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what is love?

(2008-11-18 17:38:37)
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what <wbr>is <wbr>love?

1.Love means I understand my lover. I understand all sides including not just the perfect side but also deficiencies, conflicts and faults.

爱意味着我了解我所爱的人。我了解对方的诸多方面--不仅仅是美好的一面,而且包括不足之处,矛盾之处以及各种缺点。

2.Love means to be concerned about your lovers happiness.  If I take care of you, then that means caring for your development and hopes and scope.
   
爱,指的是关心我所爱的人的幸福。如果我真关心你,就会关心你的成长,并希望你在一切可能的范围内成全自己。

3.Love is maintaining my lovers dignity.  If I love you, then I will see you as valuable and worthy, your thoughts and feelings are independent, not request that you because of me, change your yourself toward my expectations.

 爱,指的是维护我所爱的人的尊严。假如我爱你,我就会把你看成一个具有自己的价值观,思想和感情的独立的人,而不会要求你为了我而改变你的个性和屈从于我对你的期待。

4.Love means being responsible for your lover.  If I love you, the I will see you as an independent person, and respond to your requests.

 爱,指的是对我所爱的人有责任心。假如我爱你,我会把你看成一个有独立个性的人,对你的多数重要需求作出反应。

 

5.Love is when me and my lover from our togetherness, use our power.  If I love you, then I will constantly develop and grow our love.  You will spark the full development of my potential and I my love for you will be more and more perfect.

 爱,指的是我和我所爱的人能从中共同获取成长的力量。假如我爱你,我就会因我的爱而在不断成长。你将会激励我更充分地发展我的潜能,而我对你的爱也将进一步完善你的整个人生。

 

6.Love is making and keeping certain promises to my lover. This type of promise is toward the other is not implicit, that our relationship will forever, not change. Actually, we must mutually depend on our determination. Not just clam and happy times, but also tough times, struggling times, and disappointed times, we will not separate.

爱,指的是对我所爱的人做出某种承诺。这种承诺并非指我们之间要完全屈从于对方,也不暗指我们之间的关系一定要永久不变。它实指我们必须相互依存的决心,不管是在平静和欢乐的日子还是在痛苦、迷茫、挣扎和失望的时候,都不分离。

7.Love is trusting my lover.  If I love you, I will then believe you will accept me, my thoughts and my person.

 爱,指的是信任我所爱的人。假如我爱你,我就会相信你会接受我的关怀和我的人 。

 

8.Love is believing that you will never intentionally hurt me.  I believe that our love has a kind of natural mutual-ness.

   爱,也相信你不会故意伤害我。我相信我们之间的爱有一种天然的互补性。

 

9.Love must tolerate un-perfectness. In the process of love, certainly when there are troubles, when I want to give up during nervous and tense times, or when I feel there is no hope, real love will not have fortune, to the contrary, in hard times I will persist, because I can remember our shared past and our happy times, and our future. If we, toward our problems, give enough power to solve them, then we will have a bright future.

爱,须能容忍不完美。在相爱的过程中,肯定会出现厌烦的时候,有我想放弃的时候有十分紧张的时候,亦有我感到无望的时候。真爱并不一定会有持久的幸福。然而,在厄境中我会坚持下去,因为我能记起我们在过去共同拥有的美好时光,也能预见,假如我们对自己的问题给予足够的重视并加以解决,我们会有光明的前景。

 

10.Love is voluntary.  Love cannot be repaid or like a credit system.  It is rather, unconditional quality.

爱,是自愿的。爱只能是无偿地献出,而不是在需要时赊与。真爱的付出绝对没有任何附加条件,无条件才是它的品质。

 

11.Love is open.  If I love you, I will encourage you to develop yourself and have other relations, and encourage you to go develop yourself is the proof of two persons love.

爱,是敞开的。假如我爱你,我会鼓励你向外发展并建立其他人际关系。鼓励对方去充分发展自己才是两人相爱的真实证明。

 

12.Love is gaping after my lover, not because without the other, I am not complete. For example, without you, I cannot survive. If this way, I will not have real capability to love you.

 爱,指的是渴望得到我所爱的人,而不是因为缺了对方自己就会不完整。假如缺少你我就无法生存,那么我就不会真有能力去爱你。

 

13.Love is to understand my lover.  If I love you, then I will produce with you, resonating feelings and be able to go through your eyes to see the world.  I then, can understand you and your feelings for me, and I for you.  This kind of intimacy, does not predicate that two people may not immediately separate, because leaving and distance sometimes necessary.  Distance can strengthen loves ties, and help us renew our discovery of ourselves.  Therefore, we can get a kind of new way to get to know the other.

 爱,指的是理解我所爱的人。假如我爱你,我会与你产生情感共鸣并能通过你的眼睛看世界。我之所以能理解你是因为你中有我,我中有你。此种亲密并不意味着两人一刻不能分离,因为离别和距离有时候在两人爱的关系中是必要的。距离能加强爱的纽带,能帮助我们重新发现自己,因此我们能以某种新的方式认识对方。

 

14.Love is loving self, only have to love myself, value myself, appreciate and respect myself.  Only then, can I love you.  For example, when I am empty, I can only give you my emptiness. If I feel valuable, then I can give you your completeness.  The most beautiful way that I love you is to share everything of myself with you.

爱是自我的。只有当我真正地爱自己、珍惜自己、欣赏并尊重自己,我才能爱你。假如我空虚,那么我能给予你的也只能是空虚。假如我觉得自己充实完整并活得有价值,那么我也能给予你的就是充实完整。我爱你地最佳方式之一就是与你一起分享我的一 切。

 

15.Love being able to see clearly your lovers potential.  When you love a person, you need to accept the persons current situation and view what they can be. Mature love is maintaining your independence yet being united. This is loves biggest conflict.

爱,指的是能看清我们所爱的人内在的潜力。爱一个人时,我会一面接受对方的现状一面把对方看成将来能成为的那种人。成熟的爱指的是在保持个人完整独立性的前提下所形成的统一。合而为一,却又一分为二,这就是爱中似是而非的矛盾现象。

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