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人世间最宝贵的——总有一次哭泣让我们瞬间长大

(2007-07-21 17:03:09)
 

 

 

《人生寄语》

 

人世间最宝贵的——总有一次哭泣让我们瞬间长大

 

    人世间最宝贵的是什么?雨果说的好:善良。“善良是历史中稀有的珍珠,善良的人几乎优于伟大的人。”

    中国传统文化历来追求一个“善”字:待人处事,强调心存善意、向善之美;与人交往,讲究与人为善、乐善好施;对己要求,主张独善其身、善心常驻。记得一位名人说过,对众人而言,惟一的权力是法律;对个人而言,惟一的权力是善良。

    我读到国外的两则小故事,心灵曾为之震撼。一则是说一场暴风雨过后,成千上万条鱼被卷到一个海滩上,一个小男孩每捡到一条便送到大海里,他不厌其烦的捡着。一位恰好路过的老人对他说:“你一天也捡不了几条。”小男孩一边捡着一边说道:“起码我捡到的鱼,它们得到了新的生命。”一时间,老人为之语塞。

    还有一则故事是发生在巴西丛林里,一位猎人射杀了一只豹后,看着这只豹竟拖着流出肠子的身躯爬了半个小时,爬到两只幼豹面前,喂了它们最后一口奶后倒了下去。看到这一幕,这位猎人流着眼泪折断了猎枪。如果说前一个故事讲的是善良的圣洁,那后一个故事中猎人的良心发现也不失为一种“善莫大焉”。

    美国作家马克·吐温称善良为一种世界通用的语言,它可以使盲人“看到”、聋子“听到”。心存善良之人,他们的心滚烫,情火热,可以驱赶寒冷,横扫阴霾。善意产生善行,同善良的人接触,往往智慧得到开启,情操变的高尚,灵魂变的纯洁,胸怀更加宽阔。与善良之人相处,不必设防,心底坦然。

    播种善良,才能收藏希望。一个人可以没有让旁人惊羡的姿容,也可以忍受“缺金少银”的日子,但离开了善良,却足以让人生搁浅和褪色——因为善良是生命的黄金。多多一些谦让、多一些宽容、多一些理解,让人们在生活中感受到美好和幸福,这是善良的人们向往、追求和实践的,也是我们具有五千年文明历史的中华民族所提倡和弘扬的。

    总有一次哭泣让我们瞬间长大

    第一次撒谎跟家里要钱时,他已读到大二。之前,他一直靠父亲每月寄来的300块钱生活费度日,虽然略显拮据,但对一个从小在贫困家庭中长大的农村孩子来说,还可以应付。他知道父母靠着几亩地赚钱的不易,而且母亲身体一直不好……但这次,他还是决定向家里张口了,因为一个女孩子。

    对于他来说,恋爱本身就是件奢侈的事,偏偏他喜欢上的,是个来自城里、家境优越的漂亮女孩。在她面前,自然,他是卑微而羞涩的,但喜欢的感觉却是难以控制和抵挡的。即使不敢表白,爱情依旧在他心底蓬勃地成长起来。为了能多一点儿时间看到她,他甚至开始去以前从未去过的小餐厅吃午饭。

……

    而他追逐的心却越发迫切。那天,他在她身后的饭桌上小口小口地吞咽着一份简单的饭菜,听到她和女友嬉笑着说,瑞泽今天可真帅,他都快成“阿迪”的代言人了。

    他不知道瑞泽是谁,但来城里两年,“阿迪”他是知道的,也曾经在电视上看过许多运动员穿那个牌子的运动装。他的心一动。

    周末,他找到了阿迪达斯专卖店,犹豫着,还是拿过一件T恤来看,自然,他先看的,是价钱。紧接着,标价牌上几个小小的数字飞快地把他打倒了,就是那件不起眼的T恤,标价竟然超过了他一个月的生活费。他飞快地将衣服放下,逃一般地离开了。

    可是爱是多么容易让一个20岁的青年冲动和盲目……

    终于还是跟家里撒了谎。第一次撒谎,他有些不安,却决定了要做。

    借口很简单,学校收取教材费。反正父母也不明白。他想,就这一次,就一次。

    信寄回去,他在忐忑中等了半个月,竟然真的收到了父亲寄来的400元钱。他把钱取出来,没有一刻停留,飞快地跑去了那家专卖店,买回了一件白色的“阿迪”T恤衫……

    他却为自己的感觉着魔了,时隔不久,他再次给家里写了信,要钱的信。然后是第三次,第四次……

    父亲特殊的回寄,是在他第六次要钱之后。这次,他没有收到父亲的汇款单,收到的,是一封不薄不厚的信件。

    父亲用了挂号寄来,信封上,是他极不工整的字,父亲识字不是太多。他不知道,在这封并不单薄的信里,父亲能跟他说些什么。

    他把信封打开,猝不及防地,一沓碎纸在他手中散落下去。他愣了一下,然后蹲下去一张张地捡,于是,他的身体便这样定格住了———他一张张捡起的,都是带着复写纸蓝色痕迹的欠条。欠条上的名字,有些他知道,有些他不知道,但后面的签名他却再熟悉不过——张德发,是父亲的名字。

    一共56张欠条,所欠数额不等,最多的600元,最少的,只有18元。欠条上的时间,从他接到录取通知书,到一个月前。除此,父亲没有多写一个字,而蹲在地上的他却已经什么都明白了。

    那个黄昏,许多人听到了这所大学一栋宿舍楼内传出的一个男孩的哭声。哭声响亮,无所顾忌。它代表着成长。

    ……他终于知道了,有些事情,他还没有权利去做;有些快乐,他还没有权利去享受;而有些责任,他已经必须去承担……。

 

 

 

 

 

Intrinsically valuable

——there are always a crying Let us grow up an instant.

 

Intrinsically valuable -- there are always a crying Let us grow up an instant.

Earthling is the most precious? Hugo said the good : good. "Kindhearted history is a rare pearl, kind-hearted people almost better than a great person."

Chinese traditional culture has always pursued a "good" characters : our behavior towards others, emphasized feel goodwill, benevolence beauty; Relate to people, stress and human goodness and generosity; right itself, advocates immune Permanent mercy. Remember a celebrity said, the right of everyone concerned, the only power is the law; For an individual, the only power is good.

I read the two foreign stories, and who's soul shock. One is that after a storm, and thousands of fish have been up in a beach, a little boy would each pick up one to the sea, and he tired of heaven. On a stopover for the elderly said to him : "You can not one day be seized several." While instances of small boys side and said : "At least I picked up the fish, they get a new life." one time, the elderly do say anything.

There is a story that takes place in the Brazilian jungle, a hunter shot and killed a leopard, Seeing this leopard has dragged outflow intestines body of a half-hour climb, climb two before David Leopard, Hey their milk after a final collapse indefinitely. Looking at this picture, the hunters tears breaking shotguns. If a story before about the kind of saintliness, That after a story of conscience hunters also can be regarded as a "good thing."

American writer Mark Twain said good as a common language in the world, it can enable the blind to "see" and deaf "hear." Feel good people, their hearts boiling hot, fiery intelligence, can drive away the cold sweeping the haze. Goodwill generated good deeds with good people contact, often wisdom to be opened, sentiments changed noble soul variable purity. more broad-mindedness. And kindness to get along without security, the bottom frankly.

Sowing kindness, hope can collections. One can not let the appearance of others Jingyi, can also suffer from "lack of the small silver" days, but left the good-hearted, have been sufficient to run aground and bleaching life -- life is good because the gold. Lot some humility and a little more tolerance, more understanding, to make people feel better life and happiness This is the kind-hearted people aspire to pursue and practice, We also have the 5,000-year history of civilization of the Chinese nation and carry forward by the advocates.

There are always crying for a moment we grow up

The first lies with the family for money, he has read his sophomore. Before that, he has to rely on his father's monthly 300 sent money to make ends meet living expenses, although slightly constraints, But for a growing up in poor families grow up rural children, but also to meet. With his parents know several acres is not easy to make money, but the mother has bad health ... but this time He decided to tell appetite, as a girl.

For him, love is in itself pieces of luxury, what he liked in the past, is from the city, families superior beautiful girl. Before her, naturally, he is humble and shy, but likes the feeling that is difficult to control and resist. Even dare not tell the truth, love is still in the bottom of his heart he vigorously grow up. To be able to see a bit more of her time, he even began to have never before visited a small restaurant to eat lunch. ...

He has the heart to pursue the more urgent. On that day, he's behind in her small dining table, small mouth to mouth swallowing with a simple meal and hear her laughter and my girlfriend and said, Ruize can Zhenshuai today, he will soon become "Adi" a spokesman for.

Ruize he did not know who it is, but to the city two years, "Adi" He is aware of that, It had seen on television many athletes wear which brand of sportswear. His heart a move.

Weekends, he found the adidas store, a hesitation, or any money for a T-shirt, naturally, look at him, is the price. Shortly thereafter, the price on several small licensing figures quickly, knocking him down, it is unremarkable pieces of T-shirts, the price was more than he had a month's pay. He is racing to lay down their clothes, the general fled to left.

But love is how easily a 20-year-old youth impulsive and reckless ...

Finally with the home or lied. The first liar, he was a bit uneasy, but decided to do.

 Excuse is simple, school text books. Anyway, the parents do not understand. He would like to, on this occasion, on a one.

To return the letter, he wait anxiously for two weeks, has indeed sent his father had received 400 yuan. He money is taken out, there is no moment to stay, to quickly go to a home that specialty stores, they bought a white "Adi" T-shirts ...

He has a feeling for his obsession, and not long after, he again wrote to the home, money to the letter. Then the third, fourth ...

Father sent to a special, in his sixth minor after money. This time, he did not receive his father's money orders, received is not a thickness of not less than the letter.

Registered with the father sent, on the envelope, he was very neat word, the father of literacy is not too much. He did not know that this is not insubstantial to the letter, he said his father managed to anything.

He opened the envelope, taken by surprise, gave the shredding scattered in his hands on. He distracted for a moment, then I'd have lasted one Zhang to the seizure, therefore, His body is so visible -- he lived one Zhang picked up, all with traces of blue carbon paper IOU slip. IOU slip on the name, some he knew and some he did not know, but behind the signature he was very familiar -- Zhang hair. the father's name.

A total of 56 IOU slip, the outstanding amount from a maximum of 600 yuan, at least, only 18 yuan. IOU slip the time, he received from the admission notice, a month ago. In addition, his father did not have to write a word, and squat on the ground, but he has nothing understand.

Evening, many people heard of this university dormitory building one a boy came out of the house. Cry loud, cynical. It represents growth.

... He finally know, there are some things that he has no right to do so. Some happy, he has no right to enjoy; And some responsibility, He must have to bear ....

 

 

 

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