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翻译:Wife is an angle

(2011-08-08 22:41:16)
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Wife is an angle

 

man felt that his wife become more lazy and selfish, and bad temper day by days. Therefore, they start to fighting and quarreling every day. After that, the man had an affair, the result is he divorced with his wife and got remarried.  Sooner, His ex-wife has remarried too.  Because no children, they adapted well in their new marriage respectively.

 

After got married the man found out that his new wife –--- the woman who he had a fair with, is no good than his ex wife. And they started fighting and quarreling day by days too. The new wife did not do any housework, and the man needs to do everything both in house and outside.

 

The man felt that he is the most unlucky man in the world, his wife is worse one by one. He started to moan and groan.

 

Until one day, he met his ex-wife’s current husband. First they have no communication between each other. But after few cups of wine they began to talk. He could not help but to ask the man about his ex wife and their marriage.

 

That man told him: She is a very good woman, gentle, family oriental, did all the house works, love and care about me very much, and in particular, treat my relatives and friends very generous. There is not many women like this now.

 

The man felt being shocked and asked himself: is she really good? Why didn’t I felt this before?

 

Soon after, coincidentally, the man saw his ex-wife and his new husband while he shopped in the supermarket.  Finally, he has recoganised that they love each other and happy with their new marriage because he can see the happiness from his ex-wife’s lovely and smiling face, also he can see this from that man as he tendering holds his ex-wife in his arms.   

 

It seems that his wife is an angel or a witch, all depends on how did the man to shape and to cultivate.

 

Woman married to a man, at the moment of marriage, she is already determined to love and live with this man for her life.

 

Sometimes, the choice may let her down as she chose to marry to the wrong gay so that she will miss her right man and the most beloved man forever. 

 

If the man she married which she has chosen to donate herself to did not know how to love her, did not know how to treasure her, and use her like a maid and housekeeper, then the woman will become a real housekeeper, or finally become a witch.

 

So, if you want your wife become an angle, first, you should treat her like an angle. Even though she looks not beautiful or has a bad temper, as long as you treat her like an angle, she will give herself angle of nature, and become an angle slowly.

 

There is no natural witch, only acquired witch. A man did not know how to respect his wife, did not know how to love his wife, then he will never meet an angle, but only can run into witches.

 

Although the marriage, patience is a virtue, but if there is love, patience does not exist, but only tolerance.

 

When you look at your women without pleasant, then your wife will not care to do a witch.

 

So, if you want an angel wife, then you should treat her like an angle first. Because, the woman named ‘wife’ all has a potential to become an angle. .

 

You will find that change your attitude you can create a real angel, or a witch.

 

lOVE is a creation, but also to maintain, easier to do than be patient.

 

原文:

一位朋友,觉着老婆越来越懒惰自私,脾气也一天比一天暴躁。因此,他们天天吵架,吵到最后,朋友有了外遇,结果很简单,停妻再娶。他的前妻也很快就嫁了。因为没有孩子,他们各自进入新的婚姻都比较顺利和适应。

这朋友在婚后,先前的第三者变成了后妻,温情也开始消失殆尽。他的家里,又开始跟以前一样了,动不动就吵声不断,后妻连家务也不做,还得朋友里里外外收拾。朋友觉得自己命不够好,找的老婆一个不如一个,为此天天唉声叹气。

直到有一天,偶然机会,在一个饭局上碰到前妻的现任丈夫。两个男人原本无话,客套寒暄后,几杯酒下肚,他终于忍不住,询问人家的婚姻状况。那男人相貌普通,说话却掷地有声:她是个很好的女人,特别温柔体贴,家务全包,还那么疼我,对我的亲戚朋友也是该豪爽就豪爽,该关心就关心。这样的女人,真是不多了。

朋友说,当时就觉得脑袋“嗡”地一下,心说,她有那么好?自己怎么就没发觉呢?这些话,是他要面子糊弄我吧?

不久之后,巧的很,朋友在超市买东西,,远远看见前妻与她的现任丈夫。朋友躲在一边观察良久,终于确认,他们很幸福。那种幸福,刻在前妻的如花笑颜里,藏在她身边那个男人的温情拥抱里。

看来老婆是天使还是巫婆,全靠男人来塑造。女人嫁给好男人,嫁的那刻,是下了决心跟男人好好过日子的。她的选择会让她有得到也有失落,她可能因此而永远错过了更好更爱她的人,而如果她做出这样的奉献后男人还不珍惜她,把她当老妈子使唤,那女人就真变成老妈子了。

所以,要想让老婆永远是天使,就要先把她当天使来对待,即使她的长相和脾气不像天使,但你真把她当了天使,她就会给自己天使的性情,慢慢变成天使。

没有天生的巫婆,只有后天的黄脸婆。一个对女人不尊重的男人,一个不懂女人的男人,他看不见天使,只能碰上巫婆。

虽然在婚姻中,忍耐是一种美德,但如果有爱,就不存在忍耐,而只有宽容。当你看着自己的女人横竖不顺眼时,她便也不在乎做巫婆了。所以,如果想要一个天使女人,就先把她当天使供在心里吧。因为,这世界上每一个被叫做“老婆”的女人,都有成为天使的潜质。你会发现,原来,你态度的转变,可以造就出一个真正的天使。

这是创造,也是维护,比忍耐更容易做到。

 

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