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人人可以成為婚姻與家庭教育人員,預防工作。

(2012-04-30 19:30:01)
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婚姻教育

婚姻與家庭教育

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教育

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這是從美國以婚姻與家庭教育著名的 smartmarriages.com, 有關「你也可以成為婚姻與家庭教育人員」網頁上節錄。

婚姻教育使用經過研究,紮實有效的材料,教導認識兩性,溝通,管理衝突,建立健康,令人滿意的關係。是教育,是傳遞知識,不是治療,不需要執照。

因為是教育,只要有加強婚姻關係的熱誠與教導的心就可,每一個人都可以做。

研究顯示,常人教導婚家課程可能勝過專業人員的輔導!為什麼?因為在第一線,做預防工作,不是事後補救。

如果有興趣,負擔,家裡,教會,社區中心,學校,在任何地方都可以用PPT進行。

這些課程提供基本信息,技能,和理解,幫助夫婦加強關係。

按著不同的課程設計,從不用訓練到數次訓練。雖然有些課程需要2或3天的培訓,有些錄製的DVD培訓,包括“TOOB”。這些“開箱即教(TOOB)”方案有幾十種。有指導本和學生本。買材料,觀看DVD,並開始教學。

「相识与爱的礼赞」婚家教育预防课程(本课程特色)不同於一般课程(多数学员拿到的课程是大纲式,讲员保有最权威内容),是由婚家正科班出身专业教育人员(本人获美国德州西南浸信会婚姻与家庭谘商/教育硕士),将数年研究精华,所要教的课程内容,无保留的全写入幻灯片中(每一小时提供60片),因此,只要看数遍就可明白,这是实际一小时兩性差異课程

You can become a marriage and couples educator. Teach the courses and offer
programs in your community – in congregations, community centers, schools, military bases,
Extension offices, clinical practice – in any setting.

What is Marriage Education?
Marriage Education is an approach that teaches the skills and
information needed to communicate, manage conflict, and have healthy, satisfying relationships.
You can teach this material to couples (or singles) in classes, retreats, workshops and at-a-distance learning
(online, phone-coaching, DVD-based) programs. There are a wide variety of formats – some lecture
or DVD-based, others highly interactive and exercise-based, others are a blend. While the size and lenght of classes and teaching styles vary, all courses offer the basics – the information, skills and understanding that enable couples to strengthen their relationship.  

Marriage Education is based on research that has determined what makes marriages succeed or fail.
It includes information
 1) on the benefits of marriage;
 2) on what to expect along the way –
provides a roadmap for the normal, expected stages and challenges all couples face in marriage;
and
3) teaches the skills and behaviors that will help couples build strong bonds and keep their love alive.
There are programs for couples of any social class or ethnic group, and for couples at any stage
– from single to dating, engaged, cohabiting, newlywed, new parents, parents of teenagers, long married, remarried, or experiencing marital crisis – who feel they are in danger of falling out of love and hope.There are also a wide variety of programs for high schools, colleges, and youth groups.

Training takes from none to one to three days.
See the Directory of Programs for training locations offered by the various programs across the country.Look in the Become a Marriage Educator section.

You can also teach the courses in your setting or congregation without in-person training
- this is, after all, marriage Education, not therapy or counseling.
While some programs require 2 or 3 days of in-person training,
others have recorded the training on DVD and put it in a kit – a "TOOB".
There are dozens of these "teach out of the box (TOOB)" programs.
The training on DVDs is "in a box" along with leader guides and workbooks. Just buy the kit,
watch the DVDs, and start teaching.

Who can become a Marriage Educator?
Anyone
with a passion for helping strengthen marriage.
Research shows that lay leaders (that means ordinary people without a mental health
degree) and clergy, can teach the courses as well as – or better – than mental health
professionals (those with mental health degrees and licenses).

That's because Marriage Education is NOT therapy. It does not involve a diagnosis
or "treatment".   It is EDUCATION. You do NOT need a mental health degree or
state license
to teach marriage or family education programs – just as it doesn't take
a heart surgeon to teach smoking cessation or diet and exercise classes. A therapist is not
required to teach couples the information and best practices or behaviors that
will help them make their marriage or relationship succeed. You are not diagnosing and
treating a couple's disorder. You do not need a college degree or even a high school diploma
to teach the classes. You just need to know the material and how to teach it.
You can take a training course in person from the programs that require such training
OR you can purchase a kit and begin teaching the programs that have put
their training in a box (TOOB) on DVDs.  

The dozens of marriage education courses listed in the
Smart Marriages® on-line Directory:

- Can be taught by lay educators, teachers, clergy – or by mental health professionals.

- Leader training takes one to three days for the courses that require in-person training and certification: PREP, PAIRS, Mastering the Mysteries of Love, Couple Communication, Bringing Baby Home, 8 Habits of Successful Marriages, Family Wellness, etc.

- Or, many programs do not require "in-person" training – the "training" is recorded on DVDs and supplied in the leader Kit.
Click on the "Teach Right Out of the Box/TOOB" section. Basic Training, Marriage Links, Active Relationships, Couplehood As a Spiritual Path, 10 Great Dates, How to Avoid Marrying a Jerk (Jerkette),Torn Asunder, Marriage Done Right, Married and Loving It, Third Option, The Marriage Course, etc.

- Teaching is most effective in classroom settings – couples learn the skills better in a group setting
than in the more expensive, labor-intensive, one-trainer/counselor-to-one-couple model.

- Are not therapy or counseling – couples don’t share personal issues or feelings in the classroom.
These are not encounter groups. Marriage education does not involve diagnosis or "treatment".


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