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Get Marry or Not

(2009-05-18 19:42:45)
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最近似乎、貌似、应该很忙,忙的只想睡觉!

对于很多人、事,我亏欠太多,我现在的状况,用债台高筑形容已经感觉些许轻了。

太多太多的扑朔真的很难理出个明确的头绪,太多太多的抱歉也非今天可以叙完。还是先写点应对外语吧!

都忘了是哪天欠的一个speach ,不过还好记得题目是Get marry or not

要怎么写呢?当然,我的外语水平不是一般的poor ,那就先写好汉语在找网站翻吧。

结婚,好象是一种必然。是一种归宿,是两个灵魂的结合的表现。在古代,结婚生子是“孝心”的一种表现,毕竟“不孝有三,无后为大”而结婚似乎就是为了传宗接代。那时的婚姻与爱情没有多大的关系,纯粹是一种关系,一种约束,一种身份的肯定。

而现在的婚姻被大多数人认为是爱情的结晶。他们盼望着能够长长久久的生活在一起,所以他们选择了组建一个家庭。结婚成了他门的一种期望。

还有另外的一部分人结婚是为了摆脱年老是的空虚,毕竟有句话叫“养儿能防老”。他们害怕等到不能自理的那一天,无人陪伴,更无人照料。

但是现在离婚的现象也越来越多,有些人就选择了不结婚,他们认为结婚只是一种形式,不结婚仍然可以同居,仍然可以生子。而且如果发现生活在一起不愉快了,分开也非常容易。没有“结婚证”谁也限制不了谁的自由,彼此也不需要什么责任与义务。此外,结婚要邀请亲友,大摆筵席,显得有些铺张浪费,不结婚就会省掉很多麻烦,更与提倡的节约和谐社会协调了……

没有婚姻的人生就不幸福了吗?歌坛天王刘德华不是至今未婚吗?但是他仍然过的非常幸福啊,对于陪他度过了十几年的朱丽倩时,他说道:“我们彼此都很接受现在的相处方法,因为很舒服很自然,根本不用想太多。”舒服自然,这就是生活啊,为什么非要结婚呢?

前国务院副总理吴仪不是也未婚吗?她的事业和生活不是也很不错吗!

一辈子不结婚的人很多,其原因也不同,如精神恋爱的鼻祖柏拉图,因追求精神恋爱而单身一生。英国伟大物理学家牛顿因一生致力于科学的研究,一生并没有get marry 但却影响了整个人类!著名哲学家金岳霖先生因痴情与一代才女林微音而选择终生不娶,其精神并非现在的人可以明了。

在我看来,结婚与否并不重要,已婚和未婚只是一个标签,就像问问你是哪里的人?这个问题可能会影响很多方面,但都不会是重要的地方。所有事情的关键只有一点,就是本质,或者称做本身,本身快乐,于结婚与否又有何干?自身修养的高低也不是水土所能给予的。

Get marry or not ?这不是个问题!

文已至此,把英文也附上吧!

Marriage, as if it is a necessity. Is an end-result is a combination of both the performance of the soul. In ancient times, get married and have children is "the arrangement" a kind of performance, after all, "there are three unfilial, no major post-" and it seems that marriage is to carry on the family line. At the time, there is not much of marriage and love relationship is a relationship purely a constraint, a kind of affirmation of identity.
The marriage is now the majority of people think it is a crystallization of love. They look forward to a long life together for a long time, so they chose to form a family. Marriage has become a kind of hope he door.
There is another part of the marriage from the old to the emptiness is, after all, there is a saying called "bring up their children to old age." Can not take care of themselves until they are afraid of the day, unaccompanied and unattended.
But now the phenomenon of divorce, more and more, some people chose not to get married, they think marriage is a form of cohabitation is not marriage can still be children. If it is found that living together and unpleasant, and also very easy to separate. There is no "marriage certificate" no one who can not restrict the freedom of what each other do not need their responsibilities and obligations. In addition, marriage to invite friends and relatives, before big feast, it is some of extravagance and waste, not to marry a lot of trouble will be saved, but also to promote the conservation and harmonious society to coordinate the ... ...
Not a happy marriage life is not it? Heavenly king Andy Lau is not music you still single? But he still had a very well-being, ah, to accompany him for more than ten years spent zhuliqian, he said: "We are to accept each other to get along now because it is natural and comfortable, simply do not want too much." Comfortable Naturally, this is life, ah, why marry?
Former Vice Premier Wu Yi also unmarried is not it? Her career and life is also very good is not it!
Married life is not a lot of different reasons, such as the originator of the spirit of Platonic love, the spirit of love and the pursuit of a single lifetime. Newton United Kingdom because of the great physicist's lifetime commitment to scientific research, life did not get marry but it affects the whole of humanity! A result of a well-known philosopher, Mr. Jin Yuelin Lin talented woman infatuated with the generation of micro-sound chosen not to marry for life, the spirit of the people can not understand now.
In my opinion, marriage is not important or not, married and unmarried is just a label, just like to ask people where you are? This problem may affect many aspects, but they will not is an important place. Only the key to everything that nature, or called themselves, their own happiness, in marriage or not there Got to Do? The level of self-cultivation can not be given water and soil.
Get marry or not? This is not a problem!

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