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She Rejected You: Some Reasons Why It Happened ?

(2011-03-24 22:29:55)
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She Rejected You: Some Reasons Why It Happened & What You Can Do?
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She Rejected You: Some Reasons Why It Happened & What You Can Do?
她拒绝了你:为什么?&你该怎么办?
There is just something that makes women NOT get attracted to men who have lower STATUS than themselves. There is always tension when a lady is taller than her man, she makes more money than him or when a guy is being 'led around' by his girlfriend or wife..
总有一些原因使得女人们对比她们地位低的男人们不感兴趣。当一个女人地位比她的男人高,收入比他多或者一个男人被他的女朋友或者妻子“领导”时,气氛总是很紧张的。
SCENE 1 You ask the lady where she would like to go. If she seems indifferent, make a decision: take her to a place YOU know and think she would like.If you don't, she won't see you as a leader.
场景1 如果你问一个女人她想去哪里。她看起来漠不关心地做个决定:带她去个你知道而且认为她会喜欢的地方。如果你没有做到,那么她将不会把你作为一个领导者看待。
SCENE 2 If you are dating this lady who seems so beautiful, such great company and seems successful too, you think you like her A LOT. You ask her out a second time and she agrees.
场景2 如果你和一个美丽的女人约会,她是个很好的伴侣而且看起来很成功,你觉得你很喜欢她。你向他提出第二次约会邀请并且她同意了。
DO NOT:
不要做一下的事情
1 tell her that you're beginning to have feelings for her
1、告诉她你开始对她有感觉了。
2. do not call her the next day to ask her out again. You need to: give her a little space - let her 'miss' you just a bit.Let her pursue you.
2、第二天不要再给她打电话约她出去。你应该给她一个小空间--让她有点“想”你。让她追求你。
SCENE 3. You meet this nice babe and get her phone number and email address. You set a date and what? - she doesn't turn up. she was 'busy'.Call her tomorrow and she is still 'busy'. What happened? This 'babe' probably committed herself and later changed her mind... What to do? Give her a few days and then call again- confront her with her poor behaviour.
场景3 你遇见了一个漂亮的芭比女孩,得到了她的电话号码和电邮地址。你发起一个约会然后会怎么样?她不会出现的,她很“忙”。第二天给她打电话,她仍旧会“忙”。怎么会这样呢?这个“芭比女孩”一定是左右摇摆,开始决定去,后来又改变主意。怎么办?给她几天时间然后再打电话给她看看她有没有改变她的坏习惯
If there is no change, move on.
如果没有改变,那么继续。
HOT TIP:
重要提示:
When you ask a lady what she 'wants to do', you put her in control. Most women DO NOT LIKE THIS. It makes them well uncomfortable.
当你问一个女人她想做什么,你就控制了她。大多数女人是不喜欢这样的,这让她们觉得非常不舒服。
* If you can't make up your mind about where to take her, and then wind up taking her to her favourite cafe, you have failed.Why? You have shown that you CAN'T LEAD.
*如果你无法决定带她去哪里,然后带她去了她最喜欢的咖啡厅,那么你就惨了。为什么?因为这样你等于告诉她你没有领导力。
*Remember to always treat your girlfriend / date well.
*记住,好好地对待你的女朋友和你们的约会。
So - what kind of men are women attracted to?
那么什么样的男人最受女人喜欢呢?

~Men who LEAD. Men who are in control of themselves and situations. ~有领导力的男人。这种男人能够很好地控制自己和控制局面。

~Men who MAKE DECISIONS and stand by them. (This is why you can
ask a girl what she wants and take her to her favourite cafe / club
tell her how you feel about her and watch as she loses interest in you.)
~能够做决定并且坚持自己决定的男人。(这是为什么你问一个女孩她想要的,带她去她喜欢的咖啡厅或者酒吧并告诉她你对她的感觉,然后眼睁睁地看着他对你失去感觉)

~Men who treat them well but don't allow the woman to control them.
对女人很好但是不会让女人控制他的男人。

~Men who show respect for women enough to take no for an answer.
尊重女性并不求回报的男人。
~Men who look after their personal hygiene and grooming
注重仪容的男人。
~ Men who show interest in the lady - as a person not as a sex object.
以人的角度而不是以性的角度欣赏女性的男人。
The list goes on.
诸如此类。
CONCLUSION:
总结:
Attraction is not like other areas of life.It just happens. Guys, being too 'nice' won't earn you any more points. Attraction seems to be triggered by things that make no sense at all and can be easily destroyed. ver to you...
诱惑不像生活中的其他部分。它就那么发生了。伙计,太“美好”不会给你赚得更多的分。诱惑好像总是由那些毫无意义的事情引发的而且容易被破坏。一切取决于你……

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