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给爱情与亲情一个机会(汉译英)

(2011-01-09 21:35:37)
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被爱是幸福的!爱,是那份血浓于水的亲情之间的爱;是那份天长地久的友情之间的爱;是那份忠贞不渝的爱情之间的爱。It’s happy to be loved! Love, refers to the familial affection; the forever friendship; and also solid affection between men and women.

然而却在不经意间将这种习惯遗忘在角落里,但并没有将这份感觉忘掉,只是埋藏了。Maybe we have neglected this and put it aside unconsciously, we just hide it inside, but never forget it.

世界上最痛苦的事情该是有很多,亲情与爱情的碰撞对每一个人来说都是最痛苦的抉择。一边是生你养你的父母,割不断的血脉之情,一边是付出了很多,难以放下的爱情,这样的选择,何去何从?我总是在想,也是这样认为的,亲情与爱情之间是没有可比性的,亲情与爱情是不能衡量的,因为它们的天平永远不会平衡。有人总是喜欢问,母亲和妻子掉到水里先救谁?这样的问题真的很没有价值,很无聊,救母亲,会被人谴责成不爱妻子,救妻子,会被人唾骂成不孝子。所以我认为这个问题毫无意义!而我们该做的是,既然你们选择了彼此,爱她(他)同时也该去爱她(他)的父母,一同照顾双方的父母,而不是去逼问对方谁掉水里先救谁的问题,这样的人才值得去爱,珍惜一生!There are many miserable stories in the world. It is difficult to make a choice between familial affection and love for every person. On one side are your parents who have brought you up, the relation with whom cannot be cut off, while on the other side is the love to which you have paid too much and don’t want to give it up. Then what can you do while facing the alternative? In my opinion, there is no comparison between familial affection and love, and they also cannot be measured, because there is no balance between them. People always like asking such kind of questions: If your mother and wife are tumbling in the river, who will you rescue first? In my opinion, it counts for nothing to ask such question, and it’s boring. If you answer you’ll rescue your mother, you will be condemned for not loving your wife, while answer rescuing your wife, you will be condemned for disobedience. So this question is meaningless! What we should do is to love her (or him) as well as her (or his) parents, and take care of your parents together instead of asking the above question, this kind of person is worth loving and cherishing forever!

我在百度打上亲情和爱情,搜索出很多这类文章,有长篇大论的讲述亲情与爱情碰车的故事,有仅仅一段话的诉说,我看到更多的是笔者的痛苦,不知所措,正如我现在眼前总是挥不去的节目中女孩子无助又泪水不断的眼睛。爱本身没有错,可是我们却又总是被爱而伤,伤的不仅仅是自己,还有身边的人。从这个女孩子不坚定果断的话语中,不难看出她很想父母能够原谅她并且接受这份爱情,她也很爱她的男友,这一场爱情,伤害的不仅仅是两个相爱的人,更伤害了女孩子的父母,也许是她们还年轻,追求着自己的爱情却不顾父母的反对,一次次的用谎言和逃跑伤害着父母。看到一半,我只能说她们三方都有责任,都有做错的地方。父母太过于专制,女孩子缺少点主见,男孩子所做所为有不妥,任何事情都有很多解决的办法,如果他们都肯给彼此一个机会,站在对方的立场去想,哪怕是给他们一个考验的时间,事情可能会有另一种结果。I have ever searched words “familial affection” and “love” on Baidu.net, there are many articles on both topics, some of which are long stories about collision between familial affection and love, some of which are just short paragraphs. What I have seen from these is their misery and perplexity, just as the wretched girl whose eyes  lingering in my mind even after the programme. Love is not wrong itself, but we are always hurt by it. We can judge from the girl’s words that she wanted her parents to forgive her and accepted his boyfriend because she loved her boyfriend so much. The love hurt not only themselves but also girl’s parents. Maybe they were too young, they just chased their love despite the objection of parents, lies and escape just hurt parents.  By the middle of the programme, I can just said that all three parties were wrong in some ways and should take responsibilities. Girl’s parents were too despotic, the girl was weak-minded, and her boyfriend had done something wrong. There are solutions to every problem, if they can give each other a chance, and consider on the side of each other, even a period of probation, maybe there will be another result.

天下父母心,没有哪一个正常的父母不爱自己的孩子的,正是因为这份爱,才会让父母狠心的说出“不听他们的话就与子女断绝关系!”这份亲情真的就能断吗?这份血脉之情真的会因这句话随风而逝吗?不会的!谁都不能将上天的安排改变。父母都是希望自己的子女幸福,节目中的父母以女儿的男友与她们不在同一个城市为由,这样坚决的反对这段感情,让人看起来有点棒打鸳鸯,站在父母的角度,他们这样做也不无道理,毕竟是自己养大的孩子,怎么舍得嫁那么远,如果站在孩子的角度,父母的思想或许有些保守。总之,我看到一个瘦弱的女孩子痛苦的徘徊在亲情与爱情之间,不停的流泪,她希望父母接受他们,却是那么奢侈的愿望。我不禁在想,女孩子最后该如何做出选择呢?是选择父母,还是选择爱人?节目接近了尾声,父母坚决的态度,男友期待的眼神,女孩子决定分手,跟父母回家。我看到了一个做出决定后哭出声的女孩,当他最后跟男友说告别的话,男友还报着一丝希望的和女孩的父母道歉,终于要分开时,女孩迟迟不肯站起来和最后的一次回望,让人心都碎了。不该是这样的结局,我的眼睛擒着泪,就像曹颖说的她也不知道为什么会流泪,也许都有对这份爱情就这样结束的遗憾吧。在我心内喜忧参拌,喜的是她没有放弃亲情,没有不顾父母的养育之恩,忧的替这对恋人的遗憾,这个世上还会有多少个这样的事情发生?

Every parent is admirable. Because of this kind of love, parents can crudely say that they will cast off their children. But can this familial affection really be casted off? Definitely, the answer is no. No one can change their relation. All parents wish their children to be happy. In the TV program, the parents objected to the love between the girl and her boyfriend just because they are in different cities. Maybe you will say they break up affectionate couples. But if we can stand of the parents, it seems reasonable for them to do this. They just do not want their only daughter to marry the boy who lives so far away from them. If we stand of the children, the girl’s parents are stick-in-the-mud. Altogether, the helpless girl wonders between familial affection and love. She can’t help tearing, she prayed her parents to change their mind and accept the boy. Then I wondered what decision the girl would make. Will she choose her parents or her boyfriend?  When the program was almost finished, facing parents’ unmoved attitude and boyfriend’s expectant eyes, the girl chose her parents. After she said her decision, she couldn’t help crying, then she said last words with her boyfriend. The boy apologized to her parents with a little hope. At the end of the program, they had to leave, the girl’s reluctance is heartbreaking. This is not the expected end, just as the TV presenter Caoyin said, she did’t know why she was tearing, maybe she felt regret to the result. I mingled hope and fear for she hadn’t given up familial affection and sorry for their love. But in the world, this kind of things always happens.

天下父母心,亲情最重要,该有一些欣慰,还是有很多人懂得亲情的可贵。有人说爱情没有了,可以在去找,亲情没有,那就什么都失去了价值。鱼和熊掌都能同时拥有是最好,不能同时拥有的时候只能忍痛割舍掉一方,至于割舍哪一方就要看什么在你心中最重要了!We feel some delighted for the girl’s choice, there are still many people know the importance of familial affection. It is said that we can still look for another love if it is lost. But if you lose familial affection, everything will be unworthy. Of course, it is the best to own both love and familial affection, but once we have to choose one between them, it will depend on yourself.

父母给了我们生命,给了我们生活在这个多彩世界的机会,甚至是拥有生命才能去寻找自己的爱情,我们该懂得珍惜这份亲情,回报父母的恩情,而爱情也是我们用心付出,于茫茫人海中遇到的,最痛苦的莫过于二者间的选择,在不可避免的情况下,还是希望无论是父母,还是恋人们,都不要过于激动,过早的下结论,好好沟通,给彼此一个机会,给爱一个机会吧!Parents give us life, and bring us to the world. We should cherish the familial affection and return their deep affection. And we have paid much to love which we encounter in a vast sea of people. It is the most painful thing to make a choice between them. I wish both parents and lovers not be too excited to make a decision too early. Communicate with each other as much as possible, just give each other a chance, also to love.

与明明相爱却不能在一起的人相比,能够牵着对方的手,无论生活是浪漫还是平淡的,都好好珍惜彼此吧,牵了对方的手就不要轻易放开。亲情可贵,真爱难寻。

Comparing with those loving but cannot be together, it is fortunate to take each other’s hand. No matter life is romantic or plain, just cherish it, and never part easily. Both familial affection and true love are valuable.

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