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(2011-02-24 10:36:13)
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常常有人问我,为什么作为一个在上海的单身男人,我不那么经常出没于聚会派对。虽然我也很喜欢偶尔的同朋友聚聚喝一杯,但我也会时常问自己这样的问题“我的行为会帮助我实现自己的目标吗?”如果我想成为一名巴西柔术大师及一名极好的柔术教练,隔日宿醉真的能帮我实现这个目标么?这只是个例子,但无论你想成为一名出色的画家,尽心的父母,抑或获奖的作家,这道理也还是讲得通。想要在生活中成就某个目标,牺牲总是必要的:理想的世界中,无论想要什么都可以信手拈来,但对于生活在现实当中的我们,这就不可同日而语了。向目标一步步走去的途中,你必须要放弃那些让你离目标渐行渐远,甚至对其有害的举动。
自然,生活是需要平衡的,但对我来说,我90%的行为都是支持我一步步走向目标的。也许这对大多数人来说有一点点极端,但是即使是在采取行动之前先三思,也会对这条探寻之路有所帮助。但是,有一点是大家不能牺牲的,那就是你自己...你是谁...你的内心又是什么。如果你能坦诚的对待自己,并且行动目标相一致,那么生活也会更加顺心。所以,在下一次行动之前,先问问自己,这真的可以推动我向目标前进吗?

Sacrifice

I am often asked being a single guy in Shanghai, why I don’t go out often and party hard. Although I do enjoy going out occasionally and drinking with friends, I often ask myself “do my actions lead me towards the goals I am trying achieve?”  If my goal is to be a technical BJJ expert and a good teacher to my students, does getting drunk every other day lead me towards my goal? That’s just one example, but the same theory applies whether you aim to be a great painter, a good parent or an award winning writer.  To achieve a goal in life, there needs to be sacrifices; in the ideal world we can have everything we want but unfortunately the real world doesn’t work like that. In order to walk on a path towards a selected goal, you must forgo some things which takes you away from that path or may even be detrimental to your goal.  Of course, life needs to be balanced but I would say for myself, 90% of my actions are supportive to what I am trying to achieve.  That might be a bit extreme for most people, but just being aware of your actions before you take them will help you on your quest.  But I must add that one thing you must not sacrifice is your identity….who you are…..your heart. If you are true to your calling and act with purpose, then life will be just that much more pleasant. So next time you do something, ask yourself is it contributing to what you want to achieve?

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