succeed or fail.
It includes information
 1) on the benefits of marriage;
 2) on what to expect along the way –
provides a roadmap for the normal, expected stages and challenges all couples face in marriage;
and
3) teaches the skills and behaviors that will help couples build strong bonds and keep their love alive.
There are programs for couples of any social class or ethnic group, and for couples at any stage
– from single to dating, engaged, cohabiting, newlywed, new parents, parents of teenagers, long married, remarried, or experiencing marital crisis – who feel they are in danger of falling out of love and hope.There are also a wide variety of programs for high schools, colleges, and youth groups.

Training takes from none to one to three days.
See the Directory of Programs for training locations offered by the various programs across the country.Look in the Become a Marriage Educator section.

You can also teach the courses in your setting or congregation without in-person training
- this is, after all, marriage Education, not therapy or counseling.
While some programs require 2 or 3 days of in-person training,
others have recorded the training on DVD and put it in a kit – a "TOOB".
There are dozens of these "teach out of the box (TOOB)" programs.
The training on DVDs is "in a box" along with leader guides and workbooks. Just buy the kit,
watch the DVDs, and start teaching.
你也可以成為婚姻和夫婦教育家。教的課程,並提供在你的社區方案 - 在教會,社區中心,學校,軍事基地,
擴建辦事處,臨床實踐 - 在任何環境。

婚姻是什麼教育?
婚姻教育是一種教的技能和方法所需的信息溝通,管理衝突,並有健康的,令人滿意的關係。
你可以教這種材料,退修會,研討會的夫婦(或單身)和遠程學習(網上,電話輔導,基於DVD)的方案。也有各種格式 - 一些講座或DVD為主,其他高度互動性和運動為主,其他混合。雖然大小和長度課程和教學風格各異,所有的課程提供了基礎信息,技能和理解使夫婦加強他們的關係。

婚姻教育研究的基礎上,已確定是什麼使婚姻成功或失敗。
1).包括對婚姻的好處
2).在婚姻旅程的期望) -
提供了一個路線圖,為正常,預期階段,所有的夫婦在婚姻面臨的挑戰;
3).教的技能和行為,這將有助於夫妻建立強有力的連結,並保持他們的愛情鮮活。任何社會階層或族群的夫婦有計劃,在任何階段的夫婦-從單身到約會,訂婚,同居,新婚,新的家長,青少年的父母,長期婚姻,
再婚,或遇到婚姻危機 - 或婚姻素質降低,或沒有希望了。
也有多種高的學校,學院和青年團體的節目。

訓練從不需要,到一至三天。看到全國各地的各種方案提供的培訓地點方案的指南。看看在成為婚姻的教育家“一節。你還可以教沒有在人的培訓課程設置或眾- 這是,畢竟,婚姻教育,不治療或輔導。
雖然有些節目需要2或3天的人培訓,其他已錄製的DVD培訓,並把包 - “TOOB”。這些“開箱即教(TOOB)”方案有幾十種。DVD上的訓練是“在一個盒子”,隨著領導的指導和工作簿。買材料,觀看DVD,並開始教學。

Who can become a Marriage Educator?
Anyone
with a passion for helping strengthen marriage.
Research shows that lay leaders (that means ordinary people without a mental health
degree) and clergy, can teach the courses as well as – or better – than mental health
professionals (those with mental health degrees and licenses).

That's because Marriage Education is NOT therapy. It does not involve a diagnosis
or "treatment".   It is EDUCATION. You do NOT need a mental health degree or
state license
to teach marriage or family education programs – just as it doesn't take
a heart surgeon to teach smoking cessation or diet and exercise classes. A therapist is not
required to teach couples the information and best practices or behaviors that
will help them make their marriage or relationship succeed. You are not diagnosing and
treating a couple's disorder. You do not need a college degree or even a high school diploma
to teach the classes. You just need to know the material and how to teach it.
You can take a training course in person from the programs that require such training
OR you can purchase a kit and begin teaching the programs that have put
their training in a box (TOOB) on DVDs.  

The dozens of marriage education courses listed in the
Smart Marriages® on-line Directory:

- Can be taught by lay educators, teachers, clergy – or by mental health professionals.

- Leader training takes one to three days for the courses that require in-person training and certification: PREP, PAIRS, Mastering the Mysteries of Love, Couple Communication, Bringing Baby Home, 8 Habits of Successful Marriages, Family Wellness, etc.

- Or, many programs do not require "in-person" training – the "training" is recorded on DVDs and supplied in the leader Kit.
Click on the "Teach Right Out of the Box/TOOB" section. Basic Training, Marriage Links, Active Relationships, Couplehood As a Spiritual Path, 10 Great Dates, How to Avoid Marrying a Jerk (Jerkette),Torn Asunder, Marriage Done Right, Married and Loving It, Third Option, The Marriage Course, etc.

- Teaching is most effective in classroom settings – couples learn the skills better in a group setting
than in the more expensive, labor-intensive, one-trainer/counselor-to-one-couple model.

- Are not therapy or counseling – couples don’t share personal issues or feelings in the classroom.
These are not encounter groups. Marriage education does not involve diagnosis or "treatment".

誰可以成為婚姻教育人員?
任何一個有助於加強婚姻的激情。
信徒領袖(這意味著普通的人,沒有心理健康的研究表明,
度)和神職人員,可以教的課程,以及 - 比心理健康 - 或更好
專業人員(那些與心理健康度和許可證)。

這是因為,婚姻教育是沒有治療。它不涉及診斷
或“治療”。這是教育。你並不需要心理健康程度或
國家許可證教導婚姻或家庭教育節目 - 只是因為它不採取
心髒病醫生教戒菸或飲食和運動類。治療師是不是
教授夫婦的信息和最佳做法或行為
將幫助他們使他們的婚姻或關係取得成功。你是不是診斷和
治療一對夫婦的障礙。你不需要大專學歷,甚至高中文憑
教班。你只需要知道材料和如何教。
你可以在人需要這樣的培訓方案,培訓課程
或者你可以購買一個工具包,並開始教學已提出的方案
他們的訓練,在DVD上盒
“開箱即教(TOOB)”

婚姻教育課程中列出的幾十
智能婚姻®上線目錄:

- 可以教非專業教育工作者,教師,神職人員 - 或由心理衛生專業人員。

- 領袖訓練需要一至三天的課程,需要在人的培訓和認證:準備,對掌握的愛情,夫妻溝通的奧秘,讓寶寶回家,8個成功的婚姻習慣,家庭健康等

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