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(2008-07-02 19:30:41)
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There was a little boy with a bad temper. His father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, to hammer a nail in the back fence. The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence. Then it gradually dwindled down. He discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence. Finally the day came when the boy didn't lose his temper at all. He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper.

有一个脾气很坏的小男孩。爸爸给了他一袋钉子,告诉他说,每天一旦他发火了,就在后院的栅栏上钉一颗钉子。第一天,小男孩钉了37颗钉子。接着渐渐的,钉子的数量逐渐减少了。小男孩发现控制自己的脾气比在栅栏上钉钉子容易多了。终于,有一天小男孩没有发一次脾气。他把这告诉了爸爸。爸爸建议孩子,现在开始,在不发脾气的日子,拔出一颗钉子。

 

The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone. The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence. He said,"You have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one. You can put a knife in a man and draw it out. It won't matter how many times you say i'm sorry, the wound is still there. A verbal wound is as bad as a physical one. Friends are a very rare jewel, indeed. They make you smile and encourage you to succeed. They lend an ear, they share a word of praise, and they always want to open their hearts to us."

日子一天天过去了,小男孩终于能告诉爸爸说已经把所有的钉子都拔掉了。爸爸拉着儿子的手把他带到了栅栏前。他说:“儿子,你做得很好,但是看一看栅栏上的这些洞。栅栏永远都不可能回复到以前。当你说了气话时,它们就留下了像这样的伤疤。你可以插别人一刀然后再拔出来。你说多少次对不起都于事无补,因为伤口始终留在那儿。口头伤害和身体伤害一样严重。朋友都是稀世珍宝。他们让我们微笑,鼓励我们走向成功。他们乐于倾听,和我们一起分享快乐,他们的心扉永远向我们敞开。”

 

Show your friends how much you care. Send this to everyone you consider a friend.

告诉你的朋友,你是多么在乎他,把这个故事送给每个你认为的朋友吧!

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