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What is home?

(2007-03-15 23:03:00)
分类: 爱友亲,情感人生
家,一个多么亲切的字眼。无论是谁都会经意或不经意地提起它。每当“家”字从口中飘出,是那么亲切,那么温馨。无论战火纷飞,还是和平安定;无论烈日当空,还是寒风彻骨;无论欣喜若狂,还是忧心忡忡,想起家来,心头便少了一份不安和忧愁,多了一份宁静与温暖。无疑,每个人都无时无刻不为自己的家所梦魂萦绕,或喜或悲倾注着全部的爱。
Home, a what warm word so.Regardless is who will pay close attention to or pay no attention ground to bring up it.Whenever"home" word floats from, is so warm, so warm and fragrant.Regardless the battle fire fall thick and fast, or stabilize peaceably;Regardless scorching sun overhead, is still a cold wind chills man to the bone;Regardless jubilantly happy, still be worry, the reminded of home comes, the at heart was then little one is uneasy and worry, having another one quite and warm.Doubtless, everyone all the time not for himself of the home linger around the dream soul, or pleased or sad pour into all loves.

  家是什么?社会学家说家是社会的最小细胞;婚姻学家说家是风雨相依的两人世界;文学家说家是宝盖下面养着一群猪。究竟什么是家呢,许多人认为这是一个不值得思考的问题。那么先让我们来听一个故事吧。
What is the home ?Sociologist saying home is most social cellule;The marriage learns a home two human life fieldses which say a home to is rains and winds to depend on mutually;Author's saying a home is below a treasure cover to keep a group of pigs.Actually what is home, many people think this to is the problem of an unworthy thinking.Let so and first we to listen to a story.

  有一个富翁醉倒在他的别墅外面,他的保安扶起他说: “先生,让我扶你回家吧! ”富翁反问保安: “家?!我的家在哪里?你能扶我回得了家吗?”。保安大惑不解,指着不远处的别墅说: “那不是你的家么?”富翁指了指自己的心口窝,又指了指不远处的那栋豪华别墅,一本正经的,断断续续地回答说: “那,那不是我的家,那只是我的房屋。”
There is lying paralyzed by drink a rich man outside his villa, his public security starts to hand him to say: "Sir, let me hand you to go home! "The rich man counter-questions public security: "Home?!Where is my home ?Can your canning hand me return to home?".Public security greatly puzzled, the villa which points at not distance says: "Is not that your home ?"The rich man pointed to point an own center of the chest nest, and then pointed to point not that luxurious villa of distance, in all seriousness of, break continuously and continuously an answer to say: "That, that isn't my home, that is just my house."

  由上面这个故事不难看出家不是一个简单的概念,而是值得我们每个人深思的问题,家不是房屋,不是彩电,不是冰箱,不是物质堆砌起来的空间。物质的丰富固然可以给我们一点感官的快感。但那是转眼即逝的。试想,在那个空间中,如果充满暴力和冷战,同床异梦,貌合神离,家,将不成为其家。而成为一个争斗的战场。别墅,汽车,不过是这个现代化的战场中的悲剧的摆设品罢了。难怪有一些大款自我解嘲道: “我穷得只剩下钱了!”
From top this story isn't difficult to see a home isn't a simple concept, but worthy of our everybody think deeply of problem, the home isn't a house, isn't a color television, isn't a refrigerator, isn't the space that material piles up.Material of abundant can give us some pleasant sensation of sense organs surely.But that turns an eye to die namely.Just think, in that space, if be filled with violence and Cold War, have different dreams in the same bed, outwardly united actually alienated, house, won't become its home.But become a battlefield for fighting.Villa, car, however is the decoration article of the tragedy in the battlefield of this modernization just.No wonder that there is some big rich to find excuse to console oneself a way: "I was poor to get to leave money!"

  既然家不是财富堆砌起来的空间。那么家到底是什么呢?家在那里??第二个故事将给我们较好的提示。
Now that home the space which isn't a wealth to pile up.So what is the home exactly?Is the home over there??The second story will give us the better hint.

  这是一个催人泪下的故事,它发生在南非。在南非的种族分裂内战时期,许许多多的家族备受战乱之苦,支离破碎,房屋被摧毁,人民被屠杀,有一个大家庭原来有几十口人,最后只剩下一个老祖母和一个小孙女了,这个老祖母年事已高,病入膏肓,就等到天堂报到了。再活下去真没意思。但当她得知小孙女还在人间,老祖母便决心要找到她的小孙女,要不然,她睡不着,吃不香。为了找到她的小孙女,她历尽千辛万苦。辗转反侧数万里,找遍了非洲大陆,最后一刻,她终于找到了她的小孙女,她激动地、紧紧地和小孙女拥抱在一起,这时这个老祖母说了一句意味深长的话: “到家了!”老祖母不缺钱, 不缺财产。在她的心中,她需要爱她的亲人。需要那份特别的真情实感,两个相互牵挂的人就是家啊!家在这里上升为一种信仰,一种宗教,一种支撑老人活下去的精神力量。概括的说家是爱的聚合体,试看天下之家,皆为爱而聚,无爱而散。
This is a story which urges a person to shed tears, it takes place in South Africa.Split up civil war in the race of South Africa period, allow much more households to enjoy a war disorderly bitterness, fragmented and disorganized, the house is destroyed, the people are massacred, having a big family to have several ten people person originally, at last just only one left old grandmother and a little granddaughter, this the old grandmother is advanced in age, on the brink of death, wait until heaven check in.Again live bottom really dull.But when she knows a little granddaughter to return among the living, old grandmother then the decision want to find out her little granddaughter, otherwise, she cans not sleep, eating not fragrant.For finding out her little granddaughter, she goes through many hardships.Toss about to count ten thousand inside, sought Africa greatly six, finally a moment, she found out her little granddaughter finally, she excitedly and tightly with the little granddaughter embrace each other together, this old grandmother said a meaningful words at this time: "Come home!"Old grandmother enough money, enough property.In her heart, she needs to love her close relatives.Need that special genuine feeling solid feeling, two persons who concern about mutually be home!The home rises to a kind of believe in here, a kind of religion, a kind of spirit strength which props up an old man to live to descend.Generalize of say a home is come together a body lovingly, try a home of seeing the world, all is love but gather, have no love but spread.

  寻找自己的家,在某种意义上是人类的宿命。而每个人,在本质上,都是无家可归的漂泊者。我们和浪迹天涯的人相比,只是多了一个物质的外壳。我们常常把这东西叫做“家”,但它并不总是使我们感到心灵安宁的地方。
Looking for an own home is the mankind's predestination on a certain meaning.But everybody, it is homeless to drift on water in essence and all.We compare with wave vestige the person of the limits of the earth, just having another a material of outer shell.We are usually called"home" to this thing, but it doesn't always make us feel the place of mind hospice.

  我们的家到底在哪里呢?家在本质上是一个不断更新的范畴,正应了一句禅语: “佛在心中”。家又何尝不是呢?家是一个感情的港湾,家是一个灵魂的栖息地,家是一个精神的乐园。家就是你和你家人在一起的情感的全部,而房屋等物质全部可成为“庭”就这个概念来说,后者又是微不足道的补充。正确的认识这个概念,对我们的人生是大有裨益的,它让我们不会迷失方向,不会只去追求“庭”而不去追求“家”。请珍惜家吧,珍惜我们生命中的真情实感。
Where are our home exactly?Home the category which is to renew continuously in essence, positive should a zen language: "The Buddha is in mind".Home and then did it ever is not?Home the bay which is an affection, home the habitat which is a soul, home the paradise which is a spirit.Home be you with your family together of the all of emotion, but home etc. all of the material can become "court" in regard to this concept, the latter again is insignificant complement.Right of know this concept, be of great benefit to our lifes, it will not let us lose bearing, knowing nothing about to pursuing "court" but don't pursue "home".Please cherish home, cherishing our genuine feeling in the life solid feeling.

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