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有多少人败给了“对不起,我家里不同...

(2011-08-03 19:24:45)
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——“对不起,我爱你,但是我家里不同意”。
  时隔许久, 你会在看到这句话的时候心里还是抽搐了那
  一下么?
  多少爱情败给了它?
  这一句话真的有那么大威力,让所有爱情都在那一刻苍白么?到底是这句话太决绝,还是你们的爱情不够坚强?
  —————————— 《如果我爱你》 ———————
  1 家里人说,嫁太远不能时常的陪在老人身边,我们不舍得。
  如果我爱你,我会告诉我爸妈,即使我走远了,也会时常来看你们,会时常给你们打电话,一有时间就会带着小外孙回来看你们。
  如果我爱你,我会告诉我爸妈,我们会一起努力,将来会买一个大房子只要你们想小外孙了,只要你们喜欢了,一个电话,就把你们接来住。我们一块吃晚饭,一块去散步,一起说说笑笑,路上他会搀着你们,会叫你们“爸妈”跟他叫他爸妈一个声调,一种感觉。
  如果我爱你,我会告诉我爸妈 , 我爱的他不比别人差什么,他爱老人爱孩子,爱我,爱这个家;他很努力,很上进,他很大男人,他希望他能让我跟你们还有他的爸妈都幸福,那是他最温馨的梦想。
  如果我爱你,我会告诉我爸妈, 我爱他,他很好,我相信虽然这个女婿离你们远点,但是他会跟我一样挂念你们,希望一有机会就跟你们在一起,他只是看你们的时候会多花几个小时的时间。所以,别否定他,给他个机会,让他成为你们的家人,跟我一样,爱你们。
  2。家里人还说,那穷小子没钱,没房,给不了你幸福。
  如果我爱你 我会告诉我爸妈 ,你的女儿不是傻子,也知道现实,也希望遇见的人是谦谦公子,有花不完的毛爷爷,可以供你女儿我挥金如土,顺便也让你们跟着感到无限风光和满意。但是—他不是。他不是公子哥,不是富二代,他有的只有对我的爱和从没放弃过的执着。
  如果我爱你 我会告诉我爸妈,你女儿也不喜欢挤公交,也不喜欢每个月领到薪水后拿出一部分划在“房租支出”下面。但是相信我们,我们很相爱,我们会一起把月票换成车钥匙,把房租支出慢慢的变成零。
  如果我爱你 我会告诉我爸妈 ,他不比别人缺什么,通向公主的城堡,别人骑的是白马,捧的是玫瑰;他骑的是小驴,拿的是狗尾巴草。但是只要他眼神比别人真诚比别人可爱,你闺女我就跟着狗尾巴走定了!
  如果我爱你 我会告诉我爸妈 ,我爱他,所以我相信他。即使现在他做不到,但是我相信他在努力。而让我幸福是他梦想的一部分,他很认真,我不忍心让他那部分跟我有关的梦想不完整。我也希望他可以有呼风唤雨的那一天,我想陪着他,陪他品尝第一份苦涩,陪他分享他第一份喜悦。这应该是你们说过的“相濡以沫”“不离不弃”
  如果我爱你 我会告诉我爸妈, 你们女儿要的幸福不只是一个果实,而是那个果实长大的过程。我相信我们会幸福,不管那个果实什么时候成熟,结出多的果子有多大,哪怕是小小的,也一定是甜的。
  3.家里人又说了,你年轻,想的太美好,可是现实不一定如此。
  如果我爱你 我会告诉我爸妈,是的。他在努力但是不一定能成功,不一定能给我幸福。但是他在努力,也不一定不成功。我爱他,所以我相信他。
  如果我爱你 我会告诉我爸妈,是的,现实可能是残酷的,我们可能会接受很多考验,我可能不会像选择了富家子弟那些女孩过的那么风调雨顺,但是你女儿不愿意与别人一样活着,我的婚姻不是别人的一个模子,我没必要跟别人一样。我喜欢这样倔强的风风雨雨的走来,然后安然幸福的享受我们努力后的果实,我觉得这样活得很真实。
  如果我爱你 我会告诉我爸妈,是的,未来是无定数的,但是他爱我,他会努力给我让我看到我们的未来一点点,慢慢清晰。。
  如果我爱你 我会告诉我爸妈,是的,以后的路是看不到边的,但是他爱我,像爸爸爱妈妈那样,一辈子不会动摇。所以不管未来如何,他都会牵着我的手,不松开。这样我已经很幸福了。
  如果我爱你,我不会放弃你。我会努力让我的家人接受你。
  ————————《 如果你爱我》—————————
  1.我家里人说,你太远,不能经常来看他们。
  如果你爱我,不管我爸妈怎样质疑你,你都要给他们肯定的微笑,告诉他们你可以,不要质疑,你爱他们跟我一样。
  如果你爱我,不管他们是否乐意接你的电话,工作不忙的时候,隔段时间就给我妈打一个电话,问问她身体舒服么,起风的时候要加衣服,不然你闺女知道也会担心。让我妈觉得原来这个女婿虽然远点但是很有心,感觉很近。。慢慢的我妈会喜欢接你电话。等你的电话成了她生活的一部分的时候,她就不会再觉得你远了。
  如果你爱我,不管我爸是否从心里默认过你这个女婿,不管他开始会不会不太热情。有空的时候也问候问候他,跟他唠唠,问问他工作顺利么,跟他讲你爸爸跟他差不多年纪,也跟他这样,很爱孩子。。问问他喜欢喝什么酒,有空给他带点,即使没多少时间,但是只要逢年过节有空回家,都能陪他喝两盅。让我爸觉得,这女婿,远点但是懂我老爷子的心,很不错。。貌似也是可以考虑的。。。让我我爸开心的时候 ,他会把你送的酒故意留几瓶,等隔壁那个老头来串门的时候,搬出来,故意有意无意的说,这是那谁谁送的。也许他屋子里这个时候有很多酒,他其实就是想显摆显摆,让那个老头子知道,我有准女婿了,虽然比你家的女婿远,但是你瞧瞧对我老爷子多有心,这样的女婿你有么?
  如果你爱我,请像我爱我家人那样爱他们,他们会感觉的到。
  如果你爱我,不要害怕我家人难以接受你,只要你让他们感觉到你的真诚,努力让我的家人承认你,接受你,喜欢上你。
  如果你爱我,请体谅我爸妈对你曾经有过的质疑,你可能也会委屈也会生气,但是亲爱的我都懂,你受的委屈我心里也会疼,也会替你着急。我爸妈接受你之后也会疼惜你之前的走进他们的不容易,会加倍对你好,所以别放弃。
  2 。我的家人说,你没钱,给不了我幸福。
  如果你爱我,坦诚的告诉我爸妈,你现在虽然薪水不多,买房也不够,但是你一直在努力。而且以后会更加努力。请他们相信你。
  如果你爱我,照你自己说的去做,不管结果如何,不要放弃追求。并让我的家人感觉到你真的在努力,跟你说的一样,你不只是说说算了。
  如果你爱我,坚决的告诉我爸妈,你爱我,不管将来如何都会把你最好的给我,都会努力做最好的给我。
  如果你爱我,不要嫉恨我爸妈曾经的“势利眼”,他们不是势利眼,每一个父母都最初的愿望都是让自己的孩子过的幸福,而他们很早便接触了现实,他们知道钱这个东西作用不可忽视。但是他们也是会被真诚和执着打动的,你要做的就是拿出打动他们的那份执着。
  3。我的家人说,未来不一定怎样,你不一定能做到
  如果你爱我,最真诚的眼神,未来不一定如何,但是你会努力是一定的,你会让成功的可能性一点一点在增加也是一定的。
  如果你爱我,不要害怕困难,不要退缩,让我的家人知道,只要我在你就能更勇敢。
  如果你爱我,让我的家人知道,让我和我的家人以及你的家人幸福是你最温馨的一个梦想,而你,从没有也从不会停止努力。 成为别人梦想的一部分,是个温暖的诱惑,谁都很难抗拒。

---sorry, I love you, but I'm home do not agree.

After a long time, you will see in this sentence in the heart or the twitching

A hand?

How many love lost it?

This words really so powerful, let all the love all in that moment pale? What is this sentence too refuse, or will you love not strong enough?

------\" if I love you \"---

1 family said, marry too far can't to be with the old man often side, we did not give up.

If I love you, I will tell my parents, even if I walked away, also can often come to see you, will often give you a call, have the time you will be with a small grandson back to see you.

If I love you, I will tell my parents, we will work together, the future would buy a large house if you think young grandchildren, as long as you like, a phone, will give you your pick to live. We have dinner, to go for a walk together, laughing, the way he would hold you, will call you \"parents\" and he called his parents a tone, a feeling.

If I love you, I will tell my parents, I love the he was better than anyone else, he love what poor old man who love the family, love me, love this home; He was very hard, very progress, and to his very great man, he hopes he can let me tell you and his parents are happy, that is the most warm dream. He

If I love you, I will tell my parents, I love him, he is very nice, I believe that although the son-in-law away from you a little bit far, but he will like me, miss you a chance to with you together, he just see you will spend several hours of time. So, don't deny him, give him a chance, let him be your family, like me, love you.

2. The family also said the poor boy, no money, no room for you happiness.

If I love you I'll tell my parents, your daughter is not fool, also know that reality, also hope to meet the people's son, a flower is gentle not over of the hair grandpa, can for your daughter spends money. By the way, I also let you follow feel infinite scene and satisfaction. But-he is not. He is not GongZiGe, not rich the second generation, he only some of my love and never gave up obsession.

If I love you I'll tell my parents, your daughter also don't like crowded bus, also don't like every month salary took part in \"after delimit the rent expenditures\" below. But believe us, we are love each other, we will get together to a monthly pass into the car keys, and the rent expenditures slowly becomes zero.

If I love you I'll tell my parents, he's no better than the others lack what, and leads to the princess castle, others ride is white, and the hold is rose; He is a little donkey ride, and is GouWeiBaCao. But as long as his eyes than others sincerely than others, you the girl I lovely just follow the dog tail going!!!!!

If I love you I'll tell my parents, I love him, so I believe him. Even now he can't do it, but I believe that he's trying to. And let me happiness is a part of the dream he, he is very seriously, I can't bear to let him with me about that part of the dream is not complete. I hope he can have a group of that day of, I want to stay with him, with his first taste bitter, accompanied him to share his first joy. This should be you said \"path\" \"performing\"

If I love you I'll tell my parents, your daughter to happiness is not just a fruit, but the fruit grow up process. I believe that we would be happy, no matter the fruit when mature, and bear the fruit of DuoDa have more, even if be small, also must be sweet.

3. The family said again, you want is too young, beautiful, but not necessarily reality.

If I love you I'll tell my parents, yes. He's trying to but can not succeed, can not give me happiness. But he also is not in the effort, not successful. I love him, so I believe him.

If I love you I'll tell my parents, yes, reality may be cruel, we may accept a lot of test, and I may not like chose a millionaire who had so good girl, but your daughter would not and others live, I marriage is not a mold, the others I don't have to like everybody else. I like that stubborn turbulent, and then came the happiness we try to enjoy in the fruits of the, I think this live very real.

If I love you I'll tell my parents, yes, the future is not destiny, but he loves me, he will try to give me I see our future, slowly clear. A little bit.

If I love you I'll tell my parents, yes, the following road is the blind side, but he love me, love my mom like dad, a lifetime that won't change. So no matter how the future, he will take my hands, not loosen. So I have a very happy.

If I love you, I will not give you up. I will try to let my family accept you.

-----\" if you love me, \"-----

1. My family said, you too far away to be often comes to see them.

If you love me, no matter how my parents question to you, and you are to give them must smile, tell them you can, do not doubt, you love them like me.

If you love me, no matter whether they are willing to take your phone calls, job's not busy, lie between period of time to give my mom a telephone, ask her body comfortable yao, when the wind blows to want to add clothes, or you the girl know or about. Let my mother think originally the son-in-law although far point but very intentional, feel very near.. Slowly my mum would like to meet you call. Wait you of telephone became part of her life, she won't think you far away.

If you love me, no matter whether my dad from the heart you the default son-in-law, no matter he began to would not too warm. When you are free, to greet his greeting also he chewed and ask him about his job? Speak to him with your father he almost age, with him also that, very love children.. Ask him like to drink what wine, are free to take with him point, even didn't much time, but as long as the holiday home free, can accompany him to drink two cup. Let my dad think, the son-in-law, far point but I understand he heart, very good. Seemingly is also can consider... Let me my dad happy, he will send you to intentionally leave some bottles of wine, the old man of the house next door to, to move out, intentionally, intentionally or not, say, this is that who sent it. Maybe his room this time many wine, he is actually want to let the old man nevertheless nevertheless, that I have allowed son-in-law in than your house, although the son-in-law of far, but you see he to me more intentional, such son-in-law do you have?

If you love me, like I love my family, please love them, they will feel it.

If you love me, don't be afraid of my family to accept you, as long as you make them feel your sincere, trying to make my family admit you, accept you, like you.

If you love me, please understand parents to you used to have to questioning, you might also be injustice will also angry, but my dear, I know all your oppression I heart ache, will also help you try so hard. My parents accept after you will cherish you before you into their not easy, can double to how are you, so don't give up.

2. My family said, you have no money, can't give me happiness.

If you love me, frank told my parents, you now although few salary, buy a house also not enough, but you have been trying to. And the future will be more efforts. Please they believe you.

If you love me, as you said, regardless of the outcome, don't give up the pursuit. And let my family feel you really in the effort, said to you, you don't just about as well.

If you love me, determined to tell my parents that you love me, no matter how the future will be your best to me, it will try to do the best for me.

If you love me, don't grudges my parents once the \"real snob\", they are not real snob, each all parents first wish is to let their children happy, and their contact with reality early, they know that money this thing not neglect the effect. But they will also be sincere and persistent impress, you have to do is take out impress their share of the persistent.

3. My family said, not necessarily what, you don't future can do

If you love me, the most sincere eyes, the future not how to, but you will be effort is certain, you will make the chances for success in the increase is also a bit of certain.

If you love me, don't be afraid of difficulties, don't retreat, let my family know that, as long as I in you can more brave.

If you love me, let my family know, let me and my family and to your family happiness is you the most warm a dream, and you, never also from will not be stopped. Be a part of the dream, is a warm, who are hard to resist the temptation.

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