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Finding My Wings  找到我的翅膀

(2008-09-16 19:53:29)


               Finding My Wnigs 找到我的翅膀

                      Sue Augustine 苏.奥古斯丁

Reach high, for stars lie hidden in your soul. Dream deep, for every dream precedes the goal.


          _________ Pamela Vaull Starr  帕梅拉.瓦尔.斯塔尔

Like so many other girls, my self-confidence growing up was almost nonexistent. I doubted my abilities, had little faith in my potential and questioned my personal worth. If I achieved good grades, I believed that I was just lucky. Although I made friends easily, I worried once they got to know me, the friendships wouldn't last. And when things went well, I thought I was just in the right place at the right time. I even rejected praise and compliments.


The choice I made reflected my self-image. While in my teens, I attracted a man with the same low self-esteem. In spite of his violent temper and an extremely rocky dating relatinship, I decided to marry him. I still remember my dad whispering to me before walking me down the aisle,“It's not too late, Sue. You can change your mind.”My family knew what a terrible mistake I was making. Within weeks, I knew it, too.


The physical abuse lasted for several years. I survived serious injures, was covered with bruises much of the time and had to be hospitalized on numerous occasions. Life became a blur of police sirens, doctor's reports and family court appearances. Yet I continued to go back to the relationship, hoping that things would somehow improve.

After we had our two little girls, there were times when all that got me through the night was having those chubby little arms wrapped around my neck, pudgy cheeks pressed up against mine and precious toddler voices saying,“It's all right, Mummy. Everything will be okay.”But I knew that it wasn't going to be okay. I had to make changes——if not for myself, to protect my little girls.



Then something gave me the courage to change. Through work, I was able to attend a series of professional development seminars. In one, a presenter talked about turning dreams into realities. That was hard for me---even to dream about a better future. But something in the message made me listen.

She asked us to consider two powerful questions:“If you could be, do, or have anything in the world, and you knew it would be impossible to fail, what would you choose? And if you could create your ideal life, what would you dare to dream?” In that moment, my life began to change. I began to dream.



I imagined havingthe courage to move the children into an apartment of our own and start over. I pictured a life for the girls and  me. I dreamed about being an intenational motivational speaker so that I could inspire people the way the semenar leader had inspired me. I saw myself writing my story to encourage others.

So I went on to create a visual picture of my  new success. I envisioned myself wearing a business suit, carrying a leather briefcase and getting on an airplane. This was quite a stretch for me, since at the time I couldn't even afford a suit.

Yet I  knew that if I was going to dream, it was important to fill in the details for my five senses. So I went to the leather store and modeled a briefcase in front of the mirror. How would it look and feel? What does leather smell like? I tried on some red suits and even found a picture of a woman in a red suit, carrying a briefcase and getting on a plane.I hung the picture up where I could see it every day. It helped me to keep the dream alive.




 And soon the changes began.I moved with the children to a small apartment. On only $98 a week, we ate a lot of peanut butter and drove an old car. But for the first time, we felt free and safe. I worked hard at my sales career, all the time focusing on my “impossible dream.”

Then one day I answered the phone, and the voice on the other end asked me to speak at the company's upcoming annual conference. I accepted, and my speech was a success. This led to a series of promotions, eventually to a national trainer. I went on to develop my own speaking company and have traveled to many  countries around the world. My impossible dream has become a reality.

I believe that all success begins with spreading your W.I.N.G.S.----believing in your worth, trusting in your insight, nurturing yourself, having a goal and devising a personal strategy. And then, even impossible dreams become real.





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