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[笒兲▍妳喓嫁給┍我]

(2007-12-06 00:00:00)
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在你的一生中,真正能打动你的人,远远不止一个,都去相爱吗?这样很不现实,爱是一种用心投入的狭隘的情感,它美好但独立而排他。
    当你爱一个人的时候,便想完完整整的拥有他,包括他的思想、他的情感以及他整个人。但每一次的感动过后,你又能长久的拥有吗?没有永远不变的思想,也没有永远唯一的情感。重要的不是爱,而是欣赏。 [笒兲▍妳喓嫁給┍我]
    优秀的人身上会散发着诱人的光彩,他不仅吸引你,同时也吸引着和你同样有着鉴赏能力的人。就象美丽的风景,它的存在不是为了一座山、一片旷野,而是为了整个自然,是为了点缀这美丽的世界,是为了让更多的人去欣赏、去品味、去陶醉其间。 
    用平常心态去欣赏一个人,不同的人、不同的品味,会对同一幅景象产生不同的感觉。晶莹的雪山有着冰清玉洁的美,潺潺的小溪有着清秀自然的美,波澜壮阔的大海有着宽广豪放之美,每一种美都给人不同的震撼。
    每一个人都是有血、有肉、有灵魂的,他们的身上同样散发着不同的美,每一种美好的品质都是诱人的。任何时候,学会用欣赏的眼光去看待世界,看待你周围的人,你便会更坦然地面对一切了。 [笒兲▍妳喓嫁給┍我]
    人性的弱点就是想占有,想占有自己喜爱的一切东西。但人又是有思维的,这种思维随时都在变,没有一种情感是永恒不变的。所以,不要奢望你能拥有很多,用一种平常心态去欣赏一个人,就象欣赏一幅画一样,你会很快乐,也会很坦然。
    当我们用一种平常的心境去认识一个人、结交一个人的时候,你便会没有了一些私情杂念,你们便可以自由随意的交往,心也便会一点点的交融,真正的朋友便会在你欣赏的眼光中向你走来。友情同样是生命中不可缺少的东西,在你拥有了很多真心朋友的时候,你才会觉得生命的快乐。
In your lifetime, you can really move people, far more than one, to love? So far from reality, love is a kind of investment intentions of the narrow feelings, but it better independent and exclusive.
     When you love a person's time, would like to have the complete End him, including his thoughts, his feelings and his whole person. But each time moving beyond which you can have long? Not remain unchanged forever thinking, nor always the only emotion. Important is not love, but appreciation. [笒兲▍妳喓嫁給┍我]
     Those who will be outstanding distributed with enticing luster, he not only attract you, but also attracting and you have the same appreciation of the people. As beautiful scenery, it is not for the existence of a mountain, a wilderness, but for the whole natural is to embellishment this beautiful world, is to enable more people to enjoy, to taste, to intoxicated with the meantime.
     Used to enjoy a normal mentality, different people, different tastes, with a scene would have different feelings. Crystal hasthe snowy mountains of the United States,the creek has Qingxiu natural beauty, magnificent sea has broad, uninhibited beauty of the United States and each of the different people are shocked.
     Everyone is blood, flesh, soul, and their equally distributed on the different United States, every kind of good quality are enticing. Any time and learn to enjoy the vision to see the world, look at the people around you, you will be a moreall.
     That is the weakness of human nature to possession, to occupy all the things he loved. But people are thinking, thinking all the time of such change, a sentiment is not immutable. So, do not expect you to have many, with a mindset to enjoy a normal person, like a painting enjoy the same, you will be ve[笒兲▍妳喓嫁給┍我]ry happy, also very frankly.
     When we use a normal state of mind to get to know a person, make a person's time, you will not some personal favor ideas and personal considerations, you will be free to random contacts heart will be a little bit of blending, the real friends will in the eyes of your appreciation to you walked. Friendship is equally indispensable to life things, you really have a lot of friends, you will feel the joy of life.
 
    

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