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如果你不开心,那是因为你没有进步!

(2011-07-02 22:36:22)
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If you are not happy it's because you are not growing. The only way you are happy is when you are growing.

如果你不开心,那是因为你没有进步。唯一能让你开心的是让自己不断进步。

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I tell you why. If you and I want your life to be happy in our lives, the only way we are happy is when we are growing. If you don’t feel like you are growing personally, emotionally, spiritually, physically, financially, whatever. If you don’t really feel like this progress like your growing, what will be happen to your emotional state, what kind of feel can you get. Bored, what else? Frustrated, tired, what else? Angry, discouraged, depressed. Now if you are growing, can you remember the time when you feel that you are growing?

How many of you feel pretty fantastic during those times? Those are the state we want most. It doesn’t matter what the situation is, we need to grow. That is what life is. Life is growth, expansion. What we gonna do is expanding or contracting. And if we contract, it can drive us crazy. If you over-eating, or smoking, or drinking, I can guarantee you, it’s the same reason. Those will always change your state. If you don’t like the way you feel, ‘cause you are not growing. Purity! If you want to be happy in your life, you are gonna keep growing. But here is a problem. The problem is human being get comfortable pretty easy, don’t they? And what makes you grow easily? Most people grow because they want to get acknowledgement, they want people like them. So they work hard to be successful. So they will be liked. Or they do it to make money. ‘cause they think if they had money they can do anything they want. Or they do it because they think if they do it and then what’s gonna happen is they will have spiritually light-ment. People have different reasons. But the problem is most people’s reasons burned out when you got certain level of success. Like saying, you have nothing but people acknowledging you. But you got a surprise that they are not motivation any more, you like hearing it, but it doesn’t drive you. Does it make sense? You don’t have to do it any more to get that level of acknowledgement. I mean that’s more than enough. Or we all have an idea of how much money we could cope and we think we need. Once you get that point, you get much above that, most people are pretty comfortable. You got so many homes you can buy, so many cars, so many toys, so many helicopters, airplanes, all of the stuffs. They got the point that was like you don’t need any more for you. That’s no longer the reason to push yourself to grow. Does it make sense? And so the trap is most of us get caught up in things called comfort zone. We stop growing, and then we start overeating, or drinking, or watching television, or distracting ourselves, or going out to do anything we can to get away from the feeling we are not spending the way we used to. So how could you and I to guarantee that for a life time we would grow, and therefore for a life time we would feel happy, alive, and wealthy every single day. The way we can do that is by understanding something about human beings. This pretty phenomenon makes me proud of being a human should make you proud too. And that is human beings will do more for others than whatever to do for themselves. Human beings will do more for other people than whatever to do for themselves. That’s a part of beauty of being human beings. So how could we use this understanding to make sure we will wealthy and happy for a life time? The answer: we need to find a team of people that we care about so much that we will commit every resource we have as a human being to enhancing their life. And the process, in order to keep enhancing their life, we have to grow so we have something to give. So whose life gets enhanced simultaneously? Our own. My good fortune is I am a wealthy man.

 

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