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Be Real and Love Yourself做真实的人并且爱自己。

(2011-04-10 00:00:00)

What is the most essential thing for the seeker on the path?What is his goal?what should be pursue to attain bliss and contentment?the first and foremost thing is this mantra:Be yourself."

对于求道者来说什么是最本质的探索?什么是他的目标?什么样的追求能够达到幸福和满足?首要的事情是,以下这个经文:成为你自己。

The social environment that surrounds us expects us always to live in a particular way that suits its structure and the whole package of investment in it.And there's not so much regard for the individual,his original self and his freedom.The individual is sacrificed to something very artificial and superficial.Almost every child is made to grow so only that he loses his real self in his growth process.One becomes too much concerned about,even scared of others' opinions about oneself,keeps seeking approval from others and does not give love and respect to oneself.This is the surest way to become sad and miserable.This calamity happens to each child while he is growing to become a part of society.

围绕我们的整个环境总是希望我们按照在适合它的架构和投资的特定方式生活。而不是更多地按照个体,他的本原和他的自由来生活。个性被虚伪和肤浅牺牲掉了。几乎所有的孩子,在成长的过程中都被迫失去他真实的自我。人们变得过于关注外界,甚至害怕别人怎么看待自己,不断地寻求他人的肯定,并且从来不爱也不尊重自己。这是人生变得悲哀和悲惨的最确定无疑的原因。这灾难发生在每个孩子在逐渐成为社会一分子的成长过程中。

Osho suggests that the first thing to love oneself."This can become the foundation of a radical transformation.Don't be afraid of loving yourself.Love totally,and you will be surprised; the day you can get rid of all self-condemnation,self-disrespect,the day you can get rid of the idea of original sin,the day you can think of yourself as worthy and loved by god,will be a day of great blessing...and a person who loves himself can easily become meditative,because meditation means being with yourself.If you hate yourself--as you do,as you have been told to do,and you have been following it religiously--if you hate yourself,how can you be with yourself?And meditation is nothing but enjoying your beautiful aloneness,celebrating yourself;that's what meditation is all about."

奥修建议第一件事情就是要爱自己,他说:“这是蜕化自己的基础,不要害怕爱自己。投入全部的爱,你将惊奇地发现,从你可以摆脱自我谴责,自我不尊重的那日起,你就开始摆脱原罪,你就可以把自己当作有价值的蒙神恩宠的人,那一天,你将感觉到最大的幸福。。。一个爱自己的人能够很容易就进入静心,因为静心就是意味着和自己在一起。如果你恨自己--就像你曾经那样,你会被告诉你是不可爱的可恨的,你就会被证明你跟着你自己的信仰(信仰自己是可恨的)--如果你恨你自己,你怎么可能成为你自己?而静心什么都不是,它仅仅是享受你自己美好的存在,庆祝你自己,这是静心的全部意义所在!”

If you are lost too much in sosial formalities and moralities and have become fake,you need to come back home urgently and be natural and spontaneous.Be real!and you would become blissful and contedted.

如果你在社交礼仪和道德规范中失去太多的自我,变得虚假,你需要立刻回家做最自然自在的自己。成为真实的!!你立刻就会感到幸福和满足。

 

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