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沙沙文-至-所有为人父母者...

(2011-06-10 18:48:55)
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沙沙的今天之所以能有如此成就并拥有如此幸福的家庭生活,这就是对一个博览群书十几年来一直用自己的智慧和努力用实践证明真理的最大褒奖~!!!

人最不能没有的是什么???九儿认为就是一颗善良的心和智慧的头脑~!

接下来就听听沙沙成功经验总结的育儿经吧~!!

PS: 为了帮助更多不熟练英语的朋友更真实的了解和感受沙沙,九儿今天翻译了全文;虽已尽自己最大努力去仿效沙沙的语言风格去翻译,但毕竟水平有限,懂英文的朋友可直接阅读和感受沙沙的独具沙沙语言风格的英文原文。


 

 附图:(沙沙无论到哪儿都一直带在身边的全家福)

沙沙文-至-所有为人父母者...

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An article written by Shah Rukh Khan to all parents

 至-所有为人父母者...


Friends,

Let me begin asking you a question “Are you one of those who think spending an hour of "quality" time with family and kids means watching TV or going out to eat? But is that’s enough?
首先我先问各位一个问题:你们是不是认为花个把小时与家人和孩子一起看看电视或出去吃个饭就是所谓的“优质”时间?
(名词解释:优质时间----指的就是和孩子一起度过的时间的品质比陪伴孩子的时间长短还要重要.)

Well, quality time is the TIME you spend with your kids that gives both them and you a real satisfaction of being together. Doing special things that are out of the normal daily routines you are in and also doing the basic in a fun way. Like spending just 2 minutes of time while the kids are in the bathroom brushing their teeth, listen to their complaints while at breakfast and helping them pack up for school.
其实,当你们跟孩子在一起,并能让彼此发自内心的感到真正满足 这才叫优质时间。可以做些你们日常家庭事务之外的、比较特别的事儿,也可以以一种有趣的方式去做平时常做的事儿。比如当孩子在刷牙的时候,你也过去陪着他/她刷牙来度过2分钟,早餐的时候耐心听听他们的牢骚,并帮他们整理书包去上学。

But it’s just not enough to send them to good schools, buy them expensive games and gifts. It is equally important to teach them how to play games and inculcate the right values, so you know if they are playing right, playing fair.
仅仅送他们去好的学校上学,或给他们买些贵的玩具和礼物是绝对不够的;教他们怎么玩儿才能体现公平和公正、以及教导他们正确的价值观,这些同样很重要。

I love to play football with my children and I play fair with them. If they cheat I punish them. I tease my kids if they lose and challenge them to defeat me the next time. I feel it’s highly essential to have a positive fighting spirit in our kids today. The world is full of competition everywhere. They need to know it’s important to win but it isn’t a crime to lose. They should know how to accept defeat and failure with dignity and take responsibility for mistakes. It will only make them better individuals.
我喜欢跟我的孩子们踢足球,而且是公平竞技。如果他们耍耍赖或耍诈我就会惩罚他们。如果他们输了 我会逗他们 告诉他们 争取下次打败我,就是对他们的挑战。这世上竞争无处不在,他们需要知道:赢固然很重要,但输了也没什么错,没什么大不了的。他们应该知道如何有尊严的接受挫折和失败、以及勇于承担错误。这样才有助于他们健康的成长。

For so many families, both parents have to work and it’s hard to fit in those special moments in their busy world. If you’re juggling your time between work, raising your kids, doing the household chores and your social activities, can you still find the time as a parent to spend some real quality time with your kids? Spending quality time with your kids should mean that you are not multitasking – that you do have their full attention and your mind is completely on the family bonding activity that you are doing together.
很多父母双方都忙于工作的家庭,他们总认为很难专门拿出时间来去陪陪孩子。然而,为人父母者若在工作、孩子的成长、做家务和社交活动中衡量衡量,孰轻孰重?之后 你是否就能做到抽出时间来去陪孩子了?专门花时间陪孩子意味着你不能一心多用-你必须给予孩子们你所有的关注,你的精力必须全部放在与孩子的交流上面来。

Being a parent is a very tough task, talking from experience. It requires a massive amount of patience as kids are just a boxful of surprises. You don’t know what they’re up to most of the time. So, first things first you have to acknowledge that kids don’t have it all figured out. They are still trying to find out who they are. Help them become the best that they can be by spending quality time with them and discovering who your kids really are.
我的经验之谈,做人家父母真的是个很艰巨的任务。当孩子对什么都充满好奇的时候,你必须要有足够的耐心来对待。而大多数时候,你根本不知道他们接下来会做什么。所以 首要任务就是,任何时候你必须想在他们之前。在成长过程中,孩子们正在慢慢地认识自己,并且正在逐步的寻找自我;所以要多花些时间陪陪他们,并发掘出他们内心真正的想法儿,这样有助于孩子们能够 最大限度地健康成长。

"Time is the most precious thing you own." Because our lives are so full of hurry, worry and activity, spending time with our kids becomes another item on our laundry list, as if they were a "thing to do." Let’s remember - The quantity of time that you spend with your children matters just as much as the quality of that time. So, just like you schedule your appointments and meetings, you should also use your planner to note the day when you will be spending the whole day or even an afternoon with your kids. Make them see that family time is as important to you as it is important to them.
时间是一个人最宝贵的财富。因为我们所生活的时代,人们是匆匆忙忙、烦恼这个、忧虑那个,身边总有处理不完的这事儿那事儿。花时间陪孩子也好似成了我们日常事务清单上的另一个等着去做的项目了。但需要谨记的是-陪孩子所花的时间的量与实际陪孩子、与孩子交流的质量同等重要。因此,你就必须要像安排约会和会议一样,事先安排好、预定好哪一天专门去陪你的孩子,哪怕仅有一个下午也好。要让孩子们知道家庭团聚对你而言,就像对他们一样重要。

Reach out. Kids are different these days. They are into pop stars, video games, gadgets, iPod and tech savvy. You may have to plan activities which you know interests them so they don’t just see you as their parent, but as a cool parent. In some way, if they think you’re cool, their more likely to be friends then just a parent.
进一步走进孩子的心。现如今的孩子处在一个不同的时代,他们迷恋偶像歌星。视频游戏,电子游戏机,iPod,几乎就是个小科技通。那么,你就要安排计划一些他们有兴趣的活动,这样他们就不会只把你当做传统意义的、一般的父母,而是觉得自己的父母很酷。某种程度上说,若他们认为你很酷,比起只把你当父母,他们更可能进一步地把你当成朋友。

So have fun, spend time and be a cool daddy!
还等什么?去陪孩子们玩儿吧~~! 你一定会是个酷老爸~!

SRK


 

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