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Making a Successful Bridegroom's Speech

(2010-12-06 23:08:22)
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Making a Successful Bridegroom's Speech制作一个成功的新郎上的讲话

 

The job of the groom to do most of the official thanking on the day, in particular he should say:在新郎的工作,做了一天的正式最感谢,特别是他应该说:

 

Thank you to the bride's father for his kind words, blessings and (where appropriate) his enormous generosity in paying for the wedding.

感谢的客气话,祝福你新娘的父亲及(在适当情况下)他在为婚礼付出巨大的慷慨。

Thank you to anyone else (perhaps his own family) for their financial contribution.

谢谢你给任何人(也许是他自己的家庭)提供的财政贡献。

Thank you to his own parents for, well, bringing him up to be an upstanding citizen.

谢谢你对自己的父母,那么,把他培养成为一个正直的公民。

Thank you to everyone for accepting their invitation to the wedding and for their kind gifts.

谢谢大家接受他们的邀请,为他们的婚礼和一种礼物。

Thank you to his best man.谢谢你对他的伴郎。

Thank you to any ushers and other key helpers.谢谢你对任何引进和其他重要助手。

A special toast on behalf of the bride and groom to the bridesmaids and pageboys.

作者:新娘和新郎的伴娘和pageboys特别代表敬酒。

As well as thanking everyone, the groom's speech should also have a certain entertainment value, though not to the extent that it becomes a cheap variety act.

除了感谢大家,新郎的讲话也应该有一定的娱乐价值,虽然不是以至于它成为一个廉价的各种行为。

 

In terms of its entertainment value, the groom's speech should fall somewhere between that of the bride's father and the best man.

在它的娱乐价值,新郎的讲话范围应该介于之间的那种新娘的父亲和最好的人。

In terms of sensitivities, if you are a regular presenter or speaker as part of your work or perhaps a bit of a natural show-off, you might want to consider not showing off or showing up the bride's father.

在敏感问题上,如果你是一个普通主持人,或为你的工作或者部分喇叭一个自然炫耀一下,您可能要考虑关闭不显示或显示了新娘的父亲。

Wedding speeches are supposed to be sincere but entertaining, but not to the extent that it is a competition to be judged by the guests with a 'clap-o-meter'.

婚礼发言应该是真诚的,但娱乐性,而不是它的范围内,是一项由以'鼓掌邻米'的客人来判断竞争。

 

What Else Should You Include? 你还应该包含什么?

 

Your speech is not merely an opportunity just to thank people, and personally, address a good portion of the content of your speech to the bride's father and mother.

您的讲话不仅是一个机会的人只是为了感谢,并亲自,地址是你的发言给新娘的父亲和母亲的相当一部分内容。

Remember that your wife's father will (hopefully) have said what a good bloke you are in his speech, and will have ever so subtly told you that he expects you to look after her, for better or for worse, in sickness and in health and so on - you get the picture.

请记住,你妻子的父亲会(希望)已经说了一个很好的家伙你在他的讲话,现在和将来都永远如此巧妙地告诉你,他希望你照顾她是好还是坏,在疾病和健康,等等 - 你明白了。

A good chunk of your speech should therefore acknowledge your new father-in-law's speech and to take on board the points raised.

阿你的发言好大块应该承认自己的新岳父的讲话,并就董事会提出的问题。

 

All good speeches at any occasion, whether business or pleasure, should include a healthy dose of humility and compassion for the listener.

在任何场合的发言都很好,不论是商务还是休闲,应包括谦卑和同情的倾听者健康的剂量。

 Use your speech to prove to your father-in-law (or at least say to him) that you really do care.用你的讲话,以证明你的公公(或者至少对他说),你真的关心。

This is a very big moment for him and his wife, and they will be very appreciative if the person to whom they are handing over their daughter expresses humbleness, caring and sensitivity.

这是对他和他的妻子非常重要的时刻,他们会非常感激的人,如果他们是谁,他们的女儿交给表示谦逊,关怀和灵敏度。

 

The most entertaining speeches from grooms usually make reference to how he and his bride first met.

从新郎最有趣的演说,通常会参考他和他的新娘第一次见面。

It never ceases to amaze me how nature and random chance conspire to create a sequence of events which eventually result in a groom telling his and his wife's story at their wedding reception.

它从未停止使我惊奇的性质和随机机会如何创造一个阴谋事件,最终在他们的婚礼招待会上说,他和他的妻子的故事新郎结果的顺序。

 

Stories about how you both met, how the relationship developed, when you bought your first vacuum cleaner and so on appear to hold endless fascination for the guests - even if they already know the anecdotes.

两个故事,你如何满足,如何发展的关系,当你买了你的第一个吸尘器等,似乎为客人举行无穷魅力 - 即使他们已经知道的轶事。

By the telling of the stories, the guests get to see 'behind the scenes' of your relationship, which like all the best TV documentaries, is absolutely fascinating.

到了讲故事,客人们能看到你的背后关系,像所有的最佳电视纪录片的场面',是绝对迷人'。

 

Final Thoughts 最后的思考

 

Look to the future, your future happiness, and express how excited you are about enjoying many fantastic years together.

展望未来,你的未来幸福,并表示对如何激发你一起享受许多美妙的时光。

 Express your undying love directly to your new wife - telling it straight from the heart.表达你的爱,忠贞不渝,直接到你的新妻子 - 告诉它发自内心的。

 Rehearse this bit by all means, but certainly don't read it from your notes.

排练此位以一切手段,但肯定不读它从您的笔记。

If your wife and your guests can see that you are truly sincere, I can promise that your speech will be a hit.

如果你的妻子和你的客人可以看到,你是真正的诚意,我可以保证,你的发言将是一个打击。

 

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Ladies & Gentlemen, “Absent Family & Friends”

We would like to thank both sets of parents as we wouldn’t be where we are today if it wasn’t for them. We would like to thank them all for the love and support over the years.


To my Mum & Dad….

For all the advice you have given me. For putting up with me and pointing me in the right direction, however

I do vividly remember when I for example, as a very young 4 or 5year old, I climbed into the Grandfather clock at home and managed to topple it over, with me still inside and another occasion when as an even younger lad, I decided I didn’t like the colour of our next door neighbours car, so decided to hand paint it with a brush!

Taking all that into consideration, Mum, Dad I love you very much, hold your heads high you’ve done a cracking job!

As a token of our appreciation, please accept these flowers…


To Monika’s parents

Thank you for all your love and support and for giving Monika a great start in life. I believe that I’m also meant to thank you for putting up with her in her childhood and teenage years, however when I asked her for some embarrassing snippets of information for this part of my speech, I got the reply: ‘I’m a convent girl, I didn’t do anything wrong when I was a child’!!.... Something tells me, a little princess in the making!
Of course I haven’t just gained a wife today, but also a family. Thank you to all of them for making me feel so welcome. Most of all, thank you for bringing Monika up to be the woman that I have married.
As a token of our appreciation, please accept these flowers….

Master of Ceremonies

James, I’ve known James or Jimbo for about 10 years or so... and both Monika and I are very pleased to hear that James & Rohan have decided to get married, whilst only getting engaged in November last year, they are due to be married in March 2007!... I’m told that Rohan follows you, in having the similar organisational skills! –In that it only took 6 shopping hours to buy, Bride, Groom and bridesmaids outfits! – Wow!
Many thanks for all your support today…
As a token of our appreciation, please accept this…..

Bridesmaids

Nikki & Alex….

Monika

I now come to the most important person in my life…….
To borrow a few words from a song, by Embrace….
Honey, it’s been a long time coming.... & I can’t stop smiling and I can’t stop now!….
Simply put…. ‘You look absolutely stunning, you take my breath away!’ I’m just so proud to be your Husband… Thank You!
They say, ‘To be happy with a man, you must understand him a lot and love him a little. To be happy with a woman, you must love her a lot and not try to understand her at all.’
It works for me.
We have so many plans to make throughout our lives together but, whatever happens, I know that we will be together for ever and that is all that matters in this world
I’m going to finish with a little verse which I’d like to claim are my own words but they’re not – however, they are ‘My thoughts exactly !

There are so many things I love about you
I love your childlike quality,
Your sense of wonder,
Your enthusiasm for life and love
I love the way you understand me
Better, than anyone I’ve ever known.
The way you’re always thinking of things to make me happy
I love the fun we have together
The way you can always make me laugh
Just when I need it most
And I love the way I am when I’m with you
I see things more clearly
Through your eyes and your touch
Makes me feel everything more deeply
I love discovering the inner you
That other people never see
And the more I discover, the more I find to love
I love you simply because you are you
That’s why I know for the rest of my life I will always be in love with only you


Best Man

So, that’s enough from me, it now gives me very great pleasure to hand over to my best man –– he’s a guy that I’ve known for quite a while, in fact since a little boating trip to Amsterdam in October 1988, further details can be had in the bar later and I can honestly say that his support and advice over the years has been truly invaluable

Many people don’t know that John lives in a parallel universe which causes him to invent fanciful stories. He really does believe these stories to be true and I thank you for humouring him during his speech.

I’d like to ask him now to give him the best man’s speech – and given this great build up, I appreciate it if he would take it easy on me.

Ladies & Gentlemen, “Absent Family & Friends”

We would like to thank both sets of parents as we wouldn’t be where we are today if it wasn’t for them. We would like to thank them all for the love and support over the years.


To my Mum & Dad….

For all the advice you have given me. For putting up with me and pointing me in the right direction, however

I do vividly remember when I for example, as a very young 4 or 5year old, I climbed into the Grandfather clock at home and managed to topple it over, with me still inside and another occasion when as an even younger lad, I decided I didn’t like the colour of our next door neighbours car, so decided to hand paint it with a brush!

Taking all that into consideration, Mum, Dad I love you very much, hold your heads high you’ve done a cracking job!

As a token of our appreciation, please accept these flowers…


To Monika’s parents

Thank you for all your love and support and for giving Monika a great start in life. I believe that I’m also meant to thank you for putting up with her in her childhood and teenage years, however when I asked her for some embarrassing snippets of information for this part of my speech, I got the reply: ‘I’m a convent girl, I didn’t do anything wrong when I was a child’!!.... Something tells me, a little princess in the making!
Of course I haven’t just gained a wife today, but also a family. Thank you to all of them for making me feel so welcome. Most of all, thank you for bringing Monika up to be the woman that I have married.
As a token of our appreciation, please accept these flowers….

Master of Ceremonies

James, I’ve known James or Jimbo for about 10 years or so... and both Monika and I are very pleased to hear that James & Rohan have decided to get married, whilst only getting engaged in November last year, they are due to be married in March 2007!... I’m told that Rohan follows you, in having the similar organisational skills! –In that it only took 6 shopping hours to buy, Bride, Groom and bridesmaids outfits! – Wow!
Many thanks for all your support today…
As a token of our appreciation, please accept this…..

Bridesmaids

Nikki & Alex….

Monika

I now come to the most important person in my life…….
To borrow a few words from a song, by Embrace….
Honey, it’s been a long time coming.... & I can’t stop smiling and I can’t stop now!….
Simply put…. ‘You look absolutely stunning, you take my breath away!’ I’m just so proud to be your Husband… Thank You!
They say, ‘To be happy with a man, you must understand him a lot and love him a little. To be happy with a woman, you must love her a lot and not try to understand her at all.’
It works for me.
We have so many plans to make throughout our lives together but, whatever happens, I know that we will be together for ever and that is all that matters in this world
I’m going to finish with a little verse which I’d like to claim are my own words but they’re not – however, they are ‘My thoughts exactly !

There are so many things I love about you
I love your childlike quality,
Your sense of wonder,
Your enthusiasm for life and love
I love the way you understand me
Better, than anyone I’ve ever known.
The way you’re always thinking of things to make me happy
I love the fun we have together
The way you can always make me laugh
Just when I need it most
And I love the way I am when I’m with you
I see things more clearly
Through your eyes and your touch
Makes me feel everything more deeply
I love discovering the inner you
That other people never see
And the more I discover, the more I find to love
I love you simply because you are you
That’s why I know for the rest of my life I will always be in love with only you


Best Man

So, that’s enough from me, it now gives me very great pleasure to hand over to my best man –– he’s a guy that I’ve known for quite a while, in fact since a little boating trip to Amsterdam in October 1988, further details can be had in the bar later and I can honestly say that his support and advice over the years has been truly invaluable

Many people don’t know that John lives in a parallel universe which causes him to invent fanciful stories. He really does believe these stories to be true and I thank you for humouring him during his speech.

I’d like to ask him now to give him the best man’s speech – and given this great build up, I appreciate it if he would take it easy on me.

 

 

 

 

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